Episodes

  • After Dark 21: Building A Sisterhood-Part 2

    After Dark 21: Building A Sisterhood-Part 2
    Mar 18 2021
    Ever wondered how real friendships and sisterhoods start? The next two episodes explores the dynamics of the sisterhood between the host, Valencia Griffin-Wallace and Queen Co hosts, Lyvonne Copeland and Shannon Ward. Sisterhoods aren't made overnight. Finding those that understand you, support you and lovingly guide you the right way is what we all need. As we look back on who we were and how we came together, most will find inspiration that a true sisterhood can be built. We also discuss why it is very important for others to build friendships. Join the conversation if you want to understand how real sisterhoods are built to last. Show Links https://www.facebook.com/valencia.gwallace (Follow Valencia on social media) https://www.valenciagwallace.com/ (www.valenciagwallace.com) https://www.instagram.com/lyvonnecopeland/ (Follow Lyvonne on social media) https://www.lyvonnecopeland.com/ (www.lyvonnecopeland.com) https://www.instagram.com/thereal_che_don/ (Follow Shannon on social media) http://www.chedonmusic.com/index.html (www.chedonmusic.com) Connect with the show: Facebook-https://www.facebook.com/thedefineu (The Define U ) Instagram-https://www.instagram.com/thedefineu/ (The Define U ) Subscribe: You can subscribe to Define U Radio on iTunes, Google Podcast, and anywhere you listen to podcast. If you liked the conversation, go on a listening binge here. Join the Conversation on social media using #DefineURadio Sidenote: The opinions of the host and guest are our own and are not in any way meant to offend or sway your own thoughts, research, or beliefs. Do your research and think for yourself. https://www.paypal.me/lifebydesign (Support the show) (https://www.paypal.me/lifebydesign)
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    40 mins
  • After Dark 20: Building A Sisterhood (The reintroduction)-Part 1

    After Dark 20: Building A Sisterhood (The reintroduction)-Part 1
    Mar 11 2021
    Ever wondered how real friendships and sisterhoods start? The next two episodes explores the dynamics of the sisterhood between the host, Valencia Griffin-Wallace and Queen Co hosts, Lyvonne Copeland and Shannon Ward. We share the parts of our story people most forget...the pain. The show takes an interesting turn as we ask each other questions and realize how years later, we are more connected than ever before. There is a part 2, so make sure you stay tuned to hear the conclusion and some tips for building a sisterhood. Join the conversation if you want to understand how real sisterhoods are built to last. Show Links https://www.facebook.com/valencia.gwallace (Follow Valencia on social media) https://www.valenciagwallace.com/ (www.valenciagwallace.com) https://www.instagram.com/lyvonnecopeland/ (Follow Lyvonne on social media) https://www.lyvonnecopeland.com/ (www.lyvonnecopeland.com) https://www.instagram.com/thereal_che_don/ (Follow Shannon on social media) http://www.chedonmusic.com/index.html (www.chedonmusic.com) Connect with the show: Facebook-https://www.facebook.com/thedefineu (The Define U ) Instagram-https://www.instagram.com/thedefineu/ (The Define U ) Subscribe: You can subscribe to Define U Radio on iTunes, Google Podcast, and anywhere you listen to podcast. If you liked the conversation, go on a listening binge here. Join the Conversation on social media using #DefineURadio Sidenote: The opinions of the host and guest are our own and are not in any way meant to offend or sway your own thoughts, research, or beliefs. Do your research and think for yourself. https://www.paypal.me/lifebydesign (Support the show) (https://www.paypal.me/lifebydesign)
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    40 mins
  • After Dark 19: Rebound and Relationship Do Over or Neither

    After Dark 19: Rebound and Relationship Do Over or Neither
    Mar 4 2021
    Are you using your current relationship to get over your last? Are you considering giving someone another chance? Queen friend of the show, Donna Barnes joins the conversation about getting hurt rebounding and giving a past relationship a do over. Have you been a rebound and did it go to something bigger? Join the conversation to hear things to consider before you go or stay Key Topics and Things Mentioned: What exactly is a rebound relationship How much disclosure is necessary What to consider before giving someone a second chance Show Links https://www.facebook.com/valencia.gwallace (Follow Valencia on social media) https://www.valenciagwallace.com/ (www.valenciagwallace.com) https://www.instagram.com/gracefullypurposedcounseling/ (Follow Donna on social media) https://www.gracefullypurposedcounseling.com/contact (www.gracefullypurposedcounseling.com) Connect with the show: https://www.facebook.com/thedefineu (The Define U on FB) https://www.instagram.com/thedefineu/ (The Define U on IG) Subscribe: You can subscribe to Define U Radio on iTunes, Google Podcast, and anywhere you listen to podcast. If you liked the conversation, go on a listening binge here. Join the Conversation on social media using #DefineURadio and #AfterDarkConversations. Sidenote: The opinions of the host and guest are our own and are not in any way meant to offend or sway your own thoughts, research, or beliefs. Do your research and think for yourself. https://www.paypal.me/lifebydesign (Support the show) (https://www.paypal.me/lifebydesign)
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    31 mins
  • After Dark 18: Should You Resuscitate or Exit A Relationship with Donna Barnes

    After Dark 18: Should You Resuscitate or Exit A Relationship with Donna Barnes
    Feb 25 2021
    How do you know when a relationship is over? Do you make a speedy exit or try to work it out because of responsibilities? Queen friend of the show, Donna Barnes joins the conversation about relationships and love. We also discuss cheating and who we think cheats more. If you have ever wondered should you leave or stay, this is the show for you. Women often try to make it work especially if children are involved. Or is that a stereotype? Join the conversation to hear things to consider before you go or stay Key Topics and Things Mentioned: How do you know when a relationship is over Is it worth salvaging when you have been hurt The point of no return in most relationships and more!!! Show Links https://www.facebook.com/valencia.gwallace (Follow Valencia on social media) https://www.valenciagwallace.com/ (www.valenciagwallace.com) https://www.instagram.com/gracefullypurposedcounseling/ (Follow Donna on social media) https://www.gracefullypurposedcounseling.com/contact (www.gracefullypurposedcounseling.com) Connect with the show: https://www.facebook.com/thedefineu (The Define U on FB) https://www.instagram.com/thedefineu/ (The Define U on IG) Subscribe: You can subscribe to Define U Radio on iTunes, Google Podcast, and anywhere you listen to podcast. If you liked the conversation, go on a listening binge here. Join the Conversation on social media using #DefineURadio and #AfterDarkConversations. Sidenote: The opinions of the host and guest are our own and are not in any way meant to offend or sway your own thoughts, research, or beliefs. Do your research and think for yourself. https://www.paypal.me/lifebydesign (Support the show) (https://www.paypal.me/lifebydesign)
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    44 mins
  • After Dark 17: Loving, Uplifting, and Supporting Black Women

    After Dark 17: Loving, Uplifting, and Supporting Black Women
    Feb 18 2021
    Are you letting the opinions and pressures from the outside change who you are on the inside? This special Valentines episode is all about loving, uplifting and supporting black women in their greatness. Message clips from special peoples in the host, co hosts and others who have something to say. This is the episode that will make you love yourself more even when you are struggling with media messages, personal low self esteem or just need a pick me up. Tips are given that you can practice in your own life to build your self confidence and self love. Loving yourself as a black woman doesn't mean you don't love others, it just means you love yourself more. If you want to join a conversation around black women love, uplifting and supporting each other, Join the conversation Show Links https://www.facebook.com/valencia.gwallace (Follow Valencia on social media) https://www.valenciagwallace.com/ (www.valenciagwallace.com) https://www.instagram.com/lyvonnecopeland/ (Follow Lyvonne on social media) https://www.lyvonnecopeland.com/ (www.lyvonnecopeland.com) https://www.instagram.com/thereal_che_don/ (Follow Shannon on social media) http://www.chedonmusic.com/index.html (www.chedonmusic.com) Connect with the show: https://www.facebook.com/thedefineu (The Define U on FB) https://www.instagram.com/thedefineu/ (The Define U on IG) Subscribe: You can subscribe to Define U Radio on iTunes, Google Podcast, and anywhere you listen to podcast. If you liked the conversation, go on a listening binge here. Join the Conversation on social media using #DefineURadio and #AfterDarkConversations. Sidenote: The opinions of the host and guest are our own and are not in any way meant to offend or sway your own thoughts, research, or beliefs. Do your research and think for yourself. https://www.paypal.me/lifebydesign (Support the show) (https://www.paypal.me/lifebydesign)
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    17 mins
  • After Dark 16: Accepting, Changing and Compromising In Relationships

    After Dark 16: Accepting, Changing and Compromising In Relationships
    Feb 11 2021
    In getting the love you want; how much are you willing to compromise? In this episode, the queens discuss everything from salacious women to relationships that change over time. Relationships right now are different. Between pandemic babies and you are not the one during this pandemic, relationships are changing some for better and others for worse. Can men and women be friends if they are in relationships with others? The queens discuss their feeling on males and females being friends. Shannon is open to her significant other having female friends. Lyvonne is okay if she likes the woman and Valencia is hands down no indeed. What are your thoughts? How would you handle your child’s relationship if something was going on you didn’t like? Yeah, we go there too! If you want to join a conversation around friends, boundaries and more in love, this is your show! Join the conversation Key Topics and Things Mentioned: Controlling or Crazy In Love Being Involved in Your Child's Relationships Should You Compromise or Change Pandemic Relationship Transitions and More! Show Links https://www.facebook.com/valencia.gwallace (Follow Valencia on social media) https://www.valenciagwallace.com/ (www.valenciagwallace.com) https://www.instagram.com/lyvonnecopeland/ (Follow Lyvonne on social media) https://www.lyvonnecopeland.com/ (www.lyvonnecopeland.com) https://www.instagram.com/thereal_che_don/ (Follow Shannon on social media) http://www.chedonmusic.com/index.html (www.chedonmusic.com) Connect with the show: https://www.facebook.com/thedefineu (The Define U on FB) https://www.instagram.com/thedefineu/ (The Define U on IG) Subscribe: You can subscribe to Define U Radio on iTunes, Google Podcast, and anywhere you listen to podcast. If you liked the conversation, go on a listening binge here. Join the Conversation on social media using #DefineURadio and #AfterDarkConversations. Sidenote: The opinions of the host and guest are our own and are not in any way meant to offend or sway your own thoughts, research, or beliefs. Do your research and think for yourself. https://www.paypal.me/lifebydesign (Support the show) (https://www.paypal.me/lifebydesign)
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    44 mins
  • After Dark 15: Love, Relationships, and Expectations with The Queens

    After Dark 15: Love, Relationships, and Expectations with The Queens
    Feb 4 2021
    What is the difference between the people you commit to and people you don’t? As you get older, love changes because we as people change. In this episode, the queens share there thoughts on love before and during the pandemic. We discuss our love languages and how that has changed in the past year. Should a relationship be 50/50 or 100/100? What is the difference? Shannon shares what has and will make her commit to a relationship. Do you really know when you are in love and it is time to commit? Valencia discusses how she gave up talking to other people because she found her kind of crazy. Lyvonne tells the us that knowing that she felt protected is what made her commit to her husband. Yes, you can find love during the pandemic or you might even have it already. If you are ready to get some real love tips, this is your show! Join the conversation to get ready to more love in your life. Key Topics and Things Mentioned: What makes a woman commit Is keeping the “same” energy throughout a relationship important What is really important to women today Expectations of love and more! Show Links https://www.facebook.com/valencia.gwallace (Follow Valencia on social media) https://www.valenciagwallace.com/ (www.valenciagwallace.com) https://www.instagram.com/lyvonnecopeland/ (Follow Lyvonne on social media) https://www.lyvonnecopeland.com/ (www.lyvonnecopeland.com) https://www.instagram.com/thereal_che_don/ (Follow Shannon on social media) http://www.chedonmusic.com/index.html (www.chedonmusic.com) Connect with the show: Facebook-https://www.facebook.com/thedefineu (The Define U ) Instagram-https://www.instagram.com/thedefineu/ (The Define U ) Subscribe: You can subscribe to Define U Radio on iTunes, Google Podcast, and anywhere you listen to podcast. If you liked the conversation, go on a listening binge here. Join the Conversation on social media using #DefineURadio Sidenote: The opinions of the host and guest are our own and are not in any way meant to offend or sway your own thoughts, research, or beliefs. Do your research and think for yourself. https://www.paypal.me/lifebydesign (Support the show) (https://www.paypal.me/lifebydesign)
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    40 mins
  • After Dark 14: Nature vs Nurture: Breaking Generational Curses with Donna Barnes

    After Dark 14: Nature vs Nurture: Breaking Generational Curses with Donna Barnes
    Jan 28 2021
    Does negative behavior run in your family? Are you the curse breaker? How much of your behavior is nurture vs nature? Friend of the show, Donna Barnes joins the conversation about generational curses. How much does how you are raised play a part in who you become? Maybe a lot or maybe a little. We also discuss how society judges children who come from certain environments. Valencia shares how being a control freak probably saved her from a lot of harmful behavior. Being raised in the same environment doesn't make people the same. Motivation and mentality may be the change maker in the life of most people. Join the conversation to learn how you can change the direction of generational curses. Key Topics and Things Mentioned: What exactly is a generational curse Environment vs DNA: who wins How to rise when you are different Show Links https://www.facebook.com/valencia.gwallace (Follow Valencia on social media) https://www.valenciagwallace.com/ (www.valenciagwallace.com) https://www.instagram.com/gracefullypurposedcounseling/ (Follow Donna on social media) https://www.gracefullypurposedcounseling.com/contact (www.gracefullypurposedcounseling.com) Connect with the show: https://www.facebook.com/thedefineu (The Define U on FB) https://www.instagram.com/thedefineu/ (The Define U on IG) Subscribe: You can subscribe to Define U Radio on iTunes, Google Podcast, and anywhere you listen to podcast. If you liked the conversation, go on a listening binge here. Join the Conversation on social media using #DefineURadio and #AfterDarkConversations. Sidenote: The opinions of the host and guest are our own and are not in any way meant to offend or sway your own thoughts, research, or beliefs. Do your research and think for yourself. https://www.paypal.me/lifebydesign (Support the show) (https://www.paypal.me/lifebydesign)
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    35 mins