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No-Drama Discipline Audiobook

No-Drama Discipline: The Whole-Brain Way to Calm the Chaos and Nurture Your Child's Developing Mind

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Publisher's Summary

The pioneering experts behind the bestselling The Whole-Brain Child - Tina Payne Bryson and Daniel J. Siegel, the New York Times bestselling author of Brainstorm - now explore the ultimate child-raising challenge: discipline. Highlighting the fascinating link between a child’s neurological development and the way a parent reacts to misbehavior, No-Drama Disciplineprovides an effective, compassionate road map for dealing with tantrums, tensions, and tears - without causing a scene.

Defining the true meaning of the “d” word (to instruct, not to shout or reprimand), the authors explain how to reach your child, redirect emotions, and turn a meltdown into an opportunity for growth. By doing so, the cycle of negative behavior (and punishment) is essentially brought to a halt, as problem solving becomes a win/win situation. Inside this sanity-saving guide you’ll discover

  • strategies that help parents identify their own discipline philosophy - and master the best methods to communicate the lessons they are trying to impart
  • facts on child brain development - and what kind of discipline is most appropriate and constructive at all ages and stages
  • the way to calmly and lovingly connect with a child - no matter how extreme the behavior - while still setting clear and consistent limits
  • tips for navigating your children through a tantrum to achieve insight, empathy, and repair
  • twenty discipline mistakes even the best parents make - and how to stay focused on the principles of whole-brain parenting and discipline techniques.

Complete with candid stories and playful illustrations that bring the authors’ suggestions to life, No-Drama Disciplineshows you how to work with your child’s developing mind, peacefully resolve conflicts, and inspire happiness and strengthen resilience in everyone in the family.

©2014 Daniel J. Siegel and Tina Payne Bryson (P)2014 Random House Audio

What the Critics Say

"Wow! This book grabbed me from the very first page and did not let go. Daniel Siegel and Tina Payne Bryson explain extremely well why punishment is a dead-end strategy. Then they describe what to do instead. By making the latest breakthroughs in brain science accessible to any parent, they show why empathy and connection are the royal road to cooperation, discipline, and family harmony." (Lawrence J. Cohen, Ph.D., author of The Opposite of Worry)

"Using simple and clear explanations, practical advice, and cartoons that make the how-to guidance come alive, this book is a rich resource for families trying to navigate meltdowns and misunderstandings. It explains how neurobiology drives children’s infuriating and puzzling behavior and will help parents make their way through the trenches of a typical day with grace, mutual respect, and a good helping of delight." (Wendy Mogel, Ph.D., author of The Blessing of a Skinned Knee)

"What a relief! Siegel and Bryson take the difficulty out of discipline, for parents or anyone who has to help kids behave. No-Drama Discipline offers a research-based, commonsense approach that any grown-up will be happy to use, and any kid will benefit from." (Daniel Goleman, author of Emotional Intelligence)

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    Yui094 03-05-15
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    Thought provoking book. I have already implemented some of the techniques in the book. I'm trying not to be reactive but rather I'm trying to connect with my child.

    14 of 14 people found this review helpful
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    Daniel 01-13-15
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    "Great!"

    Recommended by a friend who is herself a child psychologist. Really enjoyed it and helped me understand the concepts she talks about.

    12 of 12 people found this review helpful
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    Jesse 08-04-15
    Jesse 08-04-15 Member Since 2015
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    "Terrific book, terrific narrators."

    I have listened to both The Whole Brain Child and No Drama Discipline and look forward to Brainstorm next. This book has helped me identify things I do correctly and not only things I can improve on but things I can repair. It has already impacted my relationship with both children (12 & 8), my wife, and business colleagues. I can't recommend these books enough. Thank you to all involved.

    19 of 21 people found this review helpful
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    G Busi Ft Worth TX 02-23-15
    G Busi Ft Worth TX 02-23-15 Member Since 2012
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    "I Can See Light At The End Of My Tunnel"

    I had reached the end of my rope with my 11 year old daughter's disrespect and defiance. After listening to No-Drama Discipline and using some of the technics taught in it I feel empowered! I actually understand my daughter's behavior much better and I now have the tools to direct and teacher her the proper way to handle herself when she doesn't want to do something. Instead of battling with her and handing out a punishment I'm able to step back and recognize which part of her brain she is using and help her move to the part of her brain that allows her to make better choices!! Thank you Drs Daniel and Tina!

    16 of 17 people found this review helpful
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    Mark Anderson 05-15-15
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    "It will change the way you parent!"
    If you could sum up No-Drama Discipline in three words, what would they be?

    This book helped me with my daughter in so many ways. I have a new understanding of why certain things I did didn't work. This book is priceless for parents in my opinion.


    5 of 5 people found this review helpful
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    parmed 04-22-15
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    "Will refer to it again and again"

    I think this will be helpful. I appreciated the science and it resonated with my anecdotal experiences. I am glad I read it and think I will refer to it often

    4 of 4 people found this review helpful
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    "Best book on parenting"

    Loved it. When i listened to an idea of discipline and the examples and my kids would do something similar, i applied some of the methods and they helped us greatly. When i mean us i mean me as the parent and my kids.

    Going to read more and more until i get the hang of these principles.

    I wished i was given this book on my way out of hospital when i had my kids .

    11 of 13 people found this review helpful
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    lorena 01-27-15
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    "awesome book"

    What a great book!! I think every caregiver should definitely have this book.........I loved it


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    "A must read for every parent or future parent!"

    Peaceful parenting put into practical and scienfic context. I can't recommend this book enough! Please read this if you have kids and read it twice if you are planing to have kids in the future!

    10 of 12 people found this review helpful
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    "parenting support at its best"
    Would you recommend this audiobook to a friend? If so, why?

    yes - it is rich in support and advice and backed by science. It is highly readable and very effective and powerful in application


    What about Daniel J. Siegel and Tina Payne Bryson ’s performance did you like?

    The work is rich, highly readable and accessible, and is truly transformative - a must read for any and every family


    Was this a book you wanted to listen to all in one sitting?

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    16 of 21 people found this review helpful
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  • Gupster
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    "Challenged the way I thought about discipline"

    I admit I was sceptical when my wife suggested I read this. However it seems to make sense and it feels like it's making a difference with my son. If I think about it, there is commonality with some concepts and things I covered when doing a coaching course in the past.

    Having now listened and seen improvements I'd recommend people try their approach.

    Fyimthere is a useful crib sheet on their website that is useful to remember some of the techniques post listen.

    3 of 3 people found this review helpful
  • M. Sheleg
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    "Dry content for an audiobook"

    I don't doubt that the authors know what they're talking about or their research, but I struggled with the format of an audiobook for this type of book. I personally found their voices quite monotonous. The book also spends a lot of time explaining the brain which is necessary yet seems to go on for a long time before you get to any tangible strategies for actually dealing with behaviour. I would have liked for it to be shorter and more concise, as I think that would have made the audio aspect more easily digestible. As a result I have bought a physical copy of the paperback which I find more useful.

    2 of 2 people found this review helpful
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    4/13/17
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    "Well worth the time & money"

    A must for all parents who struggle to connect to their children or feel they shout too much

    1 of 1 people found this review helpful
  • Christiaan W.
    7/4/17
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    "Great advice"

    This book backed up with scientific evidence what my gut feeling had been - that shouting and punishments are not the best way to discipline children. It made me feel that you can be a non-shouter and a compromiser without being a pushover and has given me the confidence to continue with what I was already doing plus provided some very helpful new strategies.

    2 of 3 people found this review helpful
  • H figg
    5/10/15
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    "brilliant"

    As someone who works with children it was a fresh reminder how to help children grow emotionally through discipline rather than falling into the trap of just telling children what to do.

    2 of 3 people found this review helpful
  • Jojo
    5/31/16
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    "The most cohesive and compassionate parenting book I've ever read"

    And I read a lot of these books both for professional and for personal means. It is beautifully organised and is affirming of all the whole drama of being a parent including the chaos and struggle that inevitable occurs along the way. This is a book that's pitched to all parents and I even played some of it to my seven year old daughter and she took great pleasure in saying "hah you do that sometimes mummy" but I know she felt affirmed hearing what she heard. As a parent I feel calmed just listening to the calm and kind voices of the authors but most importantly, as this is a whole brain approach (read whole being approach) what they say not only makes wonderful sense but it actually works. I cannot recommend this book enough.

    3 of 5 people found this review helpful
  • Anonymous
    10/3/17
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    "amazing book!"

    I have learned a lot! Most importantly, it working. This book helped me to understand my toddler and also teaches not just discipline my child but myself too! I would recommend this book to everyone!
    Thank you Dan and Tina!!!
    Olga

    0 of 0 people found this review helpful
  • Alina Ulkina
    6/24/17
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    "Excellent book"

    Excellent book about teaching your children and yourself to deal with difficult emotions, be respectful of others and avoid/reduce challenging moments. Highly recommend! Learned a lot about my own emotions and how to handle them when with children and other adults.

    0 of 0 people found this review helpful
  • Serafina
    London, UK
    3/7/17
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    "must read to understand child psychology "

    loved how they explained and gave poignant examples of how we should communicate with our children when teaching them discipline.

    0 of 0 people found this review helpful
  • Maurice
    2/17/17
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    "outstanding"

    thia is the most fascinating and realistic parenting book i have ever read or listened to.
    HIGHLY recommended

    0 of 0 people found this review helpful

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