Episodios

  • When Depression Sneaks Back In (Even After Therapy & Growth)
    Aug 5 2025

    Send us a text

    Episode Description:

    What happens when depression creeps in after the comeback?
    After the growth?
    After therapy?

    In this soul-baring diary-style episode, Jasmine opens up about what it looked like to crash emotionally after doing “all the right things.” From grief and job loss to illness, injustice, and intimate heartbreak, Jasmine shares how everything finally caught up with her—and how she chose to show up anyway.

    This episode is a sacred space for anyone who’s ever felt ashamed for needing rest after rising.

    🧘🏽‍♀️ Guided Meditation

    “Return to Your Enoughness”
    This 4-minute guided meditation is a soft reset for the soul. Jasmine gently leads you through grounding breathwork and intuitive affirmation, helping you reconnect with your body, your breath, and your worth — especially when you don’t feel like “enough.”

    Whether you’ve hit a wall, relapsed into old patterns, or just need a quiet moment to remember who you are… this meditation was made for you.

    No fluff. No fixing. Just presence. Just love.

    📜 Lessons Learned

    After crashing post-comeback — despite therapy, growth, and all the “right steps” — Jasmine shares what healing actually looks like behind the scenes:

    Your body knows when it’s time to pause.
    Your breakdown doesn’t cancel your breakthrough.
    Your softness is still sacred.
    And joy can be as small as a sticker… and still holy.

    This isn’t about bouncing back.
    It’s about being honest about the fall—
    and choosing yourself in the dark anyway.

    These aren’t just lessons.
    They’re reminders for anyone navigating the shadows while still holding a vision for their light.

    💌 Call to Action

    If this episode spoke to your spirit, don’t keep it to yourself.
    🎧 Share it with a friend who’s in a crash season.
    💬 Tag @guidedbyjasmine and tell me what part landed in your heart.
    ⭐ And if you feel called, leave a review — your words help this healing reach more ears and more hearts.

    🎧 Subscribe & Stay Connected

    Subscribe to The Chronicles of a Black Lesbian Mom: Healing Like a Motha for more raw reflections, sacred storytelling, and diary-style healing from Jasmine’s personal journey.

    New episodes drop weekly — every Tuesday @ 10am MST.

    You can also find me on Instagram at @guidedbyjasmine future offerings, journals, and upcoming events.


    Más Menos
    13 m
  • Healing Got Ghetto Real Quick (Birthday Edition)
    Jul 22 2025

    Send us a text

    Episode Description:

    What happens when healing doesn’t come wrapped in candles, crystals, and calm? When it looks more like job loss, hospital visits, emotional chaos, and pulling yourself off the bathroom floor?

    In this raw and sovereign birthday reflection, Jasmine shares how her healing journey this past year got ghetto real quick — and how it also delivered her back to her divine assignment. From a misdiagnosed cancer scare to a toxic relationship, the death of her father, and the birth of this very podcast, Jasmine reveals how grief, grief, and sacred reclamation led her back to herself.

    🧘🏽‍♀️ Guided Meditation

    “I Am Ready for My Next Level”
    This 3–4 minute guided meditation is a soul-centered reset — short enough to meet you in the chaos, powerful enough to shift your energy. Jasmine guides you through grounding breathwork, self-affirmation, and intuitive alignment to help you release what no longer fits and walk boldly into your next level.
    Perfect for birthdays, new chapters, or any moment you need to come home to yourself.

    📜 Lessons Learned

    After a year of sacred disruption — marked by grief, toxic love, job loss, and spiritual awakening — Jasmine reflects on what she now knows for sure:

    Your intuition is holy.
    Your peace is sacred.
    Your healing doesn’t have to look good to be real.
    And you’re not here to be palatable — you’re here to be powerful.

    These aren’t just affirmations — they’re soul codes for anyone reclaiming their voice, their body, and their birthright to become.

    💌 Call to Action:

    If this episode spoke to your spirit, share it with a friend who needs to hear it.
    Tag @guidedbyjasmine and let her know what part landed in your heart.
    And don’t forget to leave a review — your words help this healing reach more ears and hearts.

    🎧 Subscribe & Stay Connected:

    Subscribe to The Chronicles of a Black Lesbian Mom: Healing Like a Motha for more real-talk reflections, diary-style healing, and sacred storytelling from Jasmine’s personal journey. New episodes drop weekly (every Tuesday @ 10am MST)


    Más Menos
    14 m
  • Noone Is Coming To Save Me
    Jul 15 2025

    Send us a text

    📝 Episode Description:

    In this deeply personal episode, Jasmine shares the moment that shattered her illusions — and sparked her awakening. After a terrifying encounter with police involving her son in the midst of a mental health crisis, Jasmine found herself face-to-face with a truth many Black mothers know all too well:

    No one is coming to save us.

    What followed was not just a breakdown, but a spiritual breakthrough — one that forced her to stop waiting for a rescue and start choosing herself. With raw honesty and unfiltered emotion, Jasmine unpacks what it means to shift from martyrdom to sovereignty, from surviving for everyone else to living for herself.

    This episode is for the mothers, the caretakers, the healers, and the strong ones who’ve ever felt like they were drowning in silence. It’s a love letter to those doing the most with the least — and learning to become their own safe place.

    💬 Guided Meditation:

    A short, grounding meditation titled “Coming Home to Myself” follows this episode, helping you reconnect to your own power, peace, and self-trust.

    💭 Lessons Learned:

    • No one is coming to save you — but you don’t need saving. You need you.
    • Children can be a part of your purpose, but not your entire reason for existing
    • Setting boundaries doesn’t mean you don’t love people — it means you’re finally loving yourself
    • Even in the wreckage, you can still rebuild something sacred

    💌 Call to Action:

    If this episode spoke to your spirit, share it with a friend who needs to hear it.
    Tag @guidedbyjasmine and let her know what part landed in your heart.
    And don’t forget to leave a review — your words help this healing reach more ears and hearts.

    🎧 Subscribe & Stay Connected:

    Subscribe to The Chronicles of a Black Lesbian Mom: Healing Like a Motha for more real-talk reflections, diary-style healing, and sacred storytelling from Jasmine’s personal journey. New episodes drop weekly.

    Más Menos
    15 m
  • They Said I Couldn't Be Both - A Lesbian & A Mom
    Jul 10 2025

    Send us a text

    📘 Episode Description:
    In this powerful episode of The Chronicles of a Black Lesbian Mom: Healing Like a Motha, host Guided by Jasmine tackles a question she's been asked time and time again:
    “How can you be a lesbian and a mother at the same time?”

    With honesty, humor, and spiritual depth, Jasmine opens up about the judgment she’s faced from both inside and outside the LGBTQ+ community, the rejection she experienced within the church, and the complexity of raising children in a world that often refuses to make space for the fullness of her identity.

    She shares how her queerness shaped her motherhood, how religion tried to silence her calling, and how she fought — and continues to fight — to reclaim every part of herself.

    This episode is a love letter to anyone who's ever been told they couldn’t be both. Jasmine is here to say: you already are.

    ✨ Guided Meditation (Starts around [insert timestamp]):
    A 4-minute practice to help listeners release shame, reclaim their wholeness, and affirm the sacredness of being “both.”
    “I am enough. I am whole. I am both.”

    📚 Lessons Learned:

    • Being queer and being a mother are not in conflict — they are in communion.
    • Rejection doesn’t define you; it redirects you back to your truth.
    • You don’t have to choose between the parts of you.
    • A calling doesn’t need church walls to be holy.
    • Acceptance starts from within — and radiates outward.

    🎧 Listen if you’re ready to:

    • Challenge the stereotypes around queer parenting
    • Reclaim your truth outside the walls of religion
    • Break generational cycles with love and honesty
    • Be reminded that you are already enough

    💌 Call to Action:
    If this episode blessed you, please:
    ✔️ Share it with someone navigating identity, motherhood, or spiritual healing
    ✔️ Leave a review to help this podcast reach more hearts
    ✔️ Tag @healinglikeamotha on IG or Threads and share your favorite takeaway

    🎙 Subscribe for more Dear Diary episodes every week — where truth, tenderness, and transformation live side by side.

    Más Menos
    14 m
  • Where Am I Now? - FINAL MiniSeries Part6
    Jul 5 2025

    Send us a text

    📌 Episode Summary:
    In the final installment of Buried Truths: My Father, His Death, and My Healing, I sit with the raw aftermath of my father’s funeral—and the waves of pain that kept crashing long after the casket closed. From facing one of my childhood perpetrators again… to being hit with a possible cancer diagnosis… to watching the dysfunction in my family reemerge right after laying my father to rest—this wasn’t closure. It was confrontation.

    This diary entry is messy. Vulnerable. Raging. And sacred.
    It’s a mirror for anyone who’s ever tried to grieve while surviving.

    ✨ Guided Meditation: “I Am the Medicine”
    I also include a gentle, 3-minute meditation to ground yourself after listening. It’s a reminder that you’re not broken—you’re becoming.

    Access is inside the episode.

    💎 Lessons Learned:

    • Perpetrators thrive in silence—I won't be silent anymore.
    • Apologies aren’t the same as accountability.
    • Boundaries are sacred, especially in grief.
    • Sometimes healing means walking away—even from family.
    • Protect your peace like your life depends on it. Because sometimes, it does.

    🖤 If this episode moved you:
    Please share it with someone who’s healing from layered grief, betrayal, or family trauma. You never know whose healing you might spark.

    📝 Join My Newsletter:
    Get updates, healing prompts, and future offerings:

    🎧 New Episodes Drop Every Tuesday
    And don’t forget—you are the medicine. Thank you for holding space for this series.

    Más Menos
    12 m
  • Laid to Rest, but I'm Still Restless - MiniSeries Part5
    Jul 5 2025

    Send us a text

    📌 Episode Summary:
    I thought I was ready. I thought I had it together. But when the casket closed, so did the lid on a lifetime of suppressed emotions.

    In this raw, final walk-through of my father’s funeral, burial, and repass, I open up about grieving in the presence of fake smiles, old predators, and a family name wrapped in complicated love.

    From social anxiety to sacred boundaries, this episode is about more than death—it’s about telling the truth, even when no one wants to hear it. And it’s about learning how to release pain without needing permission.

    If you've ever buried someone physically while still holding emotional weight, this one’s for you.

    Guided Meditation (3–4 min):
    ✨ “I’m Still Here” – A short grounding practice for those who’ve carried grief and rage in the same breath. Find your center and reclaim your peace.

    Access is inside the episode.

    Lessons Learned:
    🖤 Closure doesn’t always come clean—it’s messy and rarely linear.
    🖤 You are not obligated to grieve politely.
    🖤 You can feel proud and pissed at the same time.
    🖤 Protect your peace—especially in sacred moments.
    🖤 Say what needs to be said, even if it’s not received.
    🖤 Release the fantasy. Accept what was. Choose what’s next.

    ✨ If this episode speaks to your soul, share it. Text it to someone navigating their own messy grief.

    Don't Miss Next Week's Episode: It is the FINAL episode to this mini-series where Jasmine pulls back the curtain on what healing looks like after the funeral, after the court dates, and after the calls stop coming in. In this raw and reflective episode, she shares how she’s learning to hold both grief and growth—at the same time.

    From EMDR sessions and doctor visits to spiritual coaching, journaling, and reclaiming her voice, Jasmine invites listeners into her real-time journey of rebuilding.

    This isn’t about closure—it’s about continuation.

    If you’ve ever asked yourself, “How do I keep going when everything around me says stop?”—this is the episode to hear.

    Más Menos
    14 m
  • Reopened Wounds at Dad's Viewing - MiniSeries Part4
    Jun 24 2025

    Send us a text

    🧠 Episode Summary:

    What happens when grief and rage arrive together—uninvited and unapologetic?

    In this raw and unflinching episode, Jasmine walks us through the spiritual and emotional chaos that unfolded during her father’s funeral and viewing. From church betrayals and unspoken family wounds to facing childhood predators in the pews, this episode is a sacred release.

    She reflects on choosing her father’s final outfit, re-entering a church that once hurt her, and confronting the disrespectful eulogy “memory” that revealed an affair her father had during his marriage. As if that wasn’t enough, Jasmine is approached by three different men from her past—men who once preyed on her—and she makes a powerful decision to protect her inner child in real time.

    This episode is more than storytelling—it’s a reclamation of power.

    🧘🏽‍♀️ Guided Meditation: “I Am Safe to Speak My Truth”

    At the close of the episode, Jasmine leads a healing 3-minute meditation for daughters, survivors, and preacher’s kids who were once silenced by shame or manipulation.

    This meditation gently helps listeners release shame, reclaim their voice, and create safety inside their own body.

    💎 Lessons Learned:

    • Inappropriate behavior deserves accountability—even decades later
    • You are not “too much” for telling the truth
    • Righteous rage can be a sacred invitation into healing
    • Childhood violations are never your fault—no matter what you were wearing
    • When the church fails to protect, protect yourself anyway
    • You get to stand up for your inner child, even if no one else ever did

    If this episode spoke to your heart, please leave a review or share it with someone navigating caregiving or grief.

    Tag Jasmine @guidedbyjasmine and use hashtag #HealingLikeAMotha to join the conversation.

    🔁 Next Week's Episode Teaser:

    Jasmine takes us through the burial and repass—a bittersweet moment of finality, unexpected grace, and what it means to show up for both your healing and your legacy.


    It’s a story about sacred closure, loving release, and finding peace in the aftermath.

    Más Menos
    14 m
  • Dad's Final Breath - MiniSeries Part3
    Jun 22 2025

    Send us a text

    🧠 Episode Summary:

    In this deeply personal episode, Jasmine takes us into the sacred space of her father’s final moments. From intuitive nudges to heartbreaking bedside conversations, this story explores the complex beauty of spiritual transition, sibling connection, and the miracle of divine timing.

    We journey with her as she receives a spiritual message from her father urging her to come now… and she listens. What unfolds is a powerful testament to honoring your instincts, saying what needs to be said, and standing present—no matter how hard it is.

    Through raw honesty and grounded reflection, Jasmine brings us inside the room, sharing what it feels like to witness someone you love take their final breath… and the clarity, peace, and grief that follow.

    ---

    🧘🏽‍♀️ Guided Meditation: “I Stayed With Him”

    At the end of the episode, Jasmine offers a short 3-minute guided meditation for anyone who has walked a loved one home. It’s a gentle space to breathe and reflect.

    This meditation honors those navigating end-of-life caregiving, grief, and the emotional weight of presence.

    Access is inside the episode.

    ---

    ✨ Lessons Shared in This Episode:

    • An intuitive message from Jasmine’s father and how it guided her timing
    • The emotional moment she and her brother witnessed his final breath
    • What hospice taught her about the “death rattle” and active dying
    • A final conversation between father and daughter—heartfelt, sacred, and honest
    • The surprising peace that came when her deepest prayer—that he not die alone—was answered
    • A spiritual moment of foot washing, closure, and soul release

    ---

    If this episode spoke to your heart, please leave a review or share it with someone navigating caregiving or grief.

    Tag Jasmine @guidedbyjasmine and use hashtag #HealingLikeAMotha to join the conversation.

    🔁 Next Week's Episode:

    The Viewing. The church. The secrets that surfaced.

    Jasmine reflects on her father’s burial, her return to the church that once silenced her, and confronting men from her past who violated her trust—even on the day she buried her father.

    This next chapter is about reclaiming power, protecting her inner child, and choosing healing—again and again.


    Más Menos
    13 m