Being Mortal

Medicine and What Matters in the End

De: Atul Gawande

Narrado por: Robert Petkoff

Number one New York Times best seller

In Being Mortal, best-selling author Atul Gawande tackles the hardest challenge of his profession: how medicine can not only improve life but also the process of its ending Medicine has triumphed in modern times, transforming birth, injury, and infectious disease from harrowing to manageable. But in the inevitable condition of aging and death, the goals of medicine seem too frequently to run counter to the interest of the human spirit.

Nursing homes, preoccupied with safety, pin patients into railed beds and wheelchairs. Hospitals isolate the dying, checking for vital signs long after the goals of cure have become moot. Doctors, committed to extending life, continue to carry out devastating procedures that in the end extend suffering.

Gawande, a practicing surgeon, addresses his profession's ultimate limitation, arguing that quality of life is the desired goal for patients and families. Gawande offers examples of freer, more socially fulfilling models for assisting the infirm and dependent elderly, and he explores the varieties of hospice care to demonstrate that a person's last weeks or months may be rich and dignified.

Full of eye-opening research and riveting storytelling, Being Mortal shows how the ultimate goal is not a good death but a good life - all the way to the very end.

©2014 Atul Gawande (P)2014 Macmillan Audio

You must read this book

Because you - like me - are going to die one day. Because maybe you - and maybe I too - will become one day old and frail.
Because maybe you too - like me - have an old parent to care for. Maybe you too - like me - have lost a parent to a terminal illness.
And we have a lot of doubts, and hopes, and fears. This author helps us a bit, with his compassionate interest for unpleasant and important questions that concern us all.
Don't miss this book, it's important.

Should be Required Reading for Anyone over 40!

Truly a life-changing book for me. It changed the way I look at death and dying--particularly through the eyes of a medical professional. Atule's observations about what those in healthcare are inclined to do to help the dying, what they should be doing, and the importance of determining with the patients what their needs and wants really are--what a revelation about how wrong they often are in spite of their best intentions! I've asked my wife and all our children to please read this book to help them understand end-of-life and, moreover, to help them help me when I reach that point!

Changed my knowledge and perspective as a young adult

This book helped me cope during my grandfather’s decline in health. I experienced a roller coaster of emotions- I cried, I was angry, I learned something and felt empowered. As a young adult who had a really hard time seeing aging and death from the perspective of a caretaker and an elderly person, this book made me realize how precious and complicated end of life care is. I feel better equipped to support my grandfather and my family in making the right decisions during this difficult time.

Helpful and Important

Interesting, helpful perspective on a life passage we all must take and too often put off thinking about .

A book relevant for all of us. We only are born once and only die once. I should be done with caring respectful support.

As a nurse for over 40 years, as a midwife for over half that time and a daughter of parents faced with chronic debilitating diseases, I found this book enormously thought provoking. The idea of courageous conversation is meaningful on so many levels. I encourage everyone to read this book and discuss the content with family, coworkers and healthcare providers.

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If you could sum up Being Mortal in three words, what would they be?

What really matters?

What did you like best about this story?

The information in this book had a huge impact on how I view living and dying. I just lost my mom last month and realizing that her death was peaceful and as she wanted it has brought me comfort while missing her terribly. I realize now that having tough conversations before it's too late can make everyone's life better during and after losing someone.

Which character – as performed by Robert Petkoff – was your favorite?

The narrator did an excellent job. I could listen to his voice again for any book.

Did you have an extreme reaction to this book? Did it make you laugh or cry?

You will have moments of a little chuckle but the subject matter makes you think throughout the book. You will probably cry---it is about dying.

Any additional comments?

I have already started reading The checklist Manifesto by Dr. Gawande. Brilliant, brilliant man.

The truth that we avoid hearing

Well done but difficult to listen to as we realize we may or may not age or die well. This book brings an awareness that begs each of us to make choices that matter in daily living

Important Read for Everyone that is Human

Atul recommends important questions that help guide our end of life decisions. Very hard stuff, but vital.

We will all have our ending...

How we choose to face it will be the measure of courage. Just finished this audiobook. Sure, it's something none of us wants to think about, but what an amazing framework for addressing the hard stuff. I wish I had read it before having to experience the difficult end to my mom's life journey; I think it would have helped us better navigate the inevitabilities. Highly recommended reading/listening for all of us, and it's never too late to learn a better way for the impending end for ourselves and our loved ones.

Plan ahead

The time to start thinking about death and dying is now, before one gets sick. The author, a surgeon, writes of his own experiences with death in his patients and families after starting with a hood review of growing old in America today. Sometimes it reads like a confession of how he could have handled patients' last days better. He concludes with an endorsement of palliative care and hospice. Dying on a ventilator in the ICU may be common, but there are better ways to meet one's end. If you gave sick lived ones, read this book.