In this episode, I chat with Yair Lenchner, a private chef and husband to two pregnant wives (11 weeks apart), one of whom is sex therapist Rachel Wright. Yair shares his incredible journey from being a serial monogamist and cheater to embracing life as an open, polyamorous partner. We discuss how they’re navigating the pregnancies, what they plan to explain to their children, and Yair’s advice for those who have cheated or are new to non-monogamy (he’s now taking coaching clients).

We also delve into what dating a chef is really like, the valuable lessons he’s learned from his sex therapist wife, and how they manage finances in their polyamorous household. Additionally, we discuss his therapy journey and the importance of seeking professional help. This episode offers a deep dive into the complexities and joys of polyamorous life, parenting, personal growth, and the crucial role of therapy in navigating it all.

You can email him at yairlenchner@gmail.com for his coaching services! @chefyairlenchner on IG.

In this episode, I sit down with Cassie Black (@safe.slut), a sex educator, herpes advocate, and adult entertainer. We dive deep into the world of herpes, discussing whether your sex life is over after a diagnosis or if you can still be a safe and empowered slut. Cassie shares her personal story of discovering she had herpes, the stigma surrounding it, and the common misbeliefs and myths that need busting. We also tackle the important topic of disclosure, exploring if and when you should always disclose and the best ways to do so. This episode is a must-listen for anyone looking to understand herpes better and break free from the stigma.

Join me for an enlightening conversation with Cory Bush, a non-binary full spectrum doula and sex educator. In this episode, we explore the profound role of a full spectrum doula and the magical aspects of birth, challenging the notion that childbirth must be traumatic. Cory shares insights on why opt-out consent can be beneficial for neurodivergent individuals, and opens up about their non-monogamous and queer journey.

We also discuss how coming off birth control has transformed Cory's life, providing a deeper understanding of body autonomy and self-discovery. This episode is a celebration of empowerment, inclusivity, and the diverse experiences that shape our sexual and reproductive lives.