XOXO, Cody

An Opinionated Homosexual's Guide to Self-Love, Relationships, and Tactful Pettiness

By: Cody Rigsby

Narrated by: Cody Rigsby

Length: 6 hrs and 12 mins

Publisher's summary

NEW YORK TIMES BESTSELLER • The beloved Peloton instructor chronicles his journey from small-town North Carolina to New York City stardom in an empowering story that reveals his secret to success: not taking yourself—or life—too seriously.

“Reading XOXO, Cody is like hanging out with that friend who makes you laugh and can open up their heart to you.”—Phoebe Robinson, New York Times bestselling author of Please Don’t Sit on My Bed in Your Outside Clothes

Cody Rigsby has a lot of opinions: Kevin is the hottest Backstreet Boy; grape jelly is a crime against nature; if you wear flip-flops in New York City, you do not love yourself. But if there is one opinion—one truth—that he holds above all others, it’s that we shouldn’t let the fear of looking stupid or being judged hold us back from living our best lives.

Cody didn’t always feel this way. In XOXO, Cody, he opens up about his journey toward accepting himself, from growing up gay and poor in the South to his migration to New York City, where he went from broke-ass dancer to fitness icon. He intimately details what it was like to lose both his father and best friend to addiction and how he began to repair his relationship with his mom as an adult. He recounts his time working at a nightclub on the Lower East Side and his decision to audition for Peloton on a whim, and dishes about competing against Sporty Spice on Dancing with the Stars.

With raw and inspiring stories about learning how to handle the scary sh*t, XOXO, Cody is a bold and heartfelt reminder that sometimes laughing at yourself is the best medicine. Remember: It ain’t that deep, boo.

©2023 Cody Rigsby (P)2023 Random House Audio

Critic reviews

“To say this book is charming is an understatement. XOXO, Cody is like hanging out with that friend who makes you laugh and can open their heart up to you. In a world that’s dark, it’s necessary to read a book that will put a smile on your face and remind you that when times get tough, fix your wig and go get your life together. You got this! And so does Cody!” (Phoebe Robinson, New York Times bestselling author of Please Don’t Sit on My Bed in Your Outside Clothes)

“Cody Rigsby is a delight, and so is his book. His knowledge of pop culture is unmatched and he had me laughing out loud on every page. But his candid storytelling and vulnerability is what makes this book truly something special.” (Karamo Brown, Talk Show Host and Co-Host of Queer Eye)

“Cody writes essays about his life in the witty, inspiring, and totally unfiltered voice that’s made him a beloved Peloton instructor—and XOXO, Cody let’s readers feel like they’ve spent the afternoon chatting with their best friend.” (Tunde Oyeneyin, New York Times bestselling author of Speak)

It ain’t that serious Boo!

I just loved hearing Cody share his life story. His self reflection and energy to find the positive in anything life throws at you is inspiring. If you love Cody as a Peloton instructor then you will love this book. XOXO

Endearing and Entertaining

I love how open Cody was about his life, career, and relationships. This book has it all and makes you feel all the emotions! Well done, Cody!

Love you Cody!

Thank you for being real and sharing your thoughts and experiences. You are an inspiration. And…thank you for the laughs! XOXO to you too, Boo!

A fun ride!

XOXO, Cody: An Opinionated Homosexual's Guide to Self-Love, Relationships, and Tactful Pettiness by Cody Rigsby was such a treat for me to read because I've been using Peloton for over five years now and Cody has consistently been one of my favorite instructors. In fact, I flew cross-country to take my 1000th ride live in the NYC studio in one of his classes. He's funny, says it like he feels it, is genuine, and full of zingy thoughts. His story is plenty humorous, but he also goes deep and shares many difficult aspects of his childhood. I know I'm a fan of Cody's because of Peloton, but don't let that stop anyone without that connection from reading this book, it will appeal to all!

Amazing amazing!

Amazing book about truths we all need to hear. Wish someone had talked to me like that when I was younger. Unpopular opinion: Will definitely be the first book I give to my daughter when she starts dating.
Amazing job boo! You inspire me every day xoxo!

Hilarious but truthful

Excellent sorry and very truthful about mindfulness. Not the typical self help book and I appreciate that!

Almost entirely LOL

This is seriously one of the best autobiographies ever. So many laugh out loud moments but yet a very raw side to an amazing individual.

Fun & Honest

I love Cody’s look on life. As my favorite Peloton instructor, it was nice to learn more about his journey. He has a refreshing view on love and relationships and this book made me love him even more.

amazing!

Fun, entertaining - a great gym session audiobook or solo car trip option. Like having a conversation with a friend!

Great Story Teller ..Love this!

this has been one of the most funnest books. I have listened to in the last few years. I love Coady. I’ve done his classes for a few years now on peloton and hearing him actually speak his life, and his thoughts has been a pleasure. This is a very enjoyable book and easy read or easy listen funny, clever, entertaining, glad I did it