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To solve a problem one must first understand the problem. Unfortunately, that's hard to do with addiction and alcoholism because it makes no sense. Why do people keep on with their substance use when it's ruining their life and making them miserable? Ironically, most people who try to help an addict become too involved in the problem, which may do more harm than good. They get drawn into the addict's circle of chaos, and end up participating in the addiction by being enablers. This creates chaos and insanity in their own life, and does nothing to stop the addiction. In this important book, ...

What happened to us? Why are we alcoholics or addicts? Most people can drink or even use a drug once in a while, and they’re fine. They’ll go months without another drink or drug and not even think about it. But some of us have no "off" switch; one drink or hit and we’re done in. There are those who find themselves drinking or using drugs – or gambling or doing some other addictive behavior – too much and can shake it off, walk away from it, and never look back. Kudos to them, but that's not us. Most of us have tried to be like them countless times, but failed every time. What’s...

Time to stop enabling! Addicts and alcoholics are master manipulators, and they constantly seek enablers to help them obtain and use their poison and to protect them from the consequences of their substance use. It may feel like we're helping the addict, but we're not; by enabling, we're participating in the addiction. Addicts who have an enabler are much less likely to "hit their bottom," where they're finally ready to accept the help they need. Enabling is bad for you as well as the addict. It draws you into the addict's circle of chaos, and costs you time, money, and your sanity. In this...