Communicate Your Feelings (Without Starting a Fight)

What to Say and What Not to Say to Your Partner

De: Nic Saluppo

Narrado por: Colin Kibler

When trying to share your feelings, does it end up in a fight more times than not? Do you want constructive discussions with your partner that lead to deeper connection and a healthier relationship?

Most of us never learned how to effectively share our feelings or receive the feelings of our partner. The good news is that it’s a skill you can learn.

Being in a relationship without knowing how to share your feelings and receive your partner’s feelings in useful ways is like jumping into a pool without knowing how to swim. You can flail around all you want, but it’s not going to keep you afloat for very long—you need to be able to move in any direction at will.

Like swimming, knowing how to share your feelings and respond to your partner's feelings will move your relationship in the direction you want: toward more intimacy, closeness, connection, and trust.

In Communicate Your Feelings (Without Starting a Fight), you’ll get:

• Ways to avoid escalation so you can be unafraid of a discussion spinning out of control
• The happiness and assurance that comes with knowing your relationship is heading in the right direction
• Ways to respond to your partner’s feelings so you can gain their trust once again
• 13 communication techniques so you can be confident approaching discussions with your partner
• Ways to clarify your thoughts and feelings, increasing the likelihood that your partner will understand you

Now is the time to have a happier relationship, so begin applying these techniques today.

©2020 Nic Saluppo (P)2024 Nic Saluppo

Excellent Skill to learn

Great book , ive learned alot , that i actually didnt even know i reccomend this book

Great tidbits

Loved the clinical and personal examples used. Will listen again for the suggestions. Thank you.

Easy listening and solid advice

I’m terrible at remembering information from podcasts etc. This was done so concisely that it was a pleasure to take in and remember. Thank you.

Perfect

The book is a quick read. The author is concise and straight to the point on each topic. It made it a much more enjoyable read with out time wasting filler to add to the volume of the book.

Engaging and thought provoking

This was very clear, and it got the message across in a way that I think most people will understand. I found the content relatable and made me take a closer look at how my emotions fuel my actions and communication in my relationship. This book also made me consider my husband's perspective more thoughtfully. The narrator reads this as if talking directly to you and gives inflection well. I will be recommending this book to other couples I know as well as buying a physical copy so that I can highlight the parts that best speak to me for future reference

Helps you identify

This is the second audible book I’ve listened to in order to improve my relationship communication skills. I think the book is laid out in an easy to understand way and actually has a lot of good realistic examples and strategies to use. I think just listening or reading this with an open mind would be helpful to anyone looking to improve their relationship and communication skills. Even if it’s not a romantic relationship it would still help.

Amazing tips!

Thank you so much for this book. It was so relatable and helpful with a few laughs along the way. I can’t wait to listen/read outsmart negative thinking!

clear and to the points

This book is easy to listen to, provides information and ideas in an efficient and well articulated way.

Easy to understand

I loved the examples he gave in each situation they are very relatable. I’m going to ask my husband to read it.

A good read

My husband and I struggle with communication and need to change it asap. This book has most definitely helped me in communicating my feelings and thoughts to my husband but of course he still needs to listen or read this book and I’m sure when he does, it’ll be a game changer for our marriage.