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Hey friend! We’ve reached Part 3 of 3 in our deep dive into Chapter 19: “Kinky?” from Feeling Sexy: A Christian Woman’s Guide to Sexual Confidence & Desire—and this final conversation might be the boldest yet!

In this episode of The Road to Happiness Podcast, Josh and Cassie (Certified Christian S*x Therapist and s*x educators) are having honest, grace-filled conversation around some of the most taboo—but frequently asked—topics in Christian marriages:

• An@l s*x: Is it off-limits, or is there room for biblical discernment?
• Spicy pictures & videos: Can you use media within your marriage without crossing into p*rn territory?
• Role play: Can imagination and playful scenarios be part of sacred connection in Christian marriages?
• Dominance & submission: What does this dynamic mean in a healthy, mutual, Christ-centered relationship?

This episode isn’t about shock value—it’s about freedom, safety, and connection. Josh and Cassie are ready to bring real wisdom, biblical grounding, and lighthearted encouragement to help couples explore what mutual, holy, and omazing® intimacy can look like—even in the gray areas.

Key Takeaways:

• What is on or off limits in a Christian bedroom when it comes to more taboo topics?
• Discussing the question of “Can we do this?” and “Does this deepen love, safety, and connection?”
• Exploring your boundaries with honesty and spiritual maturity is a key part of Omazing® Intimacy
• You can be holy and have fun in the bedroom—God’s not afraid of your curiosity, and neither are we!

We’ve covered a lot of ground over the past three episodes, and here’s the bottom line: your curiosity is not a problem. Your desire for connection, creativity, and closeness in your marriage is not shameful. It’s holy ground.

God created your body, your nervous system, and your marriage for pleasure and purpose—and navigating these conversations with maturity and love can unlock healing, trust, and joy like never before.

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Hey friend! Welcome to Part 2 of 3 in our “Kinky?” conversation based on Chapter 19 of Feeling Sexy: A Christian Woman’s Guide to Sexual Confidence & Desire. If you missed last week’s episode, we highly recommend hitting pause and starting there—it lays the foundation for today’s spicy but sacred discussion.

In this episode of The Road to Happiness Podcast, Josh and Cassie (Certified Christian S*x Therapist and s*x educators) are diving into some real talk about:

• Restraints & bondage — what they mean, why they’re appealing, and how to discern if they belong in your bedroom
• “Spicy” books & media — aka erotic novels and romance content: how should Christians think about these?
• What Scripture has (or doesn’t have) to say about these practices, and
• How to check your heart posture, intentions, and connection as a couple when exploring these more adventurous areas of intimacy

Josh & Cassie bring both clinical insight and biblical perspective, helping you navigate the grey areas of kink with wisdom, curiosity, and confidence.

Key Takeaways:

• Curiosity is not sin—but it does need discernment, consent, and safety
• Just because the Bible doesn’t explicitly mention something doesn’t mean you can’t apply biblical wisdom to it
• Your nervous system, emotional safety, and spiritual values all matter when exploring kink
• The goal isn’t to get more “wild”—it’s to get more connected

Whether you're curious about incorporating restraints, unsure about reading romance novels, or wondering how to keep your s*x life spicy and sacred, you’re in the right place. You don’t have to feel shame for asking questions. God isn’t afraid of your curiosity—He invites you into a deeper, truer freedom. You’re not alone on this journey, and you don’t have to figure it all out in one night.

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Ready to keep the conversation going? Share this episode with your spouse or a trusted friend, and don’t forget to grab your free chapters of Feeling Sexy to keep learning, laughing, and growing. Then meet us back here next week for Part 3 of 3 of “Kinky?” where we go even deeper! 😉

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Hey friend! If you grew up in the church, you may have heard that Missionary was the only “godly” way to connect in the bedroom. Meanwhile, culture tells us that anything goes. So where’s the truth? Let’s talk about it.

In this episode of The Road to Happiness Podcast, Josh & Cassie open up Chapter 19 of Feeling Sexy: A Christian Woman’s Guide to Sexual Confidence & Desire, and dive into a hot-topic question:
👉 What is kink? And is it okay for Christians?

The simplest definition of kink is any s*xual behavior that feels unusual or uncommon—but what’s “unusual” is completely relative. For some, or@l s*x still feels edgy. For others, using a blindfold is just an average Tuesday. Kink isn’t a rigid list—it’s a sliding scale based on your comfort, culture, and story.

Josh and Cassie (Certified Christian S*x Therapist and s*x educators) are exploring:

• What “kink” actually means for Christians
• How to determine what’s biblically aligned and what’s not
• Why curiosity and consent matter
• Practical categories and tips for couples looking to explore safely
• How to hold both playfulness and sacredness in your s*x life

There’s no “one right way” to express s*xual desire in marriage—just unity with your spouse, safety, trust, and freedom.

Key Takeaways:

• “Unusual” doesn’t mean “unholy”—it means it’s time for thoughtful, biblical discernment
• Kink can be safe, fun, and God-honoring with the right mindset and mutual consent
• Shame-free curiosity is part of maturing in your s*xual confidence
• You don’t need the world’s permission—you just need wisdom and trust in your marriage

You don’t need to fear your desires or judge what feels unfamiliar. When you explore from a place of mutual love, safety, and spiritual grounding, you create a space where deeper joy and playful intimacy can thrive.

Receive Christian S*x Therapy: https://mycounselor.online/christian-sex-therapy/

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Ready to untangle shame from curiosity and learn what’s truly okay in the Christian bedroom? Tune in now, and share this episode with your spouse to start exploring!

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