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Why Does He Do That?
- Inside the Minds of Angry and Controlling Men
- Narrated by: Peter Berkrot
- Length: 13 hrs and 32 mins
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Coupling stories of abused women and abusive men from her own case studies, Patricia Evans here gives you the tools you need to transform your relationship. Most important, she assures you that such a transformation is possible—given the right circumstances. Evans also helps you determine if your abuser really has changed—or if he’s merely creating the illusion of change. And if he hasn’t changed, Evans helps you decide whether it’s time to leave the relationship—and what to do when it is.
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A gift to the emotionally violated
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Do you know one of these men? The catch-me-if-you-can lover...Phil's romantic and passionate one minute, distant and cold the next. The deviously manipulative coworker or boss...Jack denies resenting Nora's rapid rise in the company, but when they're assigned to work together on a project, he undermines her. The obstructionist, procrastinating husband...Bob keeps telling his wife he'll finish the painting job he began years ago, but he never seems to get around to it. These are all classic examples of the passive aggressive man.
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A good review of the PA type man
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5 Types of People Who Can Ruin Your Life
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When a high-conflict person has one of five common personality disorders - borderline, narcissistic, paranoid, antisocial, or histrionic - they can lash out in risky extremes of emotion and aggression. And once an HCP decides to target you, they're hard to shake. But there are ways to protect yourself. Using empathy-driven conflict management techniques, Bill Eddy, a lawyer and therapist with extensive mediation experience, will teach you to spot warning signs of the five high-conflict personalities in others and in yourself.
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This book should be required reading.
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eye opening to say the least
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No brainer ideas that we can forget
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2 out of 5 stars
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Dissapointed
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Loved it!
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Is someone else's problem your problem? If, like so many others, you've lost sight of your own life in the drama of tending to a loved one’s self-destructive behavior, you may be codependent—and you may find yourself in this book. With personal reflections, exercises, and instructive stories drawn from Beattie’s own life and the lives of those she’s counseled, Codependent No More helps you break old patterns and maintain healthy boundaries, and offers a clear and achievable path to healing, hope, freedom, and happiness.
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great book with unbearable reader
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Performance4.5 out of 5 stars 79
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3 out of 5 stars
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I'm a Christian
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Controlling People
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Performance4.5 out of 5 stars 288
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In Controlling People, best-selling author Patricia Evans tackles the "controlling personality" and reveals how and why these people try to run other people's lives. She also explains the compulsion that makes them continue this behavior - even as they alienate others and often lose those they love. Should you ever find yourself in the thrall of someone close to you, Controlling People is here to give you the wisdom, power, and comfort you need to be a stronger, happier, and more independent person.
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5 out of 5 stars
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EXTRAORDINARY
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Overall4.5 out of 5 stars 490
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Performance4.5 out of 5 stars 421
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In Rethinking Narcissism listeners will learn that there's far more to narcissism than its reductive invective would imply. The truth is that narcissists (all of us) fall on a spectrum somewhere between utter selflessness on the one side and arrogance and grandiosity on the other. A healthy middle exhibits a strong sense of self.
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5 out of 5 stars
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Great info, but proceed with caution
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Before It's Too Late
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Overall5 out of 5 stars 31
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If you sense that your child is seriously troubled, you may feel bewildered, helpless, ineffective. How can you stop your child from throwing away his or her life? How can you avoid thinking that you've failed as a parent? In this newly revised and expanded edition of the classic guide Before It's Too Late, clinical psychologist Stanton E. Samenow explains how to break the useless cycle of blame and take corrective action.
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5 out of 5 stars
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special education teacher
- By Amazon Customer on 03-02-18
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Hard to hear but valuable to the soul!
- By Jenna Giberson on 05-13-20
By: Meg Kennedy Dugan, and others
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No Visible Bruises
- What We Don't Know About Domestic Violence Can Kill Us
- By: Rachel Louise Snyder
- Narrated by: Rachel Louise Snyder
- Length: 12 hrs and 19 mins
- Unabridged
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Overall5 out of 5 stars 878
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Performance5 out of 5 stars 774
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Story5 out of 5 stars 765
We call it domestic violence. We call it private violence. Sometimes we call it intimate terrorism. But whatever we call it, we generally do not believe it has anything at all to do with us, despite the World Health Organization deeming it a 'global epidemic'. In No Visible Bruises, journalist Rachel Louise Snyder gives context for what we don't know we're seeing. She frames this urgent and immersive account of the scale of domestic violence in our country around key stories that explode the common myths....
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5 out of 5 stars
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Not yet ready
- By Alyssa E. on 05-17-19
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Out of the Fog
- Moving from Confusion to Clarity After Narcissistic Abuse
- By: Dana Morningstar
- Narrated by: Dana Morningstar
- Length: 8 hrs and 59 mins
- Unabridged
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Overall5 out of 5 stars 1,271
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Performance5 out of 5 stars 1,062
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Story5 out of 5 stars 1,052
The FOG is an acronym that stands for "Fear, Obligation, and Guilt". These three emotions are often how narcissists, sociopaths, and other types of emotional manipulators go about controlling others.
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5 out of 5 stars
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THE best book I’ve ever read on the subject
- By Alexandria Filipowski on 10-23-19
By: Dana Morningstar
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Healing from Hidden Abuse
- A Journey Through the Stages of Recovery from Psychological Abuse
- By: Shannon Thomas LCSW
- Narrated by: Wendy Tremont King
- Length: 6 hrs and 26 mins
- Unabridged
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Overall4.5 out of 5 stars 1,132
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Performance4.5 out of 5 stars 940
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Within every community, toxic people can be found hiding in families, couples, companies, and places of worship. The cryptic nature of psychological abuse involves repetitious mind games played by one individual or a group of people. Psychological abuse leaves no bruises. There are no broken bones. There are no holes in the walls. The bruises, brokenness, and holes are held tightly within the target of the abuse.
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1 out of 5 stars
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Proceed with caution
- By Kamel on 10-17-18
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Trauma Bonding: Understanding and Overcoming the Trauma Bond in a Narcissistic Relationship
- Narcissistic Relationship Recovery, Book 1
- By: Lauren Kozlowski
- Narrated by: Stephanie Murphy
- Length: 1 hr and 37 mins
- Unabridged
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Overall5 out of 5 stars 448
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Performance5 out of 5 stars 400
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Story5 out of 5 stars 395
If you're constantly feeling on edge, forever working to appease your spouse to little avail and feel like you're constantly being chipped away at with their abusive behavior, then I can understand how emotionally shattering it feels to live this way. If, in the same breath, it breaks your heart to even consider leaving them because you can't imagine life without them, then I can understand that feeling too - because I was trauma bonded to my abusive ex.
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1 out of 5 stars
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Not relevant for everyone dealing with trauma bonding
- By Alesia Braund on 11-18-20
By: Lauren Kozlowski
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Becoming the Narcissist's Nightmare
- How to Devalue and Discard the Narcissist While Supplying Yourself
- By: Shahida Arabi
- Narrated by: Julie McKay
- Length: 19 hrs and 53 mins
- Unabridged
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Overall4.5 out of 5 stars 916
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Performance4.5 out of 5 stars 786
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Story4.5 out of 5 stars 780
Although clinical research has been conducted on narcissism as a disorder, less is known about its effects on victims who are in toxic relationships with partners with Narcissistic Personality Disorder. Individuals with this disorder engage in chronic devaluation and manipulation of their partners, a psychological and emotional phenomenon known as "narcissistic abuse". Unfortunately, the full extent of what narcissistic abuse entails is not taught in any psychology class or diagnostic manual.
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5 out of 5 stars
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Finally
- By zero on 12-08-16
By: Shahida Arabi
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- Fern DragonStar
- 08-14-19
Excellent!
I've recently started addressing the abuse I've suffered. A friend and therapist recommended this book and it has helped tremendously. This book is a must read for anyone whether they are abused, the abuser or a bystander.
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- Amazon Customer
- 05-20-18
Excellent!
Every person needs to read this book! It is life changing information!! I want to share what I have learned.
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- Ann Dahlen
- 11-29-22
So empowering to hear others stories
Validation! It doesnt have to be physical to have a traumatic effect. Appreciate the author reading it himself, the inflections are all at the right time. Women need help from men like this, a big Thank you!
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- Momma Monica
- 01-19-23
I needed this!
This book opened my eyes. I needed to hear a man, especially who has so much experience counseling men, hold men accountable and debunk all the myths and excuses for their bully behaviors. Thank you. Even though I don't have bruises, he still hurts me and my pain is valid. Thank you.
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- Alex
- 02-09-23
very useful read
I highly recommend reading this regardless of your age/gender/sex/sexuality! Very useful information and delivered clearly and concisely.
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- Anonymous User
- 05-25-23
Completely opened my eyes to the abuse I was experiencing
Leaving an abusive relationship especially with a child involved is no easy task but this book opened my eyes and gave me the knowledge to know leaving was the right choice. Things that I had felt that were wrong but never thought twice about till reading now which showed me how bad they really were. Now seeing things for in a different light I won’t go back and I would recommend this book to someone who is trying to leave an abusive relationship.
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- Valynne Jessop
- 01-11-23
Best book for those in unequal partnership
If you’re looking for a book to figure out what’s going on in your relationship, THIS is it. People don’t obsessively look for answers when there are no problems. I appreciate the narration and inflection. It’s spot on. Highly recommend this book over ALL others available. Owning the audio and paperback is great since some stories are yours and mine almost exactly. They say the first sign of abuse is confusion. I hope this book it the second step. It’ll save years of misery.
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- JLK
- 08-16-23
Everyone should read this
Deeply informative about how abusers operate and how it's deeply rooted in the patriarchy. Debunks all the myths around abuse.
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- Sade-KingsCrown
- 12-22-23
A Powerful Book
Spoke to & calmed my soul when I needed it the most! I’d highly recommend it to anyone who feels or is currently going through a Domestic Abuse!
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- Beatrice
- 12-05-23
Illuminating
This book has put a lot of names to a lot of things I have observed but struggle to identify, and it has been nothing short of enlightening and relieving to know that I wasn't just thinking too hard about my situations and or that I wasn't actually going crazy. Thank you for this.
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