Not My Father's Son

A Memoir

De: Alan Cumming

Narrado por: Alan Cumming

*Read by Alan Cumming himself*

NEW YORK TIMES BESTSELLER

In his unique and engaging voice, the acclaimed actor of stage and screen shares the emotional story of his complicated relationship with his father and the deeply buried family secrets that shaped his life and career.

A beloved star of stage, television, and film—“one of the most fun people in show business” (Time magazine)—Alan Cumming is a successful artist whose diversity and fearlessness is unparalleled. His success masks a painful childhood growing up under the heavy rule of an emotionally and physically abusive father—a relationship that tormented him long into adulthood.

When television producers in the UK approached him to appear on a popular celebrity genealogy show in 2010, Alan enthusiastically agreed. He hoped the show would solve a family mystery involving his maternal grandfather, a celebrated WWII hero who disappeared in the Far East. But as the truth of his family ancestors revealed itself, Alan learned far more than he bargained for about himself, his past, and his own father.

With ribald humor, wit, and incredible insight, Alan seamlessly moves back and forth in time, integrating stories from his childhood in Scotland, his experiences today as a film, television, and theater star, and the shocking revelations uncovered while investigating his family’s past. Equal parts memoir, family mystery, and tale of resilience, Not My Father’s Son is at times suspenseful, deeply moving, and wickedly funny—sure to make readers laugh even as it breaks their hearts.

A Phoenix Rises From the Ashes

I was always fascinated by how believably Alan Cumming (a Scotsman) could play an American, Jewish political consultant on the Good Wife so I had to read his memoir to see what he was all about. Turns out that he is a terrific writer who can weave a down right crazy tale. It is amazing that this brilliant actor was brought up under such terribly abusive circumstances and was still able to become a hugely talented actor. His story is a testament to survival and ultimately thriving despite the worst of circumstances.

What a journey! Must Read!

I would like to thank Alan Cumming for sharing his story. It really meant a lot to me as I can relate very well. You Alan, have really given me hope and a focus for dealing with my own demons. Once again thank you for your courage in telling your story!

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What was one of the most memorable moments of Not My Father's Son: A Memoir?

A compelling story that is beautifully written and told, I was mesmerized. My taste in visual entertainment (TV & movies) is not sophisticated, so I wasn't familiar with Alan Cumming the actor. None-the-less, his story is one that everyone should hear. Triumph over evil and a childhood that should have left him rocking back and forth in an institution and all but forgotten that is NOT how Alan Cumming lives his life today. And the comparisons and contrasts of his life and the generations before him add up to a riveting story.

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If you love a good mystery and want to revel in the miracle and fortitude of the human spirit - you'll love this memoir.

Fabulous & so honest! (A must listen!!)

I love Alan Cumming! After listening to his memoir, spoken by 'himself', I love him even MORE!!!
This is an honest, deep and, often, very painful listen, but worth every minute!!!
To have survived such a brutal abusive childhood & come out as such a positive,successful person is a tribute to the strength he possess. Kudos, Alan Cumming!!!
(BTW, I love his real Scottish accent, too!!!)

Sucks you in - a pleasant surprise

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This is less a celebrity memoir (thankfully) than a slice of life drama of a son coming to grips with a loutish father, a childhood of abuse, and a complex lineage. Cumming is a gifted storyteller who wisely keeps a narrow focus and a brisk pace to a narrative which flashes back and forth between circa 2010 and the past. In some ways, this might be mistaken for a stage play, or even a Spalding Gray-ish monologue. Cumming is not afraid to share raw emotion and the interactions he recounts with his father bristle. The story is enhanced by Cumming’s own narration which conveys an authenticity which brings to life the events. You don’t have to know Cumming, or be a fan, to get sucked in by this brisk and worthy read.