"[The stepmom] deserves to be a parent to my children, just as I deserve to be a parent to her children, as long as we've got their best interest at heart.”

We put mystery stepfather, Bobby, under the forge today to talk about how he came back from total devastation 3 years ago. Both Wally and Big A really get at the deepest levels of why he and his wife divorced and how he determined to make the choices he made.

When life hands you a blend of triumphs and trials, it's the resilience cultivated through each challenge that truly defines us. As we navigate the emotional landscape of divorce and blended family dynamics, we uncover the essential role of empathy, understanding, and mentorship. Bobby's candid testimony underscores the power of community, particularly that of the Iron Sharpens Iron Mastermind group, which proved instrumental in his inspiring transformation.

Key Takeaways:

• Being defensive vs. argumentative when you are a "less emotional" man
• The best advice to give couples blending their families together
• How to change things when you're in the worst place you've ever been

This episode is for those facing the harrowing task of co-parenting amidst separation. We broach the tough decisions that come with prioritizing children's well-being and the profound impact such choices have on family harmony.

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Connect with Big A and Wally:
View From The Top Website: https://www.viewfromthetop.com/
The Climb Newsletter: https://www.viewfromthetop.com/climb
Big A’s Linkedin: https://www.linkedin.com/in/aaronwalkerviewfromthetop/
Wally’s Linkedin: https://www.linkedin.com/in/kevinwallenbeck/

"How do we lead if we have a wife that doesn't want to be led?” We might assume we know a lot about women, but actually we really DON'T know a lot about women.

Marriage is often filled with mystery–how much should we lead, are we supposed to "be in charge," how do we solve difficult issues?

As we peel back the layers of the husband's burden of leadership, Quentin Hafner, professional Skyward Success Coach and trusted advisor, helps us to dig deep into the heart of marriage and gives us practical ways to lead well. Together, we uncover the transformative power of a thriving partnership. Expect to walk away from this episode with a renewed perspective on leadership, empathy, and the delicate dance of communication that holds the key to a more connected and fulfilling relationship.

Key Takeaways:

• The single best instrument for personal development
• What if your wife doesn't want you to lead?
• 3 crucial elements husbands must implement for the best possible outcomes
• How do we solve problems within our marriage?

This discussion is not your typical chat about marital roles. It's an intimate exploration of the intricacies of spiritual and practical leadership in a Christian marriage. We break down the misconceptions about what it means to lead, emphasizing the impact of servant leadership and the Holy Spirit's role in guiding us through the complexities of Scripture. Our talk is an invitation for husbands to lead with integrity and service, fostering trust and depth in their unions.

LinkedIn Group:

Connect with Quentin Hafner:
Website: https://quentinhafner.com/
LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/quentin-hafner-93b07034/

Connect with Big A and Wally:
LinkedIn Group: https://www.viewfromthetop.com/group
Local Roundtable Events: https://go.viewfromthetop.com/isiroundtable
View From The Top Website: https://www.viewfromthetop.com/
The Climb Newsletter: https://www.viewfromthetop.com/climb
Big A’s Linkedin: https://www.linkedin.com/in/aaronwalkerviewfromthetop/
Wally’s Linkedin: https://www.linkedin.com/in/kevinwallenbeck/

“I don’t want you guys chasing shiny objects.” Life is hard. Difficult circumstances come and go, we face hard decisions, we encounter business woes, marital friction, the battle against complacency, and so much more. What does it take to truly be resilient to the constant stress of this world?

Between Wally's decision to sell his multi-million dollar business and Big A's wake up call to the tragedies of being unable to control life and safety within his family, you'll be getting a cold wash in the face yourself about life's most trying moments and men who walked through them and came out the other side.

Key Takeaways:

• How to solve difficult problems
• Best routines for surviving the hard
• How to build resiliency
• What matters more than preparation

The practice of gratitude, a simple yet profound shift in focus, is praised as a daily ritual that magnifies life's blessings over its shortcomings. Join us as we share these reflections, with the hope of enriching your path with the steadfast resilience and heartfelt gratitude that have fortified ours.

Resources:
Carol Dweck's Mindset
Dr. Andy Garret Resilience Course: https://www.truenorthprograms.online/sales-page-41c05714-f632-4d54-97ed-b88ab5449013

LinkedIn Group: https://www.viewfromthetop.com/group
Local Roundtable Events: https://go.viewfromthetop.com/isiroundtable

Connect with Big A and Wally:
View From The Top Website: https://www.viewfromthetop.com/
The Climb Newsletter: https://www.viewfromthetop.com/climb
Big A’s Linkedin: https://www.linkedin.com/in/aaronwalkerviewfromthetop/
Wally’s Linkedin: https://www.linkedin.com/in/kevinwallenbeck/