• 205 - Practical Advice: Navigating the Dating Scene After Divorce
    May 20 2024

    Dating after divorce can be a daunting prospect, especially for dads. With responsibilities towards your children and the emotional aftermath of a divorce, re-entering the dating world requires careful consideration and preparation. Drawing insights from Dr. Shawn T. Smith's book, "The Practical Guide to Women", here are the most important aspects for dads to focus on when preparing to date again.

    As we explore five specific ways fathers can root themselves in Christianity for support, we will discover practical steps we can take to deepen our faith, draw closer to God, and experience His transformative power in our lives. From seeking comfort in God's presence to prioritizing faith-filled parenting, these steps offer a roadmap for fathers to navigate through the challenges of divorce with grace and resilience.

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    How Are You Adjusting To Your Divorce? Find out in this quiz - http://www.thedivorceddadvocate.com/divorce-quiz.html

    *FREE Dads Guide To Divorce* How to survive and thrive during and after divorce: http://www.dadsguidetodivorce.com

    Don't suffer in silence! Get relief from the pain and confusion of your divorce and schedule your FREE, No Obligation Coaching Consultation - schedule a time directly into my schedule at www.TalkWithJude.com.

    Join other divorced dads who have experienced or are experiencing divorce in this FREE Divorced Dads Online Meetup Group - https://www.meetup.com/Divorced-Dads-Meetup-Group/

    Other Resources:

    The Divorced Dadvocate Website - http://www.TheDivorcedDadvocate.com

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  • 204 - Finding Strength in Faith: A Father's Guide to God's Transformative Power During and After Divorce
    May 13 2024

    Embracing God's transformative power is not just a matter of religious devotion; it is a lifeline for fathers in the midst of divorce's tumult. It is an invitation to surrender our burdens, our fears, and our uncertainties to the One who holds the universe in His hands. And in embracing this invitation, fathers find not just survival, but true and lasting flourishing, as we journey through divorce and emerge on the other side, renewed, restored, and deeply rooted in the love and grace of God.

    As we explore five specific ways fathers can root themselves in Christianity for support, we will discover practical steps we can take to deepen our faith, draw closer to God, and experience His transformative power in our lives. From seeking comfort in God's presence to prioritizing faith-filled parenting, these steps offer a roadmap for fathers to navigate through the challenges of divorce with grace and resilience.

    Join The Divorce Dadvocate Membership Community - FULL Episodes - Live Meetings – FREE Workshops & Courses – Private Discussion Groups & MORE! - https://thedivorceddadvocate.com/membership-tiers/

    How Are You Adjusting To Your Divorce? Find out in this quiz - http://www.thedivorceddadvocate.com/divorce-quiz.html

    *FREE Dads Guide To Divorce* How to survive and thrive during and after divorce: http://www.dadsguidetodivorce.com

    Don't suffer in silence! Get relief from the pain and confusion of your divorce and schedule your FREE, No Obligation Coaching Consultation - schedule a time directly into my schedule at www.TalkWithJude.com.

    Join other divorced dads who have experienced or are experiencing divorce in this FREE Divorced Dads Online Meetup Group - https://www.meetup.com/Divorced-Dads-Meetup-Group/

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    The Divorced Dadvocate Website - http://www.TheDivorcedDadvocate.com

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  • 203 - REPLAY: "Toxic" Masculinity And How To Learn From Divorce
    May 6 2024

    Clinical psychologist and author of The Tactical Guide To Woman: How Men Can Manage Risk In Dating And Marriage, Dr. Shawn T. Smith joins the show. We discuss the false narrative of "toxic" masculinity and how divorced fathers can learn from the end of their marriage and not make the same mistakes in the future.

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    How Are You Adjusting To Your Divorce? Find out in this quiz - http://www.thedivorceddadvocate.com/divorce-quiz.html

    *FREE Dads Guide To Divorce* How to survive and thrive during and after divorce: http://www.dadsguidetodivorce.com

    Don't suffer in silence! Get relief from the pain and confusion of your divorce and schedule your FREE, No Obligation Coaching Consultation - schedule a time directly into my schedule at www.TalkWithJude.com.

    Join other divorced dads who have experienced or are experiencing divorce in this FREE Divorced Dads Online Meetup Group - https://www.meetup.com/Divorced-Dads-Meetup-Group/

    Other Resources:

    The Divorced Dadvocate Website - http://www.TheDivorcedDadvocate.com

    The Divorced Dadvocate YouTube Channel - https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=GeSwx-F8KK4&list=PLT4HyN5ishYJznK51205ESxGZ2d19YkBp

    The Divorced Dadvocate Podcast - https://thedivorceddadvocate.buzzsprout.com/

    Divorced Dads Online Meetup Group - https://www.meetup.com/Divorced-Dads-Meetup-Group/

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  • 202 - The Weaponization of Therapy Against Divorcing Fathers: Navigating Biases and Seeking Support
    Apr 29 2024

    Divorce is often described as one of life's most stressful events, and for fathers navigating separation, the journey can be particularly challenging. Amidst legal battles, emotional upheaval, and the complexities of co-parenting, there's an additional hurdle: therapy. In recent times, therapy has increasingly become a battleground against divorcing fathers, perpetuating stereotypes and complicating their path towards healing. Let's delve into how therapy can inadvertently become a weapon, targeting not only authoritarian parenting but also perpetuating negative views of masculinity.

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    *FREE Dads Guide To Divorce* How to survive and thrive during and after divorce: http://www.dadsguidetodivorce.com

    Don't suffer in silence! Get relief from the pain and confusion of your divorce and schedule your FREE, No Obligation Coaching Consultation - schedule a time directly into my schedule at www.TalkWithJude.com.

    Join other divorced dads who have experienced or are experiencing divorce in this FREE Divorced Dads Online Meetup Group - https://www.meetup.com/Divorced-Dads-Meetup-Group/

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    The Divorced Dadvocate Website - http://www.TheDivorcedDadvocate.com

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  • 201 - Understanding Your Role in Relationship Dynamics for Success Post Divorce
    Apr 22 2024

    As a divorced dad, navigating the aftermath of a failed marriage can feel like traversing uncharted waters. Yet, amidst the challenges and heartaches lies an invaluable opportunity for growth and self-reflection. One of the most crucial aspects of this journey is understanding your role in the relational dynamics that led to the breakdown of your marriage. By acknowledging and learning from these dynamics, you pave the way for healthier co-parenting and personal growth. Here are ten key points to consider:

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    *FREE Dads Guide To Divorce* How to survive and thrive during and after divorce: http://www.dadsguidetodivorce.com

    Don't suffer in silence! Get relief from the pain and confusion of your divorce and schedule your FREE, No Obligation Coaching Consultation - schedule a time directly into my schedule at www.TalkWithJude.com.

    Join other divorced dads who have experienced or are experiencing divorce in this FREE Divorced Dads Online Meetup Group - https://www.meetup.com/Divorced-Dads-Meetup-Group/

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    The Divorced Dadvocate Website - http://www.TheDivorcedDadvocate.com

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    The Divorced Dadvocate Podcast - https://thedivorceddadvocate.buzzsprout.com/

    Divorced Dads Online Meetup Group - https://www.meetup.com/Divorced-Dads-Meetup-Group/

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  • 200 - A Guide for Divorced Dads on Shedding the "Nice Guy" Persona
    Apr 15 2024

    Divorce can be a tumultuous journey, especially for fathers who were once co-dependent in their marriages. The aftermath often leaves them grappling with a sense of identity, particularly if they were accustomed to being the "nice guy" who prioritized their partner's needs over their own. However, post-divorce life offers an opportunity for growth and self-discovery. It's a chance to break free from old patterns and embrace a healthier, more empowered way of living. In this guide, we'll explore how divorced dads can stop being the "nice guy" and cultivate a life filled with boundaries, self-respect, and self-esteem.

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    How Are You Adjusting To Your Divorce? Find out in this quiz - http://www.thedivorceddadvocate.com/divorce-quiz.html

    *FREE Dads Guide To Divorce* How to survive and thrive during and after divorce: http://www.dadsguidetodivorce.com

    Don't suffer in silence! Get relief from the pain and confusion of your divorce and schedule your FREE, No Obligation Coaching Consultation - schedule a time directly into my schedule at www.TalkWithJude.com.

    Join other divorced dads who have experienced or are experiencing divorce in this FREE Divorced Dads Online Meetup Group - https://www.meetup.com/Divorced-Dads-Meetup-Group/

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    The Divorced Dadvocate Website - http://www.TheDivorcedDadvocate.com

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    The Divorced Dadvocate Podcast - https://thedivorceddadvocate.buzzsprout.com/

    Divorced Dads Online Meetup Group - https://www.meetup.com/Divorced-Dads-Meetup-Group/

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  • 199 - The Top 10 Ways Mothers Alienate Children from Their Fathers During Divorce
    Apr 8 2024

    Divorce is often a tumultuous time for families, especially when children are involved. While both parents may strive to prioritize the well-being of their children, sometimes dynamics can become strained, leading to one parent feeling alienated from their child. Unfortunately, it's not uncommon for mothers to inadvertently or intentionally alienate their children from their fathers during divorce proceedings. Here are the top 10 ways this can happen:

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    *FREE Dads Guide To Divorce* How to survive and thrive during and after divorce: http://www.dadsguidetodivorce.com

    Don't suffer in silence! Get relief from the pain and confusion of your divorce and schedule your FREE, No Obligation Coaching Consultation - schedule a time directly into my schedule at www.TalkWithJude.com.

    Join other divorced dads who have experienced or are experiencing divorce in this FREE Divorced Dads Online Meetup Group - https://www.meetup.com/Divorced-Dads-Meetup-Group/

    Other Resources:

    The Divorced Dadvocate Website - http://www.TheDivorcedDadvocate.com

    The Divorced Dadvocate YouTube Channel - https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=GeSwx-F8KK4&list=PLT4HyN5ishYJznK51205ESxGZ2d19YkBp

    The Divorced Dadvocate Podcast - https://thedivorceddadvocate.buzzsprout.com/

    Divorced Dads Online Meetup Group - https://www.meetup.com/Divorced-Dads-Meetup-Group/

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  • 198 - Rising from the Ashes: A Father’s Journey Through Divorce and Redemption
    Apr 1 2024

    Divorce, with its seismic impact, fractures the bedrock of familial unity, leaving behind a landscape strewn with the debris of dashed dreams and shattered aspirations. For fathers, tasked with navigating these tempestuous waters, the journey through divorce can resemble a Herculean odyssey, fraught with the weight of grief, guilt, and relentless uncertainty. Yet, amidst the crucible of anguish and upheaval, lies an unexpected crucible of transformation – a beacon of redemption beckoning fathers to rise from the ashes of their past and embark on a pilgrimage towards wholeness and renewal.

    During this Easter weekend and inspired by the timeless narrative of Jesus and his resurrection, this exploration ventures into the profound parallels between divine redemption and the arduous journey of fathers through divorce. Like Jesus emerging triumphant from the tomb, fathers are invited to confront the shadows of their past and embrace the dawn of a new beginning, illuminated by the radiance of hope, purpose, and boundless possibility.

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    How Are You Adjusting To Your Divorce? Find out in this quiz - http://www.thedivorceddadvocate.com/divorce-quiz.html

    *FREE Dads Guide To Divorce* How to survive and thrive during and after divorce: http://www.dadsguidetodivorce.com

    Don't suffer in silence! Get relief from the pain and confusion of your divorce and schedule your FREE, No Obligation Coaching Consultation - schedule a time directly into my schedule at www.TalkWithJude.com.

    Join other divorced dads who have experienced or are experiencing divorce in this FREE Divorced Dads Online Meetup Group - https://www.meetup.com/Divorced-Dads-Meetup-Group/

    Other Resources:

    The Divorced Dadvocate Website - http://www.TheDivorcedDadvocate.com

    The Divorced Dadvocate YouTube Channel - https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=GeSwx-F8KK4&list=PLT4HyN5ishYJznK51205ESxGZ2d19YkBp

    The Divorced Dadvocate Podcast - https://thedivorceddadvocate.buzzsprout.com/

    Divorced Dads Online Meetup Group - https://www.meetup.com/Divorced-Dads-Meetup-Group/

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