• Talks With Middle Adults: Unlearning Our Faith Journey Pt. 1
    Jun 18 2024


    RA and Jaquetta then share their diverse faith journeys, revealing how their distinct backgrounds shaped their spiritual paths. From RA's upbringing as a pastor's kid to Jaquetta's transient life as part of a military family, we uncover how different experiences can lead to a shared commitment to faith. We delve into the importance of discipline and consistency in maintaining spiritual practices, supported by a powerful quote from Denzel Washington and reflections on the Asbury University revival.

    In our final segments, we give a heartfelt shout-out to Reverend Jessica Morris and discuss key insights from our "Unlearning Religion" series. We emphasize the concept of integrating one's life into God's story and the pitfalls of legalism. Jaquetta opens up about overcoming self-doubt and societal pressures, sharing her journey of prayer and self-reflection. We conclude by stressing the importance of community engagement and inviting our listeners to join us on this journey of learning and unlearning together. Tune in for an enriching conversation that aims to set you on the path to greater freedom and spiritual fulfillment.

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    59 mins
  • Freedom Friday: Who Are You As A Leader?
    Jun 14 2024

    Have you ever found yourself running away from your inherent potential, simply because the weight of responsibility seemed too great? Join me on this transformative Freedom Friday episode of the Unlearned Podcast, as I reveal the pivotal moment that made me embrace my role as a leader, a role I had long resisted. Listen in to uncover how recognizing your leadership abilities, no matter how subtle or grand, can lead to a life of authenticity and impact.

    Throughout the episode, I reflect on the various forms leadership can take, whether in the workplace, at home, or within a community, and challenge you to see yourself as a leader in your own right. You’ll hear about my personal journey, spurred by an unexpected conversation with a friend, which led me to accept my leadership role and the responsibilities that come with it. Embrace your own leadership potential and discover how it can set you on a path to greater freedom and fulfillment. Don’t miss this chance to unlearn misconceptions about leadership and step into your true potential.

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    15 mins
  • Talks With Middle Adults: Unlearning Challenges of Young Leadership Pt. 2
    Jun 11 2024

    Have you ever wondered how your childhood experiences shape your leadership abilities? Explore the surprising ways Erik Erikson's theory of psychosocial development impacts your growth as a leader as we dive into how each life stage, from infancy to adulthood, influences your ability to lead effectively. We share compelling personal stories and PhD research findings, shedding light on the significant role that parents and mentors play in guiding these developmental milestones.

    Understanding the nuances between being a manager and a leader is crucial in today’s work environment. We break down the three C's of leadership—connect, communicate, create—offering actionable insights on how to navigate leadership transitions with integrity and accountability. By treating leadership as a daily practice that transcends the workplace, we discuss how embodying these principles influences personal and professional growth.

    Finally, we reflect on the importance of mentorship, personal reflection, and vision in shaping your leadership journey. Discover how the four P's—pattern, passion, position, and purpose—can guide you in evolving your leadership roles and achieving significant milestones. Through real-life examples, such as leading a gospel choir, we illustrate how aligning your vision with actionable planning can turn your dreams into reality. Tune in for an inspiring conversation packed with practical advice and profound insights.

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    1 hr and 6 mins
  • Freedom Friday: Three Essentials For Leadership
    Jun 7 2024

    This Freedom Friday join me as we rethink the fundamentals of leadership by emphasizing the power of genuine connections, clear communication, and creative strategies. We'll dig deep into how nurturing relationships and learning from others can lead to continuous personal growth and enhance our leadership abilities. Plus, discover how structuring your messages with clarity can drive meaningful action and eliminate confusion, ensuring your intentions are always understood.

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    13 mins
  • Talks With Middle Adults: Leadership Be Hard...Let's Talk About It
    Jun 4 2024

    Can effective leadership transform your team from good to great? Tune in to the Unlearned Podcast as we explore the heart of leadership with Ruth Abigail (RA) and Jaquetta. In this special two-part series, we reveal the origin story of our podcast, rooted in our mutual support and shared leadership experiences. This episode is rich with insights on preparing young leaders for the future, the art of influence, and the hurdles of navigating leadership in today’s dynamic culture.

    We provide actionable strategies for addressing team needs, such as asking team members what they require and reintroducing accountability tools. We also explore the need for emotional intelligence and empathy in fostering a healthy workplace culture, balancing familiarity with the necessary boundaries. Through personal anecdotes, we illustrate how genuine relationships, clear communication, and creativity can help leaders adapt to constant changes and better understand their teams' underlying intentions.

    Leadership is not just about managing systems; it's about nurturing human potential. We delve into the crucial elements of developing and retaining young leaders, highlighting the alarming statistic that 82% of people leave their jobs due to their direct manager. Effective communication, particularly understanding nonverbal cues and individual processing styles, is key to successful leadership. We also tackle the complexities of leadership transitions, stressing the importance of visionary leaders who can reorient their teams towards future goals. Join us as we prepare to lead with purpose, vision, and a commitment to collective progress.

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    1 hr and 18 mins
  • Freedom Friday: The Reason You Are Struggling To Communicate
    May 31 2024

    Ever found yourself paralyzed by the fear of public speaking or hesitated in crucial conversations? Imagine transforming that anxiety into confident and clear communication. Drawing from ten years of leadership, we unravel how a lack of confidence or clarity can hold young leaders back, leading to missed opportunities and unresolved conflicts. By the end, you'll not only understand how to communicate more effectively but also become a more compelling and impactful leader. Don’t miss out on learning how to conquer your communication fears and unlock your full potential.

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    15 mins
  • Talks With Middle Adults: Overcoming Fear and Embracing Vulnerability in Leadership
    May 28 2024
    Fear-driven decisions and underdeveloped leadership skills can be detrimental, but they don’t have to define your journey. Learn how to bridge the gap in leadership development and turn vulnerabilities into strengths. We delve into the significance of effective communication, the nuances of following a founder’s footsteps, and the importance of leaning into your unique contributions. Embrace the power of vulnerability and clarity in communication as we explore generational differences in workplace dynamics and how to foster supportive environments that bring out the best in every team member.

    Join us as we tackle the intricate balance of accountability and support within various organizational structures. Whether navigating the complexities of a startup or managing a large-scale program at a major institution, our insights provide valuable lessons on overcoming fear, enhancing team morale, and fostering trust. By the end of this episode, you'll gain practical strategies for setting the tone in your workplace and creating a culture of openness and intentionality in leadership. Don't miss this episode packed with transformative insights and actionable advice!

    Check out this resource we use for our discussion:

    https://utransitionconsulting.com/the-top-fears-faced-by-new-leaders-youre-not-alone/

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    1 hr and 43 mins
  • Freedom Friday: You Don't Need to Be An Expert to Win With Your Money
    May 24 2024

    Hey everyone, it's RA here! Are you ready to transform your financial beliefs and liberate your life choices? On this Freedom Friday, I'm flying solo to guide you toward the financial freedom that comes with understanding your money. Forget the myth that you need to be a math genius to manage your finances. I'll share my personal journey to becoming debt-free and reveal four foundational money management steps that revolutionized my finances – wisdom not from a finance guru, but from my own father. So, put away your calculator; we're making financial freedom simple, one step at a time.

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    11 mins