• Please Don't Say You Love Me

  • How to Deal with a Narcissist, Recover from Narcissistic Abuse and Avoid Codependent Relationships
  • By: Carrie Parker
  • Narrated by: Samantha Archer
  • Length: 3 hrs and 15 mins
  • 4.6 out of 5 stars (28 ratings)

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Please Don't Say You Love Me

By: Carrie Parker
Narrated by: Samantha Archer
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Are you always being hurt by someone you know? Do their actions involve verbal assault, them bragging about their control, and are they mostly taking advantage of you? If yes, then you know a narcissist.

Do you exhibit the above characters consciously or without knowing when you do them? If your answer is yes as well, then you are a narcissist!

Should you be alarmed? Yes.

Some people believe that narcissism is a mental disorder, while others believe it's a defense mechanism; however, it is a thing of great concern for the narcissist and the people they affect. This book explains how to identify a narcissist, what are the types of relationships they set up, how they define their victims, and how to detach from such relationships with them to save yourself.

The entrails of the book provides information on:

  • Identifying what makes narcissists stick with their victims and the misconceptions and fault-lines that define such associations when certain behaviors are shown
  • Knowing how they raise concern, especially if they're mostly incompassionate. Suspicions will arise as to if this is narcissism.
  • Paying attention to detail on the selection process based on if their subjects can be controlled, how dominant they are over their victims, and the steps to trapping and taking the victim after identification and selection.
  • Defining when narcissists should seek therapy, if they even go for treatment, and what makes them accept change.

Here are guidelines to properly manage the break from a narcissist and for narcissists, from their nature.

If you are a narcissist, the book offers a way out, and if you know one, this material is an escape route for them onto a better personality.

The most extreme effect of narcissism is abuse, and there are detailed accounts given by the NPD.

This book is a must-have, so buy the audiobook now!

©2019 Carrie Parker (P)2019 Carrie Parker
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Awakening

This was a straight to the point and very interesting informative book. Although all my life I knew my mother was mentally ill this book sheds a huge light on the diagnosis. It sheds light on the Narcissist and their Victims! I realize now that my fiancé is also a Narcissist as well this is a very very well put together book. Narrated beautifully. If you have ever been a victim of this disorder and the people who have it this book teaches you how to help yourself! How to change and adapt or rid yourself of this evil. Thank You for this book!

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great read

lots of info to help develope a lense that helps me to see it all.

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Understanding the Grief Process

When you are grieving the loss of someone very dear to you, others don’t always understand why they can’t “get over it.” This audio book offers great insight to what is “normal” for those that are grieving. This is a valuable resource for everyone who is affected by grief and those that want to help, but not sure what to say or do for you.

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This audio book has helped me

This is a audio book about how to restore yourself after a toxic relationship. Oh, yes, narcissist can drink all your energy to the bottom, without ever choking, such people are abusing others. I am very devastated after my last relationship, nothing helped me. This audio book has helped me find the strength in myself, to live on, to be happy. And yes, I know how to protect myself from meeting the narcissist again.

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Heal your heart and Soar-A Must Buy

This is an excellent audio book about narcissism and narcissistic abuse. It covers a lot of ground and is helpful for those of us who have suffered at the hands of these evil monsters. The title seemed to me to be "revenge" seeking, but it is not. The audio book is focused on education of how the victim has been hooked and made to be trapped and how to heal once you get out. There are a number of types and some of the content appears to be a cut and paste job from other explaining. I hope the author will clean these issues up and that would help to make this audio book a tremendous reference worthy of strong professional use as well as for the victims.

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Possibly more than you bargained for

The audio book was not what I expected, but more than I expected. It is an honest, insightful, thought provoking look at the way early life experiences and parental nurturing, or lack of, shape the adult. It looks at the strengths and failures in parents who don't always get it right, for themselves or their children. It looks at choices and consequences, and the challenge of being a responsible adult despite early learning. It is also a strong statement about the power of love and faith.

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Knowledge is truly power!

Becoming the Narcissist's Nightmare is an excellent self-help audio book and exactly what I have needed to understand what I have been living with for the past fifty years. The remarkable insights I have gained, with regards to the psychological abuse I have suffered, have been liberating and empowering. Every mean-spirited thing my husband has ever said or done was documented in this audio book, which itself was a revelation!

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Powerful and emotional

Ortega blends relevant social psychology and beautiful language while exploring the dark world of one-sided love. This book delves into unrequited love in an honest, empathetic, and raw way, as it goes deeper than the tropes of many movies on this topic. I recommend powerful and well-explain literary work to anyone interested in romance, love, and/or social psychology.

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better than expected

better than expected, lots of valuable information. the author hits the hammer on the nail

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Self healing emotional guide.

This audio book does not accuse the person in question or offer its per users the key to managing, living with or being with somebody with narcissistic character Disorder.This audio book is about recuperation from the psychological mistreatment of which somebody with Narcissistic character issue is capable.There are a lot of audio books regarding this matter available thanks again for picking this one.This audio book is about recovery from the mental abuse of which someone with Narcissistic character issue is capable.It's been a remarkable novice audio book.I slanted such huge measures of convincing things from this audio book.This is really notable.

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