Partner Mental

You try to stay calm. To communicate better. To not seem “too needy.” But somehow, the more emotionally invested you become, the more unstable the relationship starts to feel. One moment they seem close and connected.

You can describe what is happening. You just can't name it. You can say he's hot and cold. You can say he's avoidant. You can say "walking on eggshells" and watch your friend's face change, briefly, before she tells you the thing she read on Instagram that didn't apply to him. You have been putting language to this for years and none of it has landed where the actual problem is. The actual problem is not a word you've been missing. It's a pattern — with a shape, a logic, a sequence — that you have not been able to see clearly because you've been inside it too long.

Are you sick and tired of the "hot-and-cold" cycles where closeness is immediately followed by distance and silence? Have you tried countless ways to "fix" the connection, only to have your partner withdraw further? Do you finally want to say goodbye to the fear of abandonment and discover a way to feel confident again—regardless of how your partner responds? If so, then this book is for you. Imagine how you’ll feel once you can stay emotionally anchored in yourself, and how your life could change when you no longer walk on eggshells.

INSTANT NATIONAL BESTSELLER From the mental health advocates Cate Osborn (@Catieosaurus) and Erik Gude (@ErikGude) comes a modern and refreshingly honest guide to managing ADHD for adults, “that gives solid information and practical tips in a format that you can actually consume” (KC Davis...

Do you have a narcissist, sociopath, or psychopath in your life, or think that you might? Do you continually feel anxious around someone in your life, but can’t pinpoint why?...Perhaps you know you are being manipulated or abused, but don’t know how to make it stop. The Narcissist’s Playbook can help. You can take back your life.

The Covert Passive Aggressive Narcissist: Finding Healing After Hidden Emotional and Psychological Abuse is the most comprehensive and helpful audiobook on the topic of covert narcissism. This type of narcissism is one of the most damaging forms because the abuse is so hidden and so insidious. You can be in a relationship that can last for decades and not realize you are being psychologically and emotionally controlled, manipulated, and abused.

You know the feeling. Something small happens — an unreturned text, a flat tone of voice, a meeting you weren't included in and within seconds you're certain. Certain that you're unwanted. That this confirms what you've always suspected. That it's only a matter of time. And the worst part isn't the certainty. It's that you can't think your way out of it. You know, somewhere, that the reaction is too big for the cause. But knowing doesn't help. The flood comes anyway.

DEALING WITH ADHD HUSBAND. THE P.A.R.T.N.E.R. SYSTEM. Practical Ways to Stop the Mental Load, Reduce Conflict, Improve Follow-Through, and Rebuild a Balanced Marriage. Does loving him mean managing him? If you're married to a man with ADHD, you already know the exhausting math: he means every promise, and somehow you're still the one who remembers, reminds, and finishes what he started. Dealing With ADHD Husband is a practical, compassionate guide for wives who are tired of carrying the mental load alone — without excusing what needs to change, and without becoming their husband's manager...

Breaking up in normal circumstances is hard enough. If you throw a narcissist into the equation, it makes it all the more difficult. If you're looking to listen to this audiobook, you're likely heartbroken and looking for some guidance, support, or understanding. As someone who has been through the hell of a narcissistic relationship, I can offer you all three, and I hope this audiobook can help you make sense of this heartbreaking time.

Being in a relationship without knowing how to share your feelings and receive your partner’s feelings in useful ways is like jumping into a pool without knowing how to swim. You can flail around all you want, but it’s not going to keep you afloat for very long—you need to be able to move in any direction at will. Like swimming, knowing how to share your feelings and respond to your partner's feelings will move your relationship in the direction you want: toward more intimacy, closeness, connection, and trust.

A practical, insightful and much-needed guidebook for people with depression and those who love them.

Hurtful criticism. Nasty "jokes". Angry outbursts for seemingly no reason. Verbal attacks toward your innocent comments. Stone-cold silent treatment. Manipulative actions to ensure you don't know if you're coming or going. Sound familiar? The phrase to summarize the above abhorrent treatment is narcissistic rage. The words "narcissistic" and "rage" are bad enough by themselves. When you merge them together, it becomes a force to be reckoned with; a volatile tornado that can emotionally destroy anything that dares enter its path.

“A game changing resource for those seeking to reevaluate their relationships.” —Publishers Weekly Let go of your toxic partner, heal your emotional wounds, and set healthy boundaries for future relationships with this step-by-step guide to overcoming toxic relationships. From red flags to...

Bipolar disorder is a condition that affects peoples' relationships with others as much as it affects their own mental state. When one person in a couple is experiencing the extreme highs and lows of a disorder like this one, it's impossible for their partner not to feel the strain, too. Dr. Bloch, Dr. Golden, and Nancy Rosenfeld explain what's normal, what's not, what might change, and what definitely won't. By understanding the reality of bipolar and what it means for a relationship, couples will relate to each other better today and plan for a successful future together tomorrow.

What does it mean to be an adult in a relationship? How can you stop unproductive patterns and adopt ways of relating that bring you closer together? If you want to be an accountant, you learn the profession in school. If you want to get better at a sport, you work with a coach. If you want to be in a relationship, you...well, you're supposed to just jump in and give it your best shot. Most of us never learned what it means to be an adult in a relationship. We brought our conditioned ways of interacting into a partnership only to find our automated responses aren't effective...

Unlock the Power Within: Transform Your Life and Reclaim Your Voice with Coercive Relationships: Find the Answers You Seek. You didn't lose yourself all at once. It happened slowly, quietly, until the person you used to be felt like a stranger. This compassionate, clinically grounded guide gives survivors of coercive control the tools to understand what happened, reclaim their identity, and begin real healing. Jennifer C. Parker, a seasoned social worker and therapist, walks you through the patterns of emotional abuse, the trauma symptoms behind your confusion, and the proven path forward. ...

More than 60 million people have been in a pathological love relationship with someone who has an impaired conscience. Using the stories of survivors and social psychological research on compliance, cognitive dissonance, and thought control, Why Can't I Just Leave? explains how relationships with pathological partners can create impossible dilemmas that trap you in a distorted dream state and hijack your thoughts and emotions. Learn what those who are conscience-impaired don't want you to know and find out how to wake up and walk out of your partner's invisible prison forever.

A manual that directly speaks to what it means to be a dad today, driving a movement that explores modern interpretations and diverse perspectives of fatherhood. Fatherhood will change you. That much is certain. But whilst it can never be under your control, it can be under your influence. The...

A riveting, cathartic literary debut about love, addiction, and what it does to us. Wouldn’t I do anything to reverse my loss, the absence of him? In the first scene of this provocative gut-punch of a novel, our unnamed narrator meets a magnetic writer named Ciaran and falls, against her...

You already know something is wrong—but you can't stop. The waiting. The overanalyzing. The 3am spiral that turns one unanswered text into proof you'll be alone forever. You've loved harder, explained more clearly, and made yourself smaller—and it still isn't enough. The cycle keeps repeating, and somewhere beneath the exhaustion, you're starting to wonder if the problem is you. It isn't. But the solution isn't finding the right person. It's becoming free of the pattern itself.