Episodes

  • Season 2, Part 1: One year of platonic co-parenting
    May 14 2024

    We've made it to our baby's first birthday (!) and we're celebrating with a new season of Don't Think Twice. How has the past year been? What are the expectations versus reality of parenting as friends? Did things shake out as we imagined in last year's Season 1 episodes? Join us and find out!

    Amrita and Andrew are creative collaborators, platonic life-partners, and co-parents to a very good baby. You can keep up with them at emergencycontacts.substack.com

    Poet and clinical psychologist Marina Weiss joins us again as moderator and host.

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    44 mins
  • Season 1, Part 10: Family Ties
    Jul 5 2023

    We've come full circle in our tale of preparing for co-parenting: FAMILY. Andrew and Amrita's biological families will be fused together by this new baby -- what will that look like for a platonic couple? How will our very different religious and cultural upbringings come into play for our new family unit?

    Host Marina Weiss helps bring this series home.

    Want more updates from our nontraditional family? Let us know what you'd like to see from future episodes!

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    34 mins
  • Season 1, Part 9: Sex and Romance
    Jun 19 2023

    We're nearing the end of our Baby Episodes! But we can't leave without confronting how sex and dating will work in Amrita and Andrew's new roles as friends raising a child together.

    Host Marina Weiss does a little after-hours therapy and guides us in an open and vulnerable conversation about our ideal romantic partners, and how they might fit into our unconventional family. We all learn a lot.

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    39 mins
  • Season 1, Part 8: It’s Different for Boys
    Jun 12 2023

    In this week's exploration of nontraditional family, we look at a male perspective on parenthood.

    Andrew sits down with our friend JR Andre - an educator and school administrator who is on the pathway to parenthood along with his husband.

    We talk gay fatherhood, navigating relationships with the women involved in the process, and the importance of queer community and queer legacies.

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    35 mins
  • Season 1, Part 7: It’s Different for Girls
    Jun 5 2023

    On our journey to explore nontraditional family, we're taking a couple episodes to explore the gendered issues around the decision to have children (or not). This week, an episode very close to Amrita's heart.

    Special guest Ciara Pressler is an accomplished author and entrepreneur, and also confidently child-free.

    We talk cultural taboos, feminism, the wildly shallow dating pool, and the double-edged swords that affect moms and childfree women alike.

    Next week: Andrew's turn!

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    38 mins
  • Season 1, Part 6: The Business (and Law) of babymaking
    May 29 2023

    We've gotten a lot of questions about the legal aspects of our platonic coparenting situation, and there's plenty to discuss!

    We get into the finer points of tax policy for self-employed parents -- plus, our experience with the fabulous Chosen Family Law Center, who are helping us iron out a co-parenting agreement for unpartnered parents. (Which tbh, all sorts of parents could probably benefit from).

    Our host Marina Weiss gamely braves this jaunt into the practical realities of chosen family.

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    30 mins
  • Season 1, Part 5: Pregnancy feels and facts
    May 22 2023

    Things are chugging along. Now that the baby's cooking, how has it been?

    BFFs Amrita and Andrew steer through the pregnancy as friends, finding new ways to care for one another, and maintain boundaries.

    We also have several notes about the raggedy-ass American health care system....especially as uninsured freelancers. Yikes.

    Host Marina Weiss asks all the right questions and comments as we go.

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    36 mins
  • Season 1, Part 4: The (Most Accurate) Conception
    May 8 2023

    All right people, time for this baby to get made (And we know you're curious, just admit it).

    In this week's installment, best buds Amrita and Andrew answer pressing questions such as: Why now? How did we, you know....do it? What's the "new" old-fashioned way? Why is it all so UNscientific? Plus, the shockingly apropos timing of the actual moment of conception (!).

    Host and clinical psychologist Marina Weiss steers us through it all.

    [nb: we will discuss miscarriage in this episode. Nothing too gnarly, just be aware.]

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    35 mins