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Hey friend! We’ve reached Part 3 of 3 in our deep dive into Chapter 19: “Kinky?” from Feeling Sexy: A Christian Woman’s Guide to Sexual Confidence & Desire—and this final conversation might be the boldest yet!

In this episode of The Road to Happiness Podcast, Josh and Cassie (Certified Christian S*x Therapist and s*x educators) are having honest, grace-filled conversation around some of the most taboo—but frequently asked—topics in Christian marriages:

• An@l s*x: Is it off-limits, or is there room for biblical discernment?
• Spicy pictures & videos: Can you use media within your marriage without crossing into p*rn territory?
• Role play: Can imagination and playful scenarios be part of sacred connection in Christian marriages?
• Dominance & submission: What does this dynamic mean in a healthy, mutual, Christ-centered relationship?

This episode isn’t about shock value—it’s about freedom, safety, and connection. Josh and Cassie are ready to bring real wisdom, biblical grounding, and lighthearted encouragement to help couples explore what mutual, holy, and omazing® intimacy can look like—even in the gray areas.

Key Takeaways:

• What is on or off limits in a Christian bedroom when it comes to more taboo topics?
• Discussing the question of “Can we do this?” and “Does this deepen love, safety, and connection?”
• Exploring your boundaries with honesty and spiritual maturity is a key part of Omazing® Intimacy
• You can be holy and have fun in the bedroom—God’s not afraid of your curiosity, and neither are we!

We’ve covered a lot of ground over the past three episodes, and here’s the bottom line: your curiosity is not a problem. Your desire for connection, creativity, and closeness in your marriage is not shameful. It’s holy ground.

God created your body, your nervous system, and your marriage for pleasure and purpose—and navigating these conversations with maturity and love can unlock healing, trust, and joy like never before.

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Hey friend! Welcome to Part 2 of 3 in our “Kinky?” conversation based on Chapter 19 of Feeling Sexy: A Christian Woman’s Guide to Sexual Confidence & Desire. If you missed last week’s episode, we highly recommend hitting pause and starting there—it lays the foundation for today’s spicy but sacred discussion.

In this episode of The Road to Happiness Podcast, Josh and Cassie (Certified Christian S*x Therapist and s*x educators) are diving into some real talk about:

• Restraints & bondage — what they mean, why they’re appealing, and how to discern if they belong in your bedroom
• “Spicy” books & media — aka erotic novels and romance content: how should Christians think about these?
• What Scripture has (or doesn’t have) to say about these practices, and
• How to check your heart posture, intentions, and connection as a couple when exploring these more adventurous areas of intimacy

Josh & Cassie bring both clinical insight and biblical perspective, helping you navigate the grey areas of kink with wisdom, curiosity, and confidence.

Key Takeaways:

• Curiosity is not sin—but it does need discernment, consent, and safety
• Just because the Bible doesn’t explicitly mention something doesn’t mean you can’t apply biblical wisdom to it
• Your nervous system, emotional safety, and spiritual values all matter when exploring kink
• The goal isn’t to get more “wild”—it’s to get more connected

Whether you're curious about incorporating restraints, unsure about reading romance novels, or wondering how to keep your s*x life spicy and sacred, you’re in the right place. You don’t have to feel shame for asking questions. God isn’t afraid of your curiosity—He invites you into a deeper, truer freedom. You’re not alone on this journey, and you don’t have to figure it all out in one night.

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Ready to keep the conversation going? Share this episode with your spouse or a trusted friend, and don’t forget to grab your free chapters of Feeling Sexy to keep learning, laughing, and growing. Then meet us back here next week for Part 3 of 3 of “Kinky?” where we go even deeper! 😉

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Hey friend! If you grew up in the church, you may have heard that Missionary was the only “godly” way to connect in the bedroom. Meanwhile, culture tells us that anything goes. So where’s the truth? Let’s talk about it.

In this episode of The Road to Happiness Podcast, Josh & Cassie open up Chapter 19 of Feeling Sexy: A Christian Woman’s Guide to Sexual Confidence & Desire, and dive into a hot-topic question:
👉 What is kink? And is it okay for Christians?

The simplest definition of kink is any s*xual behavior that feels unusual or uncommon—but what’s “unusual” is completely relative. For some, or@l s*x still feels edgy. For others, using a blindfold is just an average Tuesday. Kink isn’t a rigid list—it’s a sliding scale based on your comfort, culture, and story.

Josh and Cassie (Certified Christian S*x Therapist and s*x educators) are exploring:

• What “kink” actually means for Christians
• How to determine what’s biblically aligned and what’s not
• Why curiosity and consent matter
• Practical categories and tips for couples looking to explore safely
• How to hold both playfulness and sacredness in your s*x life

There’s no “one right way” to express s*xual desire in marriage—just unity with your spouse, safety, trust, and freedom.

Key Takeaways:

• “Unusual” doesn’t mean “unholy”—it means it’s time for thoughtful, biblical discernment
• Kink can be safe, fun, and God-honoring with the right mindset and mutual consent
• Shame-free curiosity is part of maturing in your s*xual confidence
• You don’t need the world’s permission—you just need wisdom and trust in your marriage

You don’t need to fear your desires or judge what feels unfamiliar. When you explore from a place of mutual love, safety, and spiritual grounding, you create a space where deeper joy and playful intimacy can thrive.

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Hey friend! Remember the game Twister? One spin of the dial and suddenly you’re tangled in awkward, hilarious poses—part chaos, part thrill, and 100% fun. Believe it or not, exploring s*xual positions in marriage can feel exactly like that… in the best way.

In today’s episode of The Road to Happiness Podcast, Josh & Cassie unwrap Chapter 18 of Feeling Sexy: A Christian Woman’s Guide to Sexual Confidence & Desire and talk about the heart and mindset behind s*xual adventure—not a checklist of positions, but the spirit of curiosity and connection that makes trying new things meaningful.

Josh and Cassie (Certified Christian S*x Therapist and s*x educators) are exploring:

• Why s*xual experimentation isn’t about performance—but presence
• How trying new things says: “I’m here. I’m in this with you.”
• How to shift your mindset from shame to curiosity and courage
• Why giggles, fumbles, and awkward moments are part of the magic

Because here’s the difference: in your bedroom, you get to spin the dial. You decide what to try, what feels good, and what you’re ready to explore with your husband—on your own terms, in your own timing, with holy confidence and a touch of playfulness.

Key Takeaways:

• You don’t need a list of "101 positions"—you need a shared spirit of discovery
• Every new attempt builds intimacy, trust, and mutual delight
• Your body and your marriage are worthy of exploration and fun
• S*xual confidence grows through grace-filled trial and error

Trying something new in the bedroom isn’t about achieving the perfect pose—it’s about showing up with courage, curiosity, and love. Whether it ends in fireworks or laughter, what matters is that you showed up, together. That’s what makes your s*x life yours—real, playful, and full of grace.

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Hey friend! Let’s talk about something that rarely gets airtime in Christian conversations about s*x: hand jobs and manual pleasure. In today’s episode of The Road to Happiness Podcast, Josh & Cassie open up Chapter 17 of Feeling Sexy: A Christian Woman’s Guide to Sexual Confidence & Desire, and they’re exploring the powerful, playful, and yes—profound role of your hands in the bedroom.

If just reading that makes you a little uncomfortable, you’re not alone. Many couples feel unsure or even awkward about this part of their intimacy. But here's the truth: manual intimacy is more than just “doing something with your hands.” It’s about creating a shared language of pleasure, trust, and connection that’s uniquely yours as a couple.

Josh and Cassie (Certified Christian S*x Therapist and s*x educators) are exploring:

• Why hands are more than tools—they’re instruments of tenderness, strength, and worshipful connection
• How manual intimacy can build confidence, closeness, and joy
• Practical encouragement for overcoming discomfort or shame and exploring this with your spouse
• And getting a peak into the chapter headings to give you a hint of what this book is all about.

Whether you're brand new to this or want to deepen your skills and confidence, this episode is your hands-on guide (😉) to embracing a fuller expression of intimacy.

Key Takeaways:

• Your hands carry sacred power to love, soothe, and awaken desire
• Manual intimacy isn’t dirty—it’s an opportunity for connection and delight
• Learning how to love with your hands can increase both confidence and closeness
• Exploring together as a couple can lead to laughter, healing, and stronger s*xual trust

Your hands were created not just to do—but to connect, bless, and express love in deeply physical and spiritual ways. So let go of the awkward, embrace the learning curve, and allow your hands to become powerful tools of pleasure, confidence, and connection in your marriage.

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Hey friend! Let’s have a little holy honesty—when it comes to low desire in the bedroom, especially for women, it’s rarely just about hormones. Emotional wounds, spiritual weariness, exhaustion, disconnection, and stress all play a role. But sometimes… hormones really are the missing piece.

In this episode of The Road to Happiness Podcast, Josh & Cassie open up Chapter 16 of Feeling Sexy: A Christian Woman’s Guide to Sexual Confidence & Desire, and they're getting personal—sharing their own journey (especially Cassie) with testosterone therapy, what they’ve learned, and how it might help others who feel like they’ve done all the work and still feel stuck.

Josh and Cassie (Certified Christian S*x Therapist and s*x educators) are exploring:

• Why desire struggles are often multifaceted, not just hormonal
• What role testosterone plays in your body as a woman
• How to know if hormone therapy could be right for you
• How to find a provider who listens to your body and values your whole-person wellness
• Why testosterone isn’t a replacement for healing—but a companion to it

Because here’s the thing: testosterone isn’t just the “man hormone.” It’s vital for women, too—just in smaller, God-designed amounts. And when your body is low on this powerful hormone, it can affect energy, mood, and yes—s*xual desire.

Key Takeaways:

• Hormones are one thread in a larger tapestry of s*xual well-being
• Testosterone is a God-designed hormone for women, too
• Low-dose therapy can gently support desire, energy, and vitality
• Addressing hormones isn’t cheating—it’s stewarding the body God gave you

You’re not broken, lazy, or unspiritual if your body isn’t responding the way you wish it would. Sometimes healing comes through prayer. Sometimes it comes through therapy. And sometimes it comes through science—God-honoring, body-listening, hormone-balancing science. You deserve to feel vibrant, connected, and alive—in every part of your life, including your s*x life.

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Hey friend! Let’s be honest—or@l s*x probably didn’t come up in Sunday school. But tucked right into the pages of God’s inspired love poetry (hello, Song of Songs) is a bold and beautiful picture of sensual, sacred pleasure.

In this episode of The Road to Happiness Podcast, Josh & Cassie open up Chapter 15 of their book Feeling Sexy: A Christian Woman’s Guide to Sexual Confidence & Desire and dive into a topic that often feels taboo in Christian circles: or@l s*x in marriage.

From Song of Songs 2:3—“I sat down under his shadow with great delight, and his fruit was sweet to my taste,”—biblical scholars have long seen this poetic metaphor as a nod to the joy of physical, or@l pleasure between husband and wife. That’s right, friend—it’s in the Bible. And it’s not shameful. It’s celebrated.

Josh and Cassie (Certified Christian S*x Therapist and s*x educators) are exploring:

• How Scripture actually addresses sensuality and desire
• How to talk to your spouse about exploring this part of your s*x life
• Creating emotional safety, spiritual connection, and mutual joy in the process
• Why or@l s*x can be a powerful, trust-building part of marital intimacy

They’ll also walk through the subtopics in Chapter 15 of the book, giving you a taste of what’s covered (pun fully intended 😉) and how to approach this conversation in a healthy, honoring, and playful way.

Key Takeaways:

• Or@l s*x is not off-limits in Christian marriage—it’s celebrated in Scripture
• Mutual pleasure, trust, and safety are the foundation of any intimate exploration
• It’s okay to talk about what you’re curious about—and even more okay to enjoy it
• God’s design for s*x is richer, freer, and more beautiful than we’ve been taught to believe

You don’t have to tiptoe around your desire. You don’t have to feel weird about wanting more. You’re allowed to explore, enjoy, and delight in the intimate gifts God designed for you and your spouse. So let’s break the silence, ditch the shame, and embrace a s*x life that’s sacred and satisfying.

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Hey friend! Let’s talk about something we all wonder about but rarely feel safe to ask: org*sms. In today’s episode of The Road to Happiness Podcast, Josh & Cassie are diving into Chapter 14 of Feeling Sexy: A Christian Woman’s Guide to Sexual Confidence & Desire, and yes—they’re going there!

Here’s the fun fact you didn’t know you needed: an orgasm is a lot like a sneeze. Seriously! It’s a reflex—not something you force, but something your body does when the right ingredients come together. And if you’ve ever wondered, “Wait… have I even had one?”—you are so not alone.

Josh (Certified Christian S*x Therapist) and Cassie (S*x Educator & real-talk queen) are here to help you:

• Understand what org*sms really are—and how they work
• Learn what it means if you’re not sure you’ve had one
• Discover how your mind, body, and heart all play a role in your pleasure
• Break free from shame and pressure—and step into playful, grace-filled exploration with your spouse

Because guess what? You're not broken. You’re just beginning the journey of understanding your body.

Key Takeaways:

• Org*sms are a reflex, not a performance
• You’re not broken if you haven’t figured it out yet—you’re learning
• God designed your body for pleasure—without shame
• Omazing® intimacy is possible with patience, curiosity, and connection

You don’t have to fake it. You don’t have to force it. And you definitely don’t have to figure it all out alone. Org*sm isn’t a goal to chase, it’s a gift to enjoy, explore, and receive. So take a deep breath, friend. You were made for pleasure, not pressure—and this journey can actually be Omazing®.

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