Return to Harmony

Conflict Management for Couples

De: Les Barbanell

Narrado por: Dr. Les Barbanell

It is uncommon for lawyers, psychologists, and other mental health professionals to agree on most subjects regarding the human condition. Eureka! Recent research by the American Association of Lawyers concluded that the number one cause of divorce in America is poor communication. Psychologists concur with that conclusion, with the qualification that breakups among married and non-married partners alike are the result of ineffective emotional communication. As the divorce rate continues to hover around 40 percent and is significantly higher for second marriages, progress in this critical aspect of relating has apparently come to an abrupt halt. Moreover, advances in technology are making this state of affairs even more problematic.

Couples seek counseling because of the "usual suspects" including finances, infidelity, partner abuse, sexual inactivity, or disparate child-rearing practices. In most, if not all cases, the inability to negotiate these and other matters is attributable to clashing egos, incompatible communication styles, and resistance to change.

The return to harmony presents a new approach that entails the replacement of the ubiquitous win-lose mentality with a mutual-learning mindset, and a strategy that incorporates effective conflict-management skills, less ego involvement, and an assortment of tools to counteract the obstacles to mature love.

©2019 Les Barbanell (P)2019 Les Barbanell

So much wisdom and expertise packed into one book!

I'm a psychotherapist and find myself constantly rewinding and writing down the author's many insights. This book is jam packed with astute assessments and useful insights into common issues that arise in couples. He also has a direct, clear communication style, which I appreciate. Highly recommended!