What Every Therapist Ought to Know

Attachment, Arousal Regulation, and Clinical Techniques in Couple Therapy

De: Stan Tatkin PsyD MFT

Narrado por: Stan Tatkin PsyD MFT

Expand and enhance your skills as a therapist with the guidance of an internationally respected clinician

Couple therapy combines the intense work of one-on-one sessions with the need for close mediation skills - which is why the practice can be twice as difficult and emotionally draining. This is why Stan Tatkin put together What Every Therapist Ought to Know - a comprehensive guide to the psychobiological approach to couple therapy.

Over the course of eight in-depth sessions, Tatkin will lead you in an exploration of the theory and clinical tools you need to work effectively with couples who are seeking more intimate, connected, and fulfilling relationships. Through both theoretical and experiential-based learning approaches, Stan will provide a foundational training in each of the primary attachment styles, as well as how knowledge of our own and our partners' attachment histories is essential for a healthy communication.

What Every Therapist Ought to Know will teach you:

• Anchors, Islands, and Waves: different attachment styles and how they affect relational thinking
• Specific interview techniques to soothe clients’ activation, encourage closer engagement, and elicit deeper insights
• How to guide couples out of disordered communication and into secure functioning
• Why monitoring and teaching arousal regulation during sessions yields future benefits
• How to refocus clients after disruptions in the process
• Why the psychobiological approach to therapy requires you to acknowledge when you’re wrong and investigate deeply how to change course
• How to self-inquire as a therapist and avoid jumping to premature conclusions
• The most common pitfalls in the couple therapy process and how to sidestep them

“Obviously, this is a career that is very different than most,” says Tatkin. “This process can be painful at times, but the struggle is an integral part of this very complex set of theories. It takes time and patience. If you do it a lot, you will eventually feel very comfortable in your practice."

Download the accompanying reference guide.©2021 Stan Tatkin, PsyD, MFT (P)2021 Sounds True

Essential Information for Couples Therapists

I have been a psychotherapist seeing individuals and couples for over forty years. I wish I had had a Stan Tatkin in my early training, Even after decades of clinical experience, I still learned an enormous amount from Stan by listening to this program in which he gives couples therapists essential information about intention, therapeutic stance, and details, like why you as a therapist need clear and definite boundaries, for example, regarding canceled and missed appointments, and why not to see one member of a couple individually, and many other issues that are extremely helpful to a beginning, or seasoned couples therapist. I highly recommend this title to all therapists, and to anyone who plans on having couples therapy to give them an inside view of how it works.
George Lough, PhD, SEP

excellent material

The title should say Couples Therapist to be accurately in tune with the content

New therapist- listening

I like the volume of inside information about how the things a therapist deals with looks and feels in the room… with an actual patient. This type of thing is invaluable for me.