What if the reason your marriage feels “fine” is because you’ve been settling for crumbs instead of speaking your truth?

For years, I kept quiet to avoid conflict. I told myself I was keeping the peace, but really—I was disappearing. Into motherhood. Into resentment. Into “fine.”

The truth? Fine ends in dead marriages. And you deserve amazing.

In this episode, I share the seven shifts that saved my marriage and can transform yours too:

✔️ Why “keeping the peace” actually kills connection
✔️ How to stop doing it all and start sharing the load
✔️ The confidence hack that helps you start asking for support
✔️ Why saying yes when you mean no erodes intimacy
✔️ The key to setting boundaries without guilt
✔️ How to stop disappearing into motherhood and start showing up as you
✔️ Why settling for “fine” is the fastest path to resentment

If you’ve been longing for a relationship that feels alive again, this one is for you.

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Ever feel like you’re running a 98-hour work week inside your own home—managing meals, laundry, appointments, and every last detail—while your partner just “helps out” here and there?

You’re not alone. For years, I believed I had to carry it all: kids’ schedules, housework, even my husband’s appointments. I thought that was just “mom life.” But it left me resentful, exhausted, and disconnected in my own marriage.

Here’s the truth: You don’t have to do it all. And asking for support isn’t asking too much.

In this episode, I’m breaking down:

✔️ The invisible contracts couples carry into marriage (and how they set us up for imbalance)
✔️ Why resentment builds when we don’t let our partners step up
✔️ How we now divide labor in our home so everyone—kids included—shares the load
✔️ The nervous-system side of asking for help (and why it feels so hard)
✔️ Practical steps you can take to create a home where support is the standard, not the exception

If you’ve ever felt like a roommate instead of a partner, this conversation will give you both hope and real-life strategies to change it.

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Have you ever felt like your marriage looked “fine” from the outside… but deep down, you were lonely, felt like you couldn’t fully be yourself in your home, and holding it together with a smile on your face?

That was me.

In this episode, I share the story of removing intimacy from my marriage—not as punishment, but as a boundary that changed everything.

From hunting trips that left me feeling invisible, to a separation that forced us both to look inward, and the decision that I was no longer available for the way things were—this is the real, messy truth about breaking patterns and finding your voice.

Here’s what you’ll hear:

✔️ Why “keeping the peace” cost me more than conflict ever would
✔️ The moment I stopped abandoning myself—and how it shifted my marriage
✔️ What removing intimacy taught me about my own worth (and why it made us closer)
✔️ Why boundaries aren’t easy—but they create ease on the other side
✔️ How your kids feel the ripple effects of the relationship you model (even when you think it’s “fine”)

Pretending everything is fine is like icing a cake that’s still gooey in the middle.

And if you’ve been ‘icing the cake’ in your relationship instead of facing what’s real—you are not alone. This conversation is for you.

📍 Find me here:
✨ Free Empower YOU Breathwork: Snag it here
✨ Boundary Mastery Course: Join Here
✨ Follow My Journey: Instagram