Traumatic Cognitive Dissonance

Healing from an Abusive Relationship with a Disordered Personality

De: Peter Salerno PsyD

Narrado por: Peter Salerno

If you’re in or have been in a relationship with a pathological personality yet somehow ended up believing that everything bad was your fault, you’re not alone. That’s the super-power of disordered personalities: making their victims believe they are in the wrong even when they’re not.

Being on the receiving end of chronic but often subtle abuse can be brutal. The result of this dizzying and disorienting up-is-down maelstrom manifested by the pathological personality in your life results in Traumatic Cognitive Dissonance (TCD). This occurs when covert manipulation and other forms of deceit and coercion are experienced on an ongoing basis. TCD represents complex trauma that goes far beyond typical trauma and stress-related symptoms.

But there is help. And knowledge is where it starts. Rest assured that what you have been searching for to make sense of your debilitating situation and to recover once and for all from pathological relationship abuse is right here, between the pages of this book.

Traumatic Cognitive Dissonance, when understood, can be overcome. And that’s what this book is for—for you to gain the tools and information so that you’ll be able to reunite with your true sense of self and to move forward in your life with a renewed sense of joy. After all you’ve been through, you deserve it.

©2025 Peter Salerno (P)2025 Peter Salerno

Reality check

Insightful and reaffirming. Excellent points backed with scientific deductions . But It misses a very important fact , some of us will never be truly OK - due to factors not of our own making , especially later in life when future opportunities have narrowed . Regardless of when or if , our severely alienated children make their way back to the targeted parent , neither can get back the missed life experiences stolen by intentional lies: the engagements , weddings , babies , family vacations .. all gone forever with the passage of time . Love can remain , but trust can never be won back . The very core expectations of what would had made your life have value and joy have passed over you . Even with the best self esteem , life has been stolen from you — there will never be an Ok .

Excellent!!

I felt seen and validated by reading this book!! I resonated with everything and understand myself and situation so clearly now!

Unconventionally exceptional

I can see why the “usual” psych community would not like this book. For me, it was much needed. This is going to become something I listen to everyday now. Thank you

The knowledge to recover.

I appreciated the realistic insight and details of recovering from pathological relationship abuse. Upon finishing the book I realized that it ended too soon. Can’t wait to read more from this writer.

Critical thinker

I appreciate the approach to the questions some of us had around being labeled or diagnosed with certain disorders and the author being able to help with some answers as to why people may get stuck thinking the wrong way