Life doesn’t just burn us out at work, it burns us out when we keep trying to “fix” ourselves too.

In this Season 1 finale of Trusting Her Journey, Christalyn and Felicia talk about a kind of exhaustion few women name out loud: self-help burnout. The pressure to keep reading, journaling, watching, and healing can feel never-ending—and leave you just as drained as overworking.

Inside this conversation:

• Why rest is more than naps, spa days, or vacations (and how to recognize when your soul is tired, not just your body).
• The hidden pressure of constant self-improvement and why “working on yourself” can become another way to prove your worth.
• The difference between consuming wisdom and actually integrating it into your life.
• Practical tools for creating boundaries with yourself and practicing real rest.
• How to see rest as obedience, worship, and a way to let God do what only He can do.

✨ Fuel for the Road Ahead:
Before you add another book, podcast, or strategy, pause and ask: Where have I been trying to prove I’m okay instead of resting in the truth that I already am?

🎧 Listen now and take the pressure off proving you’re “enough.” You already are.

Tell us what spoke to you (send us a text)

New episodes drop every Monday to help you start your week grounded in truth. Because healing isn’t a performance, it’s a practice.

🔗 Resources & Announcements

We’re building a supportive online community.
Stay tuned for ways to connect with us off the podcast and meet other listeners on the journey.

Let’s Stay Connected

Follow the show on Instagram → @trustingherjourneypodcast
Follow Felicia → @soulguidedhealing_wellness
Follow Christalyn → @christalynthecounselor

Tap Follow wherever you listen so you never miss an episode.

Got a topic you’d love us to cover, or a story to share?
Email us: hello@trustingherjourney.com

If this episode resonated with you, share it with a friend who needs it.

Looking for Therapy?

Christalyn is a Licensed Professional Counselor in South Carolina. She offers faith-integrated therapy for women navigating burnout, boundaries, and emotional exhaustion.
→ carolinacounselingsc.com

Felicia is a Licensed Professional Counselor in Virginia, Georgia, Texas, and Virginia. She provides trauma-informed, spiritually grounded therapy for women ready to heal and reconnect w...

Life gets heavy when second-guessing becomes your default. From overanalyzing every choice to replaying decisions long after you’ve made them, it’s easy to wonder: Am I really allowed to trust myself again?

In this episode of Trusting Her Journey, we talk about what it looks like to rebuild confidence and stop outsourcing your decisions to everyone else. Whether you’re replaying past mistakes, comparing your choices to others, or waiting for a cosign before moving forward, this conversation will help you practice permission—permission to trust your own wisdom again.

• You’ll hear real stories, honest struggles, and practical tools to help you
• Recognize how second-guessing shows up in your everyday life
• Name the fears that keep you stuck in doubt
• Practice small “reps” of self-trust without waiting for perfection
• Anchor your confidence in God’s wisdom, not endless approva

We’ll also name the quiet patterns many women overlook:
✨ Why waiting for five cosigns feels safer—but keeps you stuck
✨ How comparison makes you question your own wisdom
✨ Why past mistakes don’t disqualify you from future trust
✨ The difference between inspiration and comparison—and why one builds confidence while the other tears it down

💡 Fuel for the Road Ahead:
Self-trust doesn’t mean you’ll never make a mistake. It means believing God is with you, even if things don’t turn out perfectly—and trusting you’re strong enough to adjust, recover, and move forward.

💭 Reflection Question:
Where have you been abandoning your own wisdom? And what’s one way you can return to it this week?

Tell us what spoke to you (send us a text)

New episodes drop every Monday to help you start your week grounded in truth. Because healing isn’t a performance, it’s a practice.

🔗 Resources & Announcements

We’re building a supportive online community.
Stay tuned for ways to connect with us off the podcast and meet other listeners on the journey.

Let’s Stay Connected

Follow the show on Instagram → @trustingherjourneypodcast
Follow Felicia → @soulguidedhealing_wellness
Follow Christalyn → @christalynthecounselor

Tap Follow wherever you listen so you never miss an episode.

Got a topic you’d love us to cover, or a story to share?
Email us: hello@trustingherjourney.com

If this episode resonated with you, share it with a friend who needs it.

Looking for Therapy?

Christalyn is a Licensed Professional Counselor in South Carolina. She offers faith-integrated therapy for women navigating burnout, boundaries, and emotional exhaustion.
→ carolinacounselingsc.com

Felicia is a Licensed Professional Counselor in Virginia, Georgia, Texas, and Virginia. She provides trauma-informed, spiritually grounded therapy for women ready to heal and reconnect w...

Life doesn’t always look the way we expected, and when your roles shift, it can leave you asking, “Who am I now?”

In this episode of Trusting Her Journey, we talk about how to find yourself again when life changes everything. Whether you’ve entered motherhood, moved for your spouse’s career, launched a new business, or you're in a new season you don't feel prepared for, this conversation is for you.

You’ll hear real stories, honest struggles, and practical tools to help you:

• Recognize the signs you’re living from an outdated version of yourself
• Release the pressure to be who you “used to be”
• Reconnect with who you’re becoming
• Root your identity in God’s truth, not in roles or titles

We’ll also name the hard but freeing truths many women overlook:
✨ The quiet grief of letting go of roles you’ve lived in for years
✨ Why clinging to an old version of yourself won’t help you grow
✨ How to release old measures of worth and make room for new possibilities
✨ Why God’s definition of your identity has never been tied to a title

💡 Fuel for the Road Ahead:
You weren’t wasting time in past seasons, you were fulfilling your purpose for that moment. Now God is inviting you into what’s next.

💭 Reflection Question:
If you had to introduce yourself without listing your roles, what would you say?

Tell us what spoke to you (send us a text)

New episodes drop every Monday to help you start your week grounded in truth. Because healing isn’t a performance, it’s a practice.

🔗 Resources & Announcements

We’re building a supportive online community.
Stay tuned for ways to connect with us off the podcast and meet other listeners on the journey.

Let’s Stay Connected

Follow the show on Instagram → @trustingherjourneypodcast
Follow Felicia → @soulguidedhealing_wellness
Follow Christalyn → @christalynthecounselor

Tap Follow wherever you listen so you never miss an episode.

Got a topic you’d love us to cover, or a story to share?
Email us: hello@trustingherjourney.com

If this episode resonated with you, share it with a friend who needs it.

Looking for Therapy?

Christalyn is a Licensed Professional Counselor in South Carolina. She offers faith-integrated therapy for women navigating burnout, boundaries, and emotional exhaustion.
→ carolinacounselingsc.com

Felicia is a Licensed Professional Counselor in Virginia, Georgia, Texas, and Virginia. She provides trauma-informed, spiritually grounded therapy for women ready to heal and reconnect w...

We talk a lot about showing up for others. When you’re the one who always gives, shows up, and carries the weight, what happens when no one shows up for you?

In this episode of Trusting Her Journey, we get real about what over-giving is really costing you and why it feels so hard to stop. We unpack:

• Why over-giving creates one-sided relationships that leave you drained
• The hidden fears that make you keep pouring even when your cup is empty
• How disappointment, resentment, and even grief sneak in when you keep giving more than you get
• A healthier way to see love and strength, one that makes space for rest, help, and mutual care

✨ Fuel for the Road Ahead:
Just because you can carry it all doesn’t mean you should. Let go of what drains you so you can finally receive the love and support you’ve been praying for.

💭 Reflection Question:
Where are you giving out of fear of being unseen, instead of love that flows freely?

👉🏽 One Small Step:
This week, choose one way to show up for yourself the same way you show up for others, no apologizing, no guilt. But what happens when no one shows up for you?

Tell us what spoke to you (send us a text)

New episodes drop every Monday to help you start your week grounded in truth. Because healing isn’t a performance, it’s a practice.

🔗 Resources & Announcements

We’re building a supportive online community.
Stay tuned for ways to connect with us off the podcast and meet other listeners on the journey.

Let’s Stay Connected

Follow the show on Instagram → @trustingherjourneypodcast
Follow Felicia → @soulguidedhealing_wellness
Follow Christalyn → @christalynthecounselor

Tap Follow wherever you listen so you never miss an episode.

Got a topic you’d love us to cover, or a story to share?
Email us: hello@trustingherjourney.com

If this episode resonated with you, share it with a friend who needs it.

Looking for Therapy?

Christalyn is a Licensed Professional Counselor in South Carolina. She offers faith-integrated therapy for women navigating burnout, boundaries, and emotional exhaustion.
→ carolinacounselingsc.com

Felicia is a Licensed Professional Counselor in Virginia, Georgia, Texas, and Virginia. She provides trauma-informed, spiritually grounded therapy for women ready to heal and reconnect w...

We talk a lot about setting boundaries.
But not enough people talk about what happens after.

➤ What do you do when guilt shows up unexpectedly?
➤ When someone you love pushes back?
➤ When choosing peace feels heavier than people-pleasing ever did?

In this episode of Trusting Her Journey, we’re talking about the part no one prepares you for: the emotional aftermath of boundary work.

We’re naming the hard, unspoken parts:

The grief no one warned you about

The guilt that shows up even when you’re doing what’s right

The silence you feel when others don’t celebrate your growth

The truth is:
You might not be feeling guilty.
You might be grieving the version of you who was always available.
The one who got love by overgiving.
The one who never said no.

We break down what a boundary really is (spoiler: it’s not a wall), how to stay grounded when people push back, and why choosing yourself doesn’t make you selfish—it makes you whole.

What You’ll Hear in This Episode:

• What a boundary really is, beyond the buzzwords
• Why boundaries are love, not punishment
• Boundaries vs. walls: how to tell the difference
• What to do when people don’t respond well
• The faith piece, what Jesus actually modeled
• Why guilt after a boundary might actually be grief
• What to do when boundary setting feels lonely or isolating

✨️ Fuel for the Road Ahead:

Boundaries are an act of bravery.
Be brave enough to do what’s not easy but necessary.
And when, not if, the guilt shows up… remind yourself:
​I’m growing. I’m grieving old patterns. And I’m showing love to myself. I can trust this part of my journey.

💭 Reflection Question:

Where in your life are you feeling guilty for choosing peace, and what would it mean to honor that choice anyway?

👉🏾 One Small Step:

This week, notice one place where you’ve set a boundary—and instead of apologizing for it, affirm it.

Say to yourself: “This boundary honors me.” "This boundary honors my values and the healing I’m working toward."

Tell us what spoke to you (send us a text)

New episodes drop every Monday to help you start your week grounded in truth. Because healing isn’t a performance, it’s a practice.

🔗 Resources & Announcements

We’re building a supportive online community.
Stay tuned for ways to connect with us off the podcast and meet other listeners on the journey.

Let’s Stay Connected

Follow the show on Instagram → @trustingherjourneypodcast
Follow Felicia → @soulguidedhealing_wellness
Follow Christalyn → @christalynthecounselor

Tap Follow wherever you listen so you never miss an episode.

Got a topic you’d love us to cover, or a story to share?
Email us: hello@trustingherjourney.com

If this episode resonated with you, share it with a friend who needs it.

Looking for Therapy?

Christalyn is a Licensed Professional Counselor in South Carolina. She offers faith-integrated therapy for women navigating burnout, boundaries, and emotional exhaustion.
→ carolinacounselingsc.com

Felicia is a Licensed Professional Counselor in Virginia, Georgia, Texas, and Virginia. She provides trauma-informed, spiritually grounded therapy for women ready to heal and reconnect w...

Maybe you're not doing too much because you're ambitious. Maybe you're doing too much because you're afraid of what it means if you stop.

In this episode of Trusting Her Journey, we’re getting real about the pressure to prove yourself.

So many women feel pressure to prove you're strong, smart, capable, healed, mature, faithful, productive… enough. Whether it’s showing up at work when you're running on fumes, overexplaining your choices, or saying yes when you want to say no, this pressure often comes from silent scripts we picked up along the way; scripts that tell us we have to earn love, rest, and belonging.

But what if you didn’t have to prove anything to be worthy of peace?

We’re unpacking:

• The hidden roots of performance and overgiving
• How pressure shows up in rest, relationships, and responsibilities
• Why perfectionism and people-pleasing are often trauma responses
• Gentle ways to rewrite your internal script and let rest feel safe again

This conversation is your permission slip:
You don’t have to hustle your way into being enough. You already are.

✨️ Fuel for the Road Ahead:
You don’t have to prove that you’ve healed to be loved. You don’t have to overdeliver to be valuable. Lay the pressure down.

📝 Reflection Question:
Where in my life am I performing when I could be present?

💡 Take one small step:
Choose one thing to do this week without overexplaining, overprepping, or overthinking it. Let it be gentle. Let it be enough.

Tell us what spoke to you (send us a text)

New episodes drop every Monday to help you start your week grounded in truth. Because healing isn’t a performance, it’s a practice.

🔗 Resources & Announcements

We’re building a supportive online community.
Stay tuned for ways to connect with us off the podcast and meet other listeners on the journey.

Let’s Stay Connected

Follow the show on Instagram → @trustingherjourneypodcast
Follow Felicia → @soulguidedhealing_wellness
Follow Christalyn → @christalynthecounselor

Tap Follow wherever you listen so you never miss an episode.

Got a topic you’d love us to cover, or a story to share?
Email us: hello@trustingherjourney.com

If this episode resonated with you, share it with a friend who needs it.

Looking for Therapy?

Christalyn is a Licensed Professional Counselor in South Carolina. She offers faith-integrated therapy for women navigating burnout, boundaries, and emotional exhaustion.
→ carolinacounselingsc.com

Felicia is a Licensed Professional Counselor in Virginia, Georgia, Texas, and Virginia. She provides trauma-informed, spiritually grounded therapy for women ready to heal and reconnect w...

Maybe you're not indecisive. Maybe you're just afraid of getting it wrong.
Maybe you’re not lazy or distracted, you’re exhausted from trying to make the “perfect” decision.

In this episode of Trusting Her Journey, we’re talking about the real reason so many high-functioning women stay stuck in their heads: It’s not always hesitation or procrastination. Sometimes it’s protection.

We break down what overthinking is really doing in the background:

Trying to protect you from pain or regret

Trying to control outcomes so you don’t disappoint anyone

Trying to keep you safe from judgment, rejection, or failure

But the more we try to think our way into peace… the further away it feels.

This conversation is your reminder:
You don’t have to think harder. You have to trust yourself more.

What You’ll Hear in This Episode:

• Why overthinking feels safer than moving forward
• How fear, past hurt, and pressure to “get it right” keep us stuck
• The real-life impact of mental overpacking
• Practical ways to quiet the loop and move forward with clarity

✨️ Fuel for the Road Ahead:

Overthinking is just your brain trying to protect you. But peace doesn’t come from playing out every possible outcome. It comes from trusting that you're safe enough to take one step at a time, even if the outcome isn’t perfect.

🖊 Journal Prompt:

Where in your life have you been waiting for the perfect moment to make a move… even though you already know what you want to do?

💡 Small Step:

Pause the spiral. Instead of replaying the options again, ask yourself:
What do I already know to be true?
Then take one small step. Let that be enough for today.

Tell us what spoke to you (send us a text)

New episodes drop every Monday to help you start your week grounded in truth. Because healing isn’t a performance, it’s a practice.

🔗 Resources & Announcements

We’re building a supportive online community.
Stay tuned for ways to connect with us off the podcast and meet other listeners on the journey.

Let’s Stay Connected

Follow the show on Instagram → @trustingherjourneypodcast
Follow Felicia → @soulguidedhealing_wellness
Follow Christalyn → @christalynthecounselor

Tap Follow wherever you listen so you never miss an episode.

Got a topic you’d love us to cover, or a story to share?
Email us: hello@trustingherjourney.com

If this episode resonated with you, share it with a friend who needs it.

Looking for Therapy?

Christalyn is a Licensed Professional Counselor in South Carolina. She offers faith-integrated therapy for women navigating burnout, boundaries, and emotional exhaustion.
→ carolinacounselingsc.com

Felicia is a Licensed Professional Counselor in Virginia, Georgia, Texas, and Virginia. She provides trauma-informed, spiritually grounded therapy for women ready to heal and reconnect w...

Maybe you’ve started pulling back. Maybe you’re doing less than before. But there’s still a part of you that feels responsible for holding it all together.

In this episode of Trusting Her Journey, we’re talking about the silent ways strong women keep proving they’re okay, even when they’re not.
We unpack what real support looks like, why asking for help feels harder than it should, and how fear of being a burden keeps so many women locked in self-reliance.

Strength isn’t silence. And support doesn’t make you weak.
Sometimes the most courageous thing you can do is let someone help.

What We Talk About:
•The real reason “I’m good” is your default (even when you’re not)
•How strength becomes a mask instead of a support system
•The deeper fears underneath asking for help: rejection, disappointment, being “too much”
•What to do when you've been let down before
•How to practice receiving without guilt, shame, or overexplaining
•Why support starts with you
•A new way to think about strength in this season

✨ Fuel for the Road Ahead:
You weren’t meant to carry it all by yourself. Strength isn’t just pushing through, it’s learning when to receive. Let people love you. Let God hold on to what’s been weighing on you.

Journal prompt: Where in your life have you been disappointed or felt rejected, even when you really needed support?

That question might be uncomfortable. But you deserve to tell the truth about the hurt you’ve experienced, and still decide to keep your heart open to help.

💡 One Small Step:
This week, say yes to one small offer of help.
Let someone check in on you. Drop something off. Speak life over you.
Whatever it is, receive it without apologizing, downplaying it, or trying to repay it. Just receive it. You deserve that kind of support too.

Tell us what spoke to you (send us a text)

New episodes drop every Monday to help you start your week grounded in truth. Because healing isn’t a performance, it’s a practice.

🔗 Resources & Announcements

We’re building a supportive online community.
Stay tuned for ways to connect with us off the podcast and meet other listeners on the journey.

Let’s Stay Connected

Follow the show on Instagram → @trustingherjourneypodcast
Follow Felicia → @soulguidedhealing_wellness
Follow Christalyn → @christalynthecounselor

Tap Follow wherever you listen so you never miss an episode.

Got a topic you’d love us to cover, or a story to share?
Email us: hello@trustingherjourney.com

If this episode resonated with you, share it with a friend who needs it.

Looking for Therapy?

Christalyn is a Licensed Professional Counselor in South Carolina. She offers faith-integrated therapy for women navigating burnout, boundaries, and emotional exhaustion.
→ carolinacounselingsc.com

Felicia is a Licensed Professional Counselor in Virginia, Georgia, Texas, and Virginia. She provides trauma-informed, spiritually grounded therapy for women ready to heal and reconnect w...