Don't Be Yourself

Why Authenticity Is Overrated (and What to Do Instead)

De: Tomas Chamorro-Premuzic

Narrado por: Tim Fannon

For years, we've been told that authenticity is the key to success—that we should be true to ourselves, tune out others' opinions, and lead with unwavering genuineness. This feel-good message has spawned countless self-help books, leadership seminars, and viral social media posts.

There's just one problem: science says it's wrong. Drawing on decades of research, renowned psychologist Tomas Chamorro-Premuzic reveals an uncomfortable truth: our obsession with authenticity is backfiring. From Silicon Valley's authenticity worship to failed diversity programs, he exposes how our fixation on our "true selves" undermines both individual and organizational success.

The most successful people aren't those who rigidly "stay true to themselves." They're the ones who adapt and evolve, largely by paying a great deal of attention to how others see them and adjusting their behavior to the requirements of each situation. The evidence is clear: when we focus less on expressing our authentic selves and more on understanding others, we become better humans. Blending the latest revelations in psychology with razor-sharp cultural critique, Don't Be Yourself doesn't just challenge conventional wisdom—it offers a playbook for long-lasting career success.

©2025 Tomas Chamorro-Premuzic (P)2025 Ascent Audio

I appreciate the purpose or thesis of the book.

I agree with the premise or thesis of the book, however, as I got into it, it seemed to me that the author had little regard or appreciation for context. Many of his negative example examples were taken completely out of context.