The Shift

Change Your Perspective, Not Yourself

By: Tinx

Narrated by: Tinx

Author of Hotter in the Hamptons, lifestyle creator, advice expert, and host of the It’s Me, Tinx podcast shares her hilarious and (sometimes brutally) honest wisdom on how to shift your approach to life, step into your confidence, and enjoy the journey.

It’s time to get laser-focused on what makes us feel happy and fulfilled. Tinx wants to take your hand and guide you to a new way of thinking about life, love, happiness, and friendships—where dating evolves into an era of self-discovery and not just a means to an end, sharing wisdom becomes a collective power, and chaos turns into a source of creativity. Making small but mighty shifts in thinking can be a tool for personal growth that fuels you instead of fatigues you. The point is to know yourself, discover what fulfills you, and have fun along the way.

In The Shift, Tinx collects all her revolutionary theories and hilarious personal anecdotes in one place, presenting you with a guide to simple mindset shifts that will completely change the way you approach decision-making and relationships.

Through her own stories, from the good to the bad, Tinx helps you better understand how to step into your power and own self-worth. Some say you cannot love another before you learn to love yourself: Tinx teaches you how to do both at the same time. And she does it while making you laugh out loud.

With her signature wit and candor, Tinx shows you:
-How to change your scarcity mindset
-How to understand and employ her famous Box Theory dating concept
-How to feed the things that fulfill you
-How living well is the best revenge
-How therapy can reframe struggles into strengths
-How to break up with dignity
-How knowing your worth makes you a better friend and partner

Critic reviews

“At the top of this audiobook, Tinx, an influencer previously known as Christina Najjar, says she’s going to provide some “holy fucking shit breakthroughs” you can use on a daily basis. And I have to say, her advice is pretty damn good — perhaps the most grounded and salient wisdom about trusting yourself and simply adjusting your perspective I’ve heard in a long time. It helps that Tinx is both direct and self-effacing as she’s offering it up.” (Marshall Heyman)

Witty and insightful.

Loved this. We are never too old to remember our worth and embrace the things that being us joy and make us who we are.
Perfect light summer weekend read/listen.

Honest, wish i had this in my 20’s

This is such a beautiful real book,
Gentle honest kind
Cried at the end and laughed through it
Thank you Tinx

Authentically written

This was the first audiobook I have ever listened to straight through. It was relatable, authentic, and to the point. I bookmarked so many spots that I can’t wait to play back for my friends. Thank you, Tinx for being vulnerable with us. Shifting as we speak!!

Everything I wanted and more.

Tinx is both relatable and insightful. This book has lit a fire in me to focus on myself and my friendships and to treat every experience as an opportunity for growth and learning about yourself. A must-read for women of all ages.

Required reading

I am 32 and wish I had this book in my 20s. That being said, it’s serves as a great reminder and refresher about being independent and looking forward. Tinx has a great perspective and this is all amazing advice