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My next guest is a walking embodiment of triumph through pain. He exemplifies how it’s by playing life hard and doing things that suck we can get that sweet payoff.

He now not only shares his story as part of newsbreaking takedowns of our most notorious terrorists but also the devastating toll this lifestyle had on his physical and mental health.

Join us this week as we learn how Dave found hope and healing through the darkness and what advice he offers others to come out okay on the other side.

Dave Fielding is a U.S. Army Green Beret turned spy. He has worked for every US intelligence agency, relentlessly pursuing threats to national security.

He is also an Eagle Scout, avid CrossFit athlete, ultramarathon runner, and Norwich University Military College of Vermont graduate.

A lifetime pursuer of hard things, he grew up as a blue-collar kid north of Boston. He is a Bronze Star recipient, Operation Inherent Resolve, and Operation Enduring Freedom veteran.

In his book “Into The Darkness: A Journey of Love, War, and Emotional Freedom” he takes the reader on a gripping journey through his battle with suicide.

In his fight every day for healing, he unlocks hyper self-awareness by asking “why” and finds peace with his demons by “owning his shit.”

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What happens when tragedy and loss repeatedly impact you, but you suppress it all? How do you work past this pain and live the best life possible? Believe it or not, there are ways to move through it and embrace a rewarding future.

Daniel has seen it all as a police officer in and out of the military. Through his personal experiences coping with the loss of loved ones, rescuing his daughter from abuse, and working in the criminal justice system connecting families with their abusers, he now shares his story to help others understand how they can help themselves and move forward through life’s most significant challenges.

Daniel Torrez is a Deputy Director of the National Center for Victims of Crime. Before this, while with the Department of Corrections, he helped establish Arizona's first Victim Offender Dialogue (VOD) program. The VOD program brings violent crime survivors face-to-face with the offender of their crime.

Daniel conducted several dialogues, experiencing firsthand the healing effect on all participants. Daniel served 21 years as a military police officer in the US Army and participated in humanitarian/disaster relief, United Nations Peacekeeping, and combat operations. He served as a patrol supervisor, victims advocate, SRT (SWAT) member, non-lethal weapons instructor, master trainer, and member of the 3rd US Infantry, The Old Guard.

Daniel has also served as a federal law enforcement officer and university director of public safety. He holds a master’s degree from Webster University, a bachelor’s degree, and certified public manager designation from Arizona State University.

He currently lives in Phoenix, Arizona with his lovely wife, Melissa, their cat Sadie, and their dog Ares (the Dog of War).

Daniel’s story, along with 28 other authors, will be highlighted in the upcoming book, Wounds to Wisdom: Healing Through Veteran and First Responder Narratives, available in August.

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We have outstanding military leaders, including Zarina. Rising through the Marines' enlisted ranks, she exemplifies resilience and a sense of duty.

Join us as we discuss what it was like immigrating to the United States, joining the Marine Corps, mentoring others within the non-profit space, and now sharing the stories of fellow women Marines (and men, too) through her podcast The Green Logbook.

Zarina Flemming was born on 24 December 1986 in Ndola, Zambia. She enlisted in the Marine Corps in December 2007.

After graduating from recruit training, she attended Personnel Administrative School. Later, she reported to the Combined Arms Training Center in Camp Fuji, Japan, and served as a unit diary clerk.

In November 2009, she reported to Marine Corps Detachment, Fort Lee, Virginia, where she served as an administrative clerk.

In December 2010, she reported to Headquarters and Support Battalion, Marine Corps Base Camp Pendleton, California, where she served as a manpower clerk.

In July 2012, Flemming reported to 2d Marine Logistics Group Headquarters, Camp Lejeune, North Carolina, where she served as a manpower and adjutant clerk. In July 2013, she deployed as the S-1 Non-commissioned officer in charge of Combat Logistics Battalion 6 in support of Operation Enduring Freedom.

In March 2014, she volunteered for the Marine Corps experimental unit, transitioning women to combat arms MOS.

In July 2015, Flemming reported to the Installation Personnel Administrative Center, New River, North Carolina, where she served as the Quality Control and Inbound Chief. In August 2016, Flemming reported to the Center for Naval Aviation Technical Training Unit, New River, North Carolina, where she served as the S-1/Adjutant Chief.

In August 2023, she reported to 3d Marine Logistics Group, Okinawa, Japan, to serve as the Adjutant Chief. On 2 April 2024, she reported to 3d Sustainment Group (Experimental), Okinawa, Japan, where she currently serves as the Unit Senior Enlisted Advisor for Supply Company.

Zarina hosts the Green Logbook Podcast, where she shares stories and experiences of female Marines. She is involved with several organizations focused on mentoring and educating service members.

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Usually, I do not see young men in the coaching space who can connect so deeply to their emotions and the struggles we all face in life.

So when I became inspired reading Collin’s content on Instagram and how he helps business owners, I knew he would be a perfect guest for S.O.S. Join me as I discover why he became a coach, how he inspires others, and what he can offer you, too.

Collin has been a coach in different capacities for 15+ years. After graduating high school in 2009, he started coaching baseball at his High School. Along the way, he was introduced to CrossFit in 2011. During this time, he decided to pursue his degree in Strength and Conditioning and started coaching CrossFit.

As Collin grew in coaching Health and Fitness, he was introduced to the Personal Development and Self-Help space. He began to "do the work" himself. Not only did he see the benefit personally, but the desire to help others do the same grew inside him.

In 2020, after a culmination of personal experiences, he decided to change from coaching CrossFit to starting his own coaching business. Since then, he has grown as a business owner and coach. He helps business owners double their productivity so they can work less than 25 hours/week and have more time for themselves and their families.

Collin lives in Southern California with his wife and daughter. In his free time, he loves spending time at the beach and coaching CrossFit.

Book a call with him - https://www.instagram.com/collin_meeves/

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NATO communicator. Pianist. Served in a combat zone. Prior enlisted Army officer.

The impressive biography is why Chris Hyde and I are kindred spirits. Did you know that now he’s joined a nonprofit that saves Ukraine pets left behind in war?

I knew we had to talk! Join us as we dive deep
uncovering why everyone needs to care about the pet crisis in Ukraine, which is not only about welfare but about preventing the spread of disease throughout Europe.

This tragedy of epic proportions is crippling a nation already enduring so much suffering. We need to talk about it!

Chris Hyde enlisted in the U.S. Army in December 1995 and served just over two years as a personnel actions clerk assigned to the 18th Airborne Corps at Fort Bragg, NC, before his selection to attend the U.S. Army's Officer Candidate School (OCS) in early 1998.

He was commissioned as an Adjutant General second lieutenant in June 1998. Over the next several years, he served in many different capacities as an AG officer: AG detachment executive officer, postal platoon leader, MEPS operations officer, and AG detachment commander.

COL Hyde was selected to serve as a Public Affairs Officer (PAO) in 2007. COL Hyde served in key public affairs billets at all echelons for 18 years – internationally, on operation, and in garrison. Operationally, he deployed to Diyala, Iraq, in September 2008 with the 1/25th Stryker Brigade Combat Team as the SBCT's PAO and served as a PA planner for the ISAF Joint Command (CJ-35) throughout 2011 in Kabul, Afghanistan.

His other public affairs assignments include Media Relations Officer for NATO’s Allied Rapid Reaction Corps (ARRC) in the UK, Training with Industry (TWI) Fellow with Siemens Corporation (NJ), Division Public Affairs Officer for the U.S. Army’s 2nd Infantry Division, ROK/US Combined Division in the Republic of Korea, Chief PAO for the U.S. Army’s I Corps (Joint Base Lewis-McChord, Washington), and completed his Army Public Affairs career serving as Chief of Public Affairs and Deputy Director of Strategic Communications at NATO’s Allied Command Operations / Supreme Headquarters Allied Powers Europe, or SHAPE, in Mons, Belgium. He retired from military service in March 2024.

He is married to Sonya Hyde and has one daughter, Maggie, and one son, Ronaldo.

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In what is only my second return guest, I catch up with Michael Sugrue, who tragically had to take a life in the line of duty.

This horrifying experience, along with unresolved childhood trauma, led him down a downward spiral. This ultimately led to him leaving law enforcement behind. However, Michael forged a new path championing the vital need for 1st responder mental health treatment.

Join me as we check in with Michael and see where a best-selling book, numerous speaking engagements and film appearances have led him and what advice he gives to those still struggling with stressful lives.

Michael Sugrue began his law enforcement career as a Security Forces Officer in the United States Air Force in 1998. As a Security Forces Officer, Michael specialized in Law Enforcement, Global Force Protection, Anti-Terrorism, Nuclear Security, Foreign Air Field Assessments, and Air Base Ground Defense.

Michael served in various assignments, including Flight Leader, Flight Commander, Senior Watch Officer, Chief of Command Post, and Chief of Security Forces. Michael served all over the United States, Europe, the Middle East, and South America. He was also a Security Forces Phoenix Raven with the unique identifier #1173. Michael honorably separated from the Air Force as a Captain in 2004.

Immediately after the Air Force, Michael was hired by the Walnut Creek Police Department, where he served in a variety of assignments, including Patrol Officer, Driver Training Instructor (EVOC), Field Training Officer (FTO), SIU Detective, Undercover CA DOJ Narcotic Task Force Agent (Contra Costa County), Public Information Officer (PIO) and Patrol Sergeant. Michael was awarded the Walnut Creek PD Distinguished Service Medal in 2014 for his heroic and life-saving actions during a Fatal Officer Involved Shooting in 2012.

Michael ultimately medically retired in 2018. He is now a Peer Volunteer at the West Coast Post Trauma Retreat (WCPR) and an Ambassador for Save A Warrior (SAW).

In his International #1 BEST-SELLING book, RELENTLESS COURAGE: Winning the Battle Against Frontline Trauma, along with Dr. Shauna Springer, PhD, they tackle the complexity of trauma within the law enforcement community, uncovering the unspoken barriers, and outline a path to healing. RELENTLESS CO

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This is a show I was terrified to do.

Which is precisely why I should do it. And, of course, because the topic is fascinating and vital to understand. How do we get comfortable talking about sex, love the skin we are in, challenge the traditional norms of relationships, and create the vulnerability and intimacy we crave?

Well, ladies and gentlemen, I think I found the perfect person to show us how, so this is one show you can't miss!

Rena Martine is a women’s intimacy expert known for her infectious energy, refreshing candor, and straightforward approach. As a certified coach, educator, and TEDx speaker, she's impacted thousands of women globally. She is on a mission to reclaim the term “Shameless” as a badge of honor.

Before obtaining her coaching certification, Rena spent 14 years as a Los Angeles County Deputy District Attorney, where she specialized in sex crimes, child abuse, and domestic violence cases.

She is a regular expert on NBC, The Savage Lovecast, and Bustle. Rena's book, The Sex You Want: A Shameless Journey to Deep Intimacy, Honest Pleasure, and a Life You Love, is available wherever books are sold.

Find Rena - https://www.renamartine.com/

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Sometimes, you need somebody to tell you the unvarnished truth, share their story filter-free, and provide insights you never considered.

Tab does just that. Her authentic, vulnerable, and raw personal storytelling style put you in the room with her like a trusty confidant.

Join us on this episode as we discuss her plight to restore her mental health and what she feels veterans need. I always know that when I explore Tab’s content, I get to know her better and learn something new.

Tabitha Bartley served eight years as a public affairs specialist in the Marine Corps. While in the Marine Corps she served as a Press Marine for the Quantico Sentry, the assistant director for the Base Community Relations Program at MCB Quantico, the Marketing and Public Affairs Director for Recruiting Station Columbia, S.C. and as Uniformed Sexual assault victim advocate.

Tabitha was the first pregnant woman to run for Indiana State Senate and first mentally and physically disabled Marine Corps female veteran to run for Indiana State Senate.

She was a project manager for unit campaigns at the Purdue for Life Foundation before returning to the National Capital Region. She is a public affairs specialist for USDA Agricultural Marketing Services.

Tabitha serves as the President for the Dept. of Agriculture’s Veteran Employee Organization (first female president), on the Board of Directors for Minority Veterans of America, as the Marking and Public Affairs Officer for the Jack Maas Marine Corps League Detachment. She also hosts the Oath We Took Podcast.

Find Tab - https://www.linkedin.com/in/tabbartley?utm_source=share&utm_campaign=share_via&utm_content=profile&utm_medium=ios_app

Oath We Took Podcast - https://open.spotify.com/show/3ndHktxRzUuFoj4FkNWZC8?si=c3vcY_DCSoO8OHfOj1VMQA

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