Episodes

  • Why can't she see the real me?
    Jun 6 2020

    You are a funny and easy-going guy who met someone. You spent some nice time together, you were joking like you always do. But then, she wrote that you are too serious for her. WTF? Where did she find this in you? Why did she see something that is not present in you at all? Or do you just think that it's not present in you?

    Is the perception that people have of you the real you?

    Is what we feel about ourselves real?

    Or is it something that you want to show?

    Sometimes we wonder how some people can come to conclusions about us that are the opposite of the real us.

    Why does one person see you as a serious individual and another one as a silly clown?

    What is the TRUE you amongst the "opinion of others", "our perception about ourselves" and the "real you"?

    In this episode we speak about the perception that people have about us and how to deal with it. Do we need to change something and if yes, what?

    True stories and the answer to the question, “Could someone be described in their entirety?”, included.


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    Daria Hackenberg (Russia, currently based in Berlin, Germany)

    Project Manager and Agilist, passionate in philosophical aspect of life and with deep understanding to people nature.

    daria on Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/darialifelover

    daria on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/darialifelover


    Hollis P Monroe (USA, currently based in Berlin, Germany)

    DJ/Music producer and YouTube conversationalist who thoroughly enjoys talking about a variety of topics in and outside of the music world.

    hollisTalks on YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/Hollistalks hollis on instagram: https://www.instagram.com/hollispmonroe/

    hollis on facebook: https://www.facebook.com/hollispmonroemusically

    hollis on line: http://pmonroe.com/

    Hollis talks to Daria: https://bit.ly/HollisTalksToDaria

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    46 mins
  • I am lazy. Or am I?
    May 29 2020

    Are you lazy?

    Would you consider yourself a lazy person? At times, do you feel as though you have no energy to accomplish the day’s tasks or even the inspiration to get out of bed in the morning? Do you get down on yourself because of this lack of enthusiasm?

    If you answered yes to any of these questions, then this episode is for you!

    We will question the preconception of laziness and even challenge its actual existence. We will propose the possibility that you are not lazy at all. On the contrary, you a person with an inherent but often misunderstood intuition in regards to your own desires and motivations.

    And as usual, we’ll share some stories and examples from our personal lives, because we, like all humans, are “lazy” from time to time...

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    Daria Hackenberg (Russia, currently based in Berlin, Germany)

    Project Manager and Agilist, passionate in philosophical aspect of life and with deep understanding to people nature.

    daria on Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/darialifelover

    daria on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/darialifelover


    Hollis P Monroe (USA, currently based in Berlin, Germany)

    DJ/Music producer and YouTube conversationalist who thoroughly enjoys talking about a variety of topics in and outside of the music world.

    hollisTalks on YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/Hollistalks hollis on instagram: https://www.instagram.com/hollispmonroe/

    hollis on facebook: https://www.facebook.com/hollispmonroemusically

    hollis on line: http://pmonroe.com/


    Hollis talks to Daria: https://bit.ly/HollisTalksToDaria

    --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/wearebelievers/message

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    44 mins
  • Afraid of getting old
    May 24 2020

    As children, we are in a rush to grow up, but once we reach adulthood, we very often regret that we didn’t fully appreciate our fleeting youth

    We do indeed grow up but at some point we recognize that we are also starting to grow old. The body looses the strength, speed and resilience it once had as the first wrinkles appear and the gray hair splashes. Most of us fear of aging.

    How terrible it is to become old! How terrible it is to realize that youth has abandoned you!

    But do we even need to be afraid of how old age can manifest itself?

    Is it only a drastic decline in appearance and ability coupled with the painful decrease of sexual attractiveness? Or we feel that life is going to be end? In this episode we discuss if we able to stop being afraid of getting old and that our set of mind make us old before we really get to this point.

    Maybe adapting to aging simply requires adjusting our way of thinking.

    We will tell you about Masha Panova's (@dusapin_masha) "Hide&seek" photo project and how it can change the view on aging.

    Listen to the episode and share your thoughts with us!

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    Daria Hackenberg (Russia, currently based in Berlin, Germany)

    Project Manager and Agilist, passionate in philosophical aspect of life and with deep understanding to people nature.

    daria on Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/darialifelover

    daria on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/darialifelover


    Hollis P Monroe (USA, currently based in Berlin, Germany)

    DJ/Music producer and YouTube conversationalist who thoroughly enjoys talking about a variety of topics in and outside of the music world.

    hollisTalks on YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/Hollistalks hollis on instagram: https://www.instagram.com/hollispmonroe/

    hollis on facebook: https://www.facebook.com/hollispmonroemusically

    hollis on line: http://pmonroe.com/

    Hollis talks to Daria: https://bit.ly/HollisTalksToDaria

    --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/wearebelievers/message

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    53 mins
  • Tinder dating with and without isolation
    May 18 2020

    Quarantine and social distancing have brought about new challenges for all of us.

    The restriction of physical interaction has left us no choice but to search for it on the Internet.

    The result seems to be that apps such as Tinder are being used more that ever before.

    Can virtual interactions replace real intimacy?

    Is it possible to find true love on a dating app?

    How necessary is your text description? Why do men want to meet soon? Why do women tend to want to communicate longer online before meeting?

    How important are attractive physical features versus good character traits?

    In this episode, we will tell some funny (and some not-so-funny) stories about online dating and how scammers might exploit our loneliness.


    Share your experience and dating-stories with us!

    Looking forward to hear from you!!

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    www.youtube.com/channel/UCQX4fEyuM7O054b3h23Jf5g/


    Daria Hackenberg (Russia, currently based in Berlin, Germany)

    Project Manager and Agilist, passionate in philosophical aspect of life and with deep understanding to people nature.

    daria on Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/darialifelover

    daria on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/darialifelover


    Hollis P Monroe (USA, currently based in Berlin, Germany)

    DJ/Music producer and YouTube conversationalist who thoroughly enjoys talking about a variety of topics in and outside of the music world.

    hollisTalks on YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/Hollistalks hollis on instagram: https://www.instagram.com/hollispmonroe/

    hollis on facebook: https://www.facebook.com/hollispmonroemusically

    hollis on line: http://pmonroe.com/

    Hollis talks to Daria: https://bit.ly/HollisTalksToDaria

    --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/wearebelievers/message

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    42 mins
  • CO-DEPENDENT USERS
    May 11 2020

    In this episode, we examine a letter from a person who seeking advice from relationship philosopher and YouTuber, Alexander Grace.

    In short. he was asking for guidance on what he should do about his seemingly one-sided relationship. And although it was posted over 8 months ago, in our opinion, this topic will always be relevant to many and therefore still worth exploring.

    How often do we get the feeling of being unappreciated or used? From time to time and under many circumstances, we can all feel it.

    But what do we do when it comes to our ongoing personal relationships?

    It's not easy to get out of this trap.

    And how often do we realize the codependent role we play in such a relationship?

    Very, very rarely.

    How could this even be possible when you feel that you are one being used and disregarded? We'll figure it out!

    Listen to the full text of the letter as well as our somewhat differing analyses and conclusions in this episode and afterwards, please share with us your thoughts and experiences about these kinds of situations.


    Looking forward to hear from you!!

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    Link to Alexander Grace channel: https://www.youtube.com/post/UgxwiREmkletcHrVtNF4AaABCQ


    Daria Hackenberg (Russia, currently based in Berlin, Germany)

    Project Manager and Agilist, passionate in philosophical aspect of life and with deep understanding to people nature.

    daria on Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/darialifelover

    daria on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/darialifelover


    Hollis P Monroe (USA, currently based in Berlin, Germany)

    DJ/Music producer and YouTube conversationalist who thoroughly enjoys talking about a variety of topics in and outside of the music world.

    hollisTalks on YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/Hollistalks hollis on instagram: https://www.instagram.com/hollispmonroe/

    hollis on facebook: https://www.facebook.com/hollispmonroemusically

    hollis on line: http://pmonroe.com/

    Hollis talks to Daria: https://bit.ly/HollisTalksToDaria

    --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/wearebelievers/message

    Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

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    42 mins
  • Podcast introduction
    May 4 2020

    Let us introduce ourselves!

    We are Believers is a project run by Daria Hackenberg and Hollis P Monroe.

    This podcast is rooted in philosophical theory, as well as real world practice, to be affirmed or challenged throughout our conversations.

    We are believers in ideas, people, and the power of love.

    We are not trying to change your mind. We only express what we believe as we do not claim to know. Along the way, we try to show how wonderful you are, in case you forget it and share with you our doubts and wonderings.

    Disagree? Have a better point? Have some other interesting topic or question? Write us a message!


    Looking forward to hear from you!!

    www.facebook.com/WRbelievers

    www.instagram.com/wrbelievers

    www.youtube.com/channel/UCQX4fEyuM7O054b3h23Jf5g/


    Daria Hackenberg (Russia, currently based in Berlin, Germany)

    Project Manager and Agilist, passionate in philosophical aspect of life and with deep understanding to people nature.

    daria on Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/darialifelover

    daria on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/darialifelover


    Hollis P Monroe (USA, currently based in Berlin, Germany)

    DJ/Music producer and YouTube conversationalist who thoroughly enjoys talking about a variety of topics in and outside of the music world.

    hollisTalks on YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/Hollistalks

    hollis on instagram: https://www.instagram.com/hollispmonroe/

    hollis on facebook: https://www.facebook.com/hollispmonroemusically

    hollis on line: http://pmonroe.com/

    Hollis talks to Daria: https://bit.ly/HollisTalksToDaria

    --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/wearebelievers/message

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    3 mins
  • NO MAKEUP means she has NO INTEREST
    May 3 2020

    A week of chatting and finally the long-awaited first date, but she (oh my God!) came without makeup!

    What would that mean?

    She wants to show that she's not interested in you?

    Or does she want you to recognize her as a person first?

    Or is she nice and comfortable with you?

    Or maybe she never wears makeup and her armpits are in the jungle?

    Or maybe it just doesn't matter?


    In this episode we try to figure out the possible reasons and question the need for makeup in general.


    We also discuss how men and women are attracted, both from our personal point of view and in terms of psychology, physiology and natural instincts.

    What is really important and what is not? How to be attracted to the opposite sex and to remain yourself?


    And as always, we share our personal stories!


    Listen and share your opinion and your stories with us!!!


    The song Hollis says in episode: What a Fool Believers - The Doobie Brothers


    Looking forward to hear from you!!

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    www.youtube.com/channel/UCQX4fEyuM7O054b3h23Jf5g/


    Daria Hackenberg (Russia, currently based in Berlin, Germany)

    Project Manager and Agilist, passionate in philosophical aspect of life and with deep understanding to people nature.

    daria on Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/darialifelover

    daria on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/darialifelover

    Hollis P Monroe (USA, currently based in Berlin, Germany)

    DJ/Music producer and YouTube conversationalist who thoroughly enjoys talking about a variety of topics in and outside of the music world.

    hollisTalks on YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/Hollistalks

    hollis on instagram: https://www.instagram.com/hollispmonroe/

    hollis on facebook: https://www.facebook.com/hollispmonroemusically

    hollis on line: http://pmonroe.com/

    Hollis talks to Daria: https://bit.ly/HollisTalksToDaria

    --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/wearebelievers/message

    Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

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    1 hr
  • GET LOST IN CORONACRISIS
    Apr 26 2020

    Fear, uncertainty, instability, powerlessness, uncertainty... ...is what brings people around the world together today.

    We live in a new world for us and no one knows how long it will last. We isolate ourselves in our homes, keep our distance, can't meet friends or even family like we used to.

    The Coronacrisis is affecting each of us.

    Each of us is dealing with it as best we can.

    We believe that someone is helped by his supply of toilet paper, but it does not save from a lack of social contacts.

    How not to go insane?

    In this issue, we'll discuss a few options. Listen all the way through and find your inspiration.

    But the most important thing to remember is that we are still human beings and we should treat other people with understanding and not lose our humanity.

    Stay strong! Stay home!


    The art project "Isolation" mentioned in the episode can be found at: https://www.facebook.com/groups/izoizolyacia


    Tell us about your challenges and how you deal with it!

    Looking forward to hear from you!!

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    Daria Hackenberg (Russia, currently based in Berlin, Germany)

    Project Manager and Agilist, passionate in philosophical aspect of life and with deep understanding to people nature.

    daria on Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/darialifelover

    daria on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/darialifelover


    Hollis P Monroe (USA, currently based in Berlin, Germany)

    DJ/Music producer and YouTube conversationalist who thoroughly enjoys talking about a variety of topics in and outside of the music world.

    hollisTalks on YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/Hollistalks

    hollis on instagram: https://www.instagram.com/hollispmonroe/

    hollis on facebook: https://www.facebook.com/hollispmonroemusically

    hollis on line: http://pmonroe.com/

    Hollis talks to Daria: https://bit.ly/HollisTalksToDaria

    --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/wearebelievers/message

    Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

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    42 mins