What a Narcissist Does at the End of a Relationship

Dealing with and Understanding the Aftermath of a Narcissistic Relationship

De: Lauren Kozlowski

Narrado por: Stephanie Murphy

Breaking up in normal circumstances is hard enough. If you throw a narcissist into the equation, it makes it all the more difficult. Not only are you left heartbroken from the separation, but the actions and behaviors of the narcissist post-break-up are nothing short of cruel, confusing, and downright crazymaking. You feel like your world has ended and you don’t know how to rebuild it.

In this short audiobook, I want to use my own experience with a narcissist to highlight and outline the following for you:

• discarding, and why the narcissist does this. This is a cruel tactic used by the narcissist to either punish you or because you have nothing left to give them.
• what a narcissist does at the end of a relationship. Whilst all narcissists are different, you can count on one thing being consistent: their behavior.
• how the narc feels and deals with the break-up.
• the toxic narcissistic relationship pattern, so you can avoid being sucked into it once more.

If you're looking to listen to this audiobook, you're likely heartbroken and looking for some guidance, support, or understanding. As someone who has been through the hell of a narcissistic relationship, I can offer you all three, and I hope this audiobook can help you make sense of this heartbreaking time.

©2019 Lauren Kozlowski (P)2019 Lauren Kozlowski

Short on time, long on value!

This book, in just over an hour, covered so many key points about ending a relationship with a person inflicted with Narcissistic Personality Disorder (NPD). You could tell that the author has survived a toxic relationship because it seemed as though she were telling my own story.

Knowing what to expect, after breaking things off, with a person with NPD supplies some of the necessary tools needed to survive the breakup, even if you're the one that walked away.

The narrator was very easy to listen to. she spoke with a heartfelt inflection in all the right places and she emoted perfectly, through the entire book. I found myself wanting even more.

I plan on listening to this book once more today, to make sure I've got a firm hold on every concept, though most are very simplistic. It's always a boost to know that others have survived what I'm currently going through (A very nasty discard from an extremely toxic, 19 year relationship/marriage). I can't wait to feel myself again! Even though I'll never be whom I once was, I feel I'll know whom I really am much better!

Exactly what I needed!

This audiobook is truly amazing for anyone going through a breakup with a narcissistic person. The last chapter really was spot on! Thank you for this

Offers Comfort, Validation, and Closure!

I listened to this audiobook almost daily (sometimes multiple times in a day) while I was going thru a brutal discard from my narcissist exboyfriend of 18 years. I was completely alone and damn near homeless. Every "friend" I once had believed his deluded lies that it was me who was the issue, and that he was merely a victim. This book reminded me not to believe those lies and to instead, work on finding myself again. It was the validation I so desperately needed to hear during what can only be described as a hell on earth. To anyone else still suffering thru such horrific trauma as narcissistic discard, I realize that nothing I, or any audiobook anywhere, can say or do to take the unbareable and overwhelming pain away... but I promise you, that after listening to this short audiobook, you will feel just a little bit better than you did before listening to it. And if you're anything like me, any relief, is a huge gift while walking thru this hell! I wish any all other survivers and those on their way to becoming survivors out there, my love and prayers and admiration! Hang in there, "This too shall pass", even though I'm well aware that you may not believe that when you're in the thick of this... But here's another quote that helped me get thru.... "When you're going through hell, keep on walking until you find the exit". You will eventually feel free of it. I promise you have not been forgotten and you are worth more than you realize! 💎

"WHAT A NARCISSIST DOES AT THE END OF A RELATIONSHIP" - IS AN AUDIOBOOK THAT OFFERS VALIDATION FOR THE VICTIMS OF NARCISSISTIC ABUSE AND ESPECIALLY VALIDATING FOR THOSE EXPERIENCING THE HELL OF NARCISSISTIC DISCARD. IT CAN OFFER A SENSE OF CLOSURE THAT THEY WOULD LIKELY HAVE NEVER BEEN ABLE TO GAIN ON THEIR OWN. I HIGHLY RECOMMEND IT! 👍

Spot on!!!

I head my life unfold before me...wow...spot on! This book helps your head to stop from spinning and gives you the reassurance you need!

SO HELPFUL!

From the very beginning, I found myself saying out loud "YES!" and agreeing with all the traits described, right down to the actual words. If your partner utters words like "you're my everything", "you're crazy" or my favorite, "you live in a fantasy land" and constantly makes you feel like YOU are the one in the wrong, this hour long audiobook is for you. I'm already moving on to Lauren's next books on the subject. It is hard coming out of a relationship where your ex has already moved on in such a short time.