Feeling Sexy Ep. 19: "Kinky?" Part 1 — Exploring Uncommon Desires with Faith & Freedom [RTH Episode #32]

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Hey friend! If you grew up in the church, you may have heard that Missionary was the only “godly” way to connect in the bedroom. Meanwhile, culture tells us that anything goes. So where’s the truth? Let’s talk about it.

In this episode of The Road to Happiness Podcast, Josh & Cassie open up Chapter 19 of Feeling Sexy: A Christian Woman’s Guide to Sexual Confidence & Desire, and dive into a hot-topic question:
👉 What is kink? And is it okay for Christians?

The simplest definition of kink is any s*xual behavior that feels unusual or uncommon—but what’s “unusual” is completely relative. For some, or@l s*x still feels edgy. For others, using a blindfold is just an average Tuesday. Kink isn’t a rigid list—it’s a sliding scale based on your comfort, culture, and story.

Josh and Cassie (Certified Christian S*x Therapist and s*x educators) are exploring:

• What “kink” actually means for Christians
• How to determine what’s biblically aligned and what’s not
• Why curiosity and consent matter
• Practical categories and tips for couples looking to explore safely
• How to hold both playfulness and sacredness in your s*x life

There’s no “one right way” to express s*xual desire in marriage—just unity with your spouse, safety, trust, and freedom.

Key Takeaways:

• “Unusual” doesn’t mean “unholy”—it means it’s time for thoughtful, biblical discernment
• Kink can be safe, fun, and God-honoring with the right mindset and mutual consent
• Shame-free curiosity is part of maturing in your s*xual confidence
• You don’t need the world’s permission—you just need wisdom and trust in your marriage

You don’t need to fear your desires or judge what feels unfamiliar. When you explore from a place of mutual love, safety, and spiritual grounding, you create a space where deeper joy and playful intimacy can thrive.

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Ready to untangle shame from curiosity and learn what’s truly okay in the Christian bedroom? Tune in now, and share this episode with your spouse to start exploring!

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