Magic Words

How to Get What You Want from a Narcissist

By: Lindsey Ellison

Narrated by: Lindsey Ellison

Power play: Outsmart, outmaneuver, and utterly confound a narcissist

If you are locked into a relationship with a narcissist, such as an employer, a high-conflict partner, an ex-spouse with shared custody, or perhaps a family member, this audiobook is for you.

Based upon years of research and experience coaching victims of narcissistic abuse, Lindsey Ellison has masterminded a communication strategy that will allow you to protect your interests without conflict or drama.

Lindsey has created a deft, intelligently crafted script you can use to neutralize the power struggle. Her practical, step-by-step guide offers simple yet life-changing strategies that inspire cooperation. This book provides templates for communication that deescalates and neutralizes previously combative and emotionally charged exchanges.

Whether you communicate via text or email or in-person, Magic Words will offer you the chance to influence the dynamic between you and your narcissist for the better.

©2018, 2019 Lindsey Ellison (P)2019 Lindsey Ellison

Quick, easy, helpful read!

I have two teens with an extreme narcissist who uses them at every turn and will not co-parent. The no contact rule is virtually impossible with children in general. You couple teenage drama, learning disabilities, sports, and still going through the legal divorce process after 2 1/2 years etc, it is a recipe for pure and utter madness with the narcissist in control.

Most books on self help period are dull are hard to apply to your situations. This book was fast paced, easy to follow and very helpful. Even though the workbook was extra I found it to be a helpful tool as well because I am more visual when trying to map something out.

I HIGHLY recommend this book to anyone who has children with a Narcissist divorced or otherwise.

Great Book

a great deal of relative information if you're dealing with a narcissist in your life. it's a quick read but it's not filled with a bunch of psychological fluff it gets straight to the point and you walk away with more knowledge than you had before. I recommend it 100%

Author’s life story with examples

Hmm.. well I did appreciate that she offered other resources at the end;


CLINICAL RESOURCES
1. The Human Magnet Syndrome
****Co-dependent no more (Melody Beattie)
3. Narcissist exposed
4. The wizard of Oz and other Narcissists
5. Too good to leave, too bad to stay.
****Boundaries (Townsend)
7. How to break your addiction to a person.
8. Will I ever be free from you? (Carol McBride)

SPIRITUAL RESOURCES
1. You can heal your life.
2. Conversations with God.
3. Awaken the inner shaman
4. The vortex
5. The Law of Divine Compensation.
****The Four Agreements. (+ The Fifth Agreement)
7. Rising Strong
8. Anatomy of the Spirit.
9. Change your thoughts, Change your life (Wayne Dyer)

I stared the ones that I read and 100% recommend for everyone. I also found this book titled “exaholic” to be very eye-opening and providing evolutionary explanation to our modern behaviors.

great read

I would have loved to hear more from the author on this topic please

Insightful and helpful

Appreciate the perspective on how to deal with a relationship with a toxic malignant narcissist. The horrific abuse these people inflict is dehumanizing and de-identifying, and (in my case with my husband) filled with criminal activity. This book, paired with others, provides further insight into the fact that there are others out there who have endured the extreme suffering and pain. I will never get back my pregnancies that were lost because of his horrific abuse, but I am thankful to have escaped his physical abuse when I did. Unfortunately narcissists are enabled by bosses, employees, senior administrators and lurk like predators as professors, directors, scientists, researchers etc. in positions gained by fraudulent means. While little can be done right now - sharing information and knowledge to help others is most valuable.
- Mrs. RL Winslow