In Search of Freezer Meat

A Story of The Male Mental Health Crisis Caused by Erectile Dysfunction and The only True Cure No One Is Talking About...A Penis Implant

By: Sharay Hayes

Narrated by: Sharay Punisher Hayes

Erectile dysfunction and low sexual confidence are killing men quietly—and nobody’s really talking about it. Hayes, once a full-blown sex symbol, hit rock bottom when things stopped working. Pills didn’t help. Advice didn’t stick. So he went deeper—looking not just for how to fix it, but why it was happening in the first place.

What he discovered changed everything: the problem wasn’t just physical—it was mental. And not just about sex, either. It was tied to his confidence, his income, his sense of self, even his worth as a man. Most guys never connect the dots.

This book is raw, unfiltered, and straight-up real talk. Hayes shares his story—funny, painful, and always honest—to help other men understand what’s really going on beneath the surface. No fluff, no filters, just one guy talking to another about things most of us are too scared to say out loud.

If you’re struggling—or know a man who is—this book is for you. And yes, women should read it too. You’ll finally understand the men in your life in a way you never have before.

Sex, self-worth, and mental health—they’re all connected. Let’s talk about it. Man to man.

©2025 Sharay Hayes (P)2025 Sharay Hayes

Great information

I enjoyed the author's ease in discussing a very taboo topic. Lots of great information presented in an entertaining manner. Job well done!

Great storytelling

Sharay brought his life to life with character, animation, authenticity. I enjoyed reading this book not only because of the humor but also understood the importance of learning more about ED and how it can affect men and their confidence.

Loved it!

The animation in your voice was awesome! I enjoyed the real life heart felt stories and the light hearted way you narrated them.

Honest, funny & vulnerable

I was pleasantly surprised by how honest and unexpectedly funny this book turned out to be. I originally picked it up thinking it would dive deep into the P. Diddy trial — and while it does touch on that without naming names, it ended up being so much more.

One of the most valuable parts for me was the section on erectile dysfunction. While I don’t have a major issue with it, I’ve had some experience, and reading about it in such a candid, relatable way brought me a lot of comfort. It reminded me that what I’ve gone through is completely normal — and that’s something every man needs to hear.

Another reason I loved this book? I used to fantasize about being a male stripper (yeah, for real). I never really knew what that world was like, but the author painted a vivid, real picture that validated a lot of what I had imagined. It honestly lit a little spark in me to maybe get in shape and explore that dream again — before I get too old to pull it off!

Bottom line: This book is for every man — whether you’re dealing with issues in the bedroom, curious about wild life paths, or just looking for a raw and real read. Loved, loved, loved this book.

Also loved the author read it himself. Hate when authors get someone else to read it. Again, really funny too.