Welcome to the conversation. In this solo episode of The Men’s Mental Health Series, I challenge the phrase nobody cares, work harder. Because the truth is, somebody does care. It might only be one person, but that person matters. And if someone is going to have real access to your life, they need to care about how you are actually doing, not just what you produce or provide.
I talk about why opening up as a man often comes out messy, incomplete, or wrapped in anger. For many guys, anger is the emotion that shows up first, even when there is hurt, sadness, grief, or loneliness underneath it. Anger is something you may feel, but it is not something that gets a free pass. Left unchecked, it can damage relationships, opportunities, and your own well being.
This episode focuses on responsibility in a different way. Not just working harder, but doing the work of connecting with yourself, sorting through what you feel, and learning how to express it honestly. I talk about levels of access in relationships, why some people may not deserve full emotional access, and why feeling lonely around the people closest to you is one of the hardest experiences men face.
We also get into the importance of therapy as a foundational tool. Therapy can be exhausting, emotionally and physically, but it helps you get to the root of what you have been carrying for years. You owe this work to the people in your life, and you owe it to yourself. Avoiding your own needs while taking care of everyone else is not sustainable.
This episode is about advocating for yourself, expressing one hundred percent of what you feel, and continuing the conversations that help you feel less isolated in your own life.
Disclaimer
This podcast is designed to get conversations started around your mental and emotional health and is not intended to be medical advice. Please contact your medical and or mental health professional before starting any program. No one on this podcast is a mental health professional.
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