Feeling Sexy Ep. 19: "Kinky?" Part 2 — Restraints, Romance Novels & Real Talk for Christian Marriages [RTH Episode #33]

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Hey friend! Welcome to Part 2 of 3 in our “Kinky?” conversation based on Chapter 19 of Feeling Sexy: A Christian Woman’s Guide to Sexual Confidence & Desire. If you missed last week’s episode, we highly recommend hitting pause and starting there—it lays the foundation for today’s spicy but sacred discussion.

In this episode of The Road to Happiness Podcast, Josh and Cassie (Certified Christian S*x Therapist and s*x educators) are diving into some real talk about:

• Restraints & bondage — what they mean, why they’re appealing, and how to discern if they belong in your bedroom
• “Spicy” books & media — aka erotic novels and romance content: how should Christians think about these?
• What Scripture has (or doesn’t have) to say about these practices, and
• How to check your heart posture, intentions, and connection as a couple when exploring these more adventurous areas of intimacy

Josh & Cassie bring both clinical insight and biblical perspective, helping you navigate the grey areas of kink with wisdom, curiosity, and confidence.

Key Takeaways:

• Curiosity is not sin—but it does need discernment, consent, and safety
• Just because the Bible doesn’t explicitly mention something doesn’t mean you can’t apply biblical wisdom to it
• Your nervous system, emotional safety, and spiritual values all matter when exploring kink
• The goal isn’t to get more “wild”—it’s to get more connected

Whether you're curious about incorporating restraints, unsure about reading romance novels, or wondering how to keep your s*x life spicy and sacred, you’re in the right place. You don’t have to feel shame for asking questions. God isn’t afraid of your curiosity—He invites you into a deeper, truer freedom. You’re not alone on this journey, and you don’t have to figure it all out in one night.

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