Healing & Recovery

Perspective for Young Men with Sexualized Attachments

De: Floyd Godfrey

Narrado por: Scott Tipton

Many heterosexual young men get discouraged and confused by symptoms of sexualized attachments. Not only might they experience depression, anxiety, addiction, or other mental health challenges, but also confusion about sexuality, identity, and orientation. This workbook is designed to help young men develop clarity and self-awareness around these issues and find a pathway for healing and recovery in their lives.

©2022 Floyd Godfrey (P)2022 Floyd Godfrey

A fresh approach to dealing with SSA

The idea of sexualized attachment resonates with me. I found the descriptions and explanations parallel my own experience.

Excellent Resource

Floyd Godrey presents an excellent resource for males dealing with sexualized attachment (bonding and connection) issues. He guides the reader through the complex process of recovery and cautions against expecting a "magical cure" or accepting the labels placed on one by society. He helps the reader see unwanted same-sex attraction as a broken attempt to solve deeper, legitimate needs; and provides valuable insights for meeting those needs in healthy ways. Although the book is written for teens and young men, it summarizes many complex facets of sexualized attachment in a way that is easy to understand and helpful for males of all ages and those who want to gain a deeper understanding. Floyd writes from a compassionate Bilical worldview.

A Compassionate Guide to Unpacking Attachment Wounds

Floyd Godfrey offers a fresh, attachment-based take on SSA and porn addiction that feels both empathetic and practical. Drawing from his decades as a therapist, Godfrey posits that these struggles aren't innate identities but "sexualized attachments"—unmet emotional needs from childhood (like paternal rejection or shame) that get fused with erotic energy as a coping mechanism. It shifts the narrative from shame to healing, emphasizing that recovery is about resolving root traumas, not "fixing" who you are.

The workbook format shines here: short chapters blend explanations with reflective exercises. I appreciated the non-judgmental tone—it's geared toward young heterosexual men feeling confused by SSA, but the insights on anxiety, depression, and relational voids apply broadly.

That said, the religious undertones and niche focus might not click for everyone, Still, for those tired of surface-level advice, this is a roadmap to emotional freedom. Godfrey's compassion makes the heavy lifting feel doable. 4/5 stars—recommended for anyone exploring attachment wounds.