The Making of a Therapist

A Practical Guide for the Inner Journey
Narrated by: Stephen Bel Davies
Length: 6 hrs and 31 mins
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Publisher's Summary

The difficulty and cost of training psychotherapists properly is well known. It is far easier to provide a series of classes while ignoring the more challenging personal components of training. Despite the fact that the therapist's self-insight, emotional maturity, and calm centeredness are critical for successful psychotherapy, rote knowledge and technical skills are the focus of most training programs. As a result, the therapist's personal growth is either marginalized or ignored. 

The Making of a Therapist counters this trend by offering graduate students and beginning therapists a personal account of this important inner journey. Cozolino provides a unique look inside the mind and heart of an experienced therapist. Listeners will find an exciting and privileged window into the experience of the therapist who, like themselves, is just starting out. In addition, The Making of a Therapist contains the practical advice, common-sense wisdom, and self-disclosure that practicing professionals have found to be the most helpful during their own training. 

The first part of the book, "Getting Through Your First Sessions", takes listeners through the often-perilous days and weeks of conducting initial sessions with real clients. Cozolino addresses such basic concerns as: Do I need to be completely healthy myself before I can help others? What do I do if someone comes to me with an issue or problem I can't handle? What should I do if I have trouble listening to my clients? What if a client scares me? 

The second section of the book, "Getting to Know Your Clients", delves into the routine of therapy and the subsequent stages in which you continue to work with clients and help them. In this context, Cozolino presents the notion of the "good enough" therapist, one who can surrender to his or her own imperfections while still guiding the therapeutic relationship to a positive outcome. The final section, "Getting to Know Yourself", goes to the core of the therapist's relation to him or herself, addressing such issues as: how to turn your weaknesses into strengths and how to deal with the complicated issues of pathological caretaking, countertransference, and self-care. Both an excellent introduction to the field as well as a valuable refresher for the experienced clinician, The Making of a Therapist offers listeners the tools and insight that make the journey of becoming a therapist a rich and rewarding experience.

©2004 Louis J. Cozolino (P)2018 Tantor

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Excellent for Therapists at All Stages

I am just starting out as an MFT, and found this book to be so helpful, guiding me through some of the fears and concerns I had during the first few sessions with clients. I feel that this will be a book I will reread over and over again, as there is much wisdom to be gained from it at all points in one's career.

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Great info for a new or seasoned therapist

I have been a therapist for many years, and this book has changed my practice

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Essential

Loved this book, helped so much. Recommend to all new therapists. If your just starting out, or ever feel like a fraud, listen to this book!

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The Reader of the Book Drags the Book Down

The book seems reasonable, so out of sheer commitment to that I endured the tortuous reading. The reader has a style that is anti-therapeutic, and just plain irritating.

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Meh & Wow

There were a couple of chapters I decided to listen again. Chapter 12 was enlightening. But the reading performance makes the book sound very dry. Some of the tips, such as "Don't panic", are worth my money. Wait, I used a free credit...

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Counseling Psychology Student

As a student I enjoyed this book and would have loved to have read it sooner.

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  • 03-06-19

You are to blame as the therapist....

I just can't gnaw on this one very well. It is so liberal in its view of the therapist and how much blame is to be past in the therapist's direction that I stopped listening to it after a while. It reads like a textbook and he is not very honest when it comes to the real feelings of a therapist and some of the most challenging and manipulative clients that you will see. No matter the problem, it is the therapist that always fails. Cozolino never delves into the complexity of some people that you will see and the clients that will come in to abuse and manipulate you at every turn. If this does happen, you still must look inward at your failure to help this person, and your failure as a therapist. I just can't subscribe to this kind of viewpoint.

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Practical book for a therapist in training

This book was assigned in one of my graduate classes for mental health counseling. I enjoyed listening and learning through Cozolino’s experiences. Offers great advice and reminds us that we don’t all need to be perfect in order to be in the field!

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Good read for counselors in training

Great narration. Dr. Cozolino's style shows a lot of empathy and knowledge regarding the anxieties and struggles of beginning therapists. I found it helpful and informative.

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All counselors/therapists should read or listen

It's amazing. Full of great insight and wisdom. I will be re-listening, probably multiple times.

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  • 01-25-19

Amazing book

I downloaded this not because I'm training to be a psychotherapist but because I'm an executive coach with an interest in the use of psychodynamic theory in coaching. I therefore wasn't sure how much I would get from listening to this, but to be honest, it was a revelation. It's tremendously insightful, well narrated, and there is plenty for me to apply in a coaching environment. I was already aware of the importance of transferance and counter-transferance however the emphasis on this in the later sections of the book has helped me increase my awareness of these greatly during sessions, to positive effect. If I could give this book 6 stars I would. I'm onto my second listen already.

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  • Amazon Customer
  • 12-22-18

I would highly recommend this book.

I'm a training therapist and I loved this book. it was wonderful to listen to it on Amazon audible and made for addictive listening. There was so much wisdom, I have no doubt it will be a book I will continue to come back to . A big thank you to the author for sharing their knowledge and to the narrator of the book for audible. Really great job, Thank you.

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  • andrew
  • 01-05-19

Journey to the self

One of the most personally insightful books that encourages reflection to the core. Highly recommended for anyone interested in the therapeutic arena.

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  • miss sophia yvonne carmen
  • 07-15-18

Excellent

So helpful and honest. Helped me to make several connections that theory alone would not have provided. Accessible with good narration, I’m sure I will listen to this several times over, and feel grateful to the author for his contribution to therapy training.

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  • Amazon Customer
  • 02-29-20

Amazing book.

I would suggest this book to everyone. It is a "bible" for all, who wish to coach, heal others.

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  • Anonymous User
  • 02-12-19

Wonderful reflections

a very useful, informative and reflective book. I will listen again, and again. Helped me on my journey as a counsellor and personally within myself.

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  • Tiger
  • 09-10-20

An excellent journey through the experiences and practices of a therapist.

I enjoyed this book very much and learned a great deal from it. The narrator paces the material well, allowing one to absorb complex explanations without getting lost in the telling. A great combined achievement and a most helpful entertaining journey.

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  • Mrs. S. Gittos
  • 04-19-20

FAB

This is beautifully written and read. I found it moving and inspirational. I will read it again.

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  • Penelope
  • 03-10-20

Not so good for experienced therapist.

Of course that is in the title, but I was tempted by a review or description that it may benefit experienced therapists, especially with self awareness. I also thought it may help me to guide my trainee supervisees. I agree with many, probably all of the ideas but I do already use them. I do think the narrator has a good voice, comforting.

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  • Mandy Cook
  • 03-01-20

So practical and encouraging

Listened to this book after it was recommended by one of my lecturers. I found it an incredibly helpful guide as I started to see clients for the first time. It challenged me and reassured me that so many of my experiences and feelings are all part of the process of learning and becoming a therapist. The emphasis on doing our own personal work brought an additional element to my training and has inspired me to keep working on gaining a deeper understanding of myself

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  • Anonymous User
  • 03-11-19

Pure gold

I just started my degree in Arts Therapy and this is a perfect companion. The stories and reflections make sense. Through this book I've been able to understand why I've chosen to pursue Therapy as a professional. I'm sure I'll be reading this again and again.