The Unfakeable Code(R)

Take Back Control, Lead Authentically and Live Freely on Your Terms

De: Tony Jeton Selimi

Narrado por: John Sackville

One of the most significant problems that every human being has to face is knowing how to handle judgments, negative-self talk, emotional outrage, anger outburst, self-deception, conflicts at home, work and socially, and feeling powerless. Meticulously researched and written by Tony Jeton Selimi, The Unfakeable Code® helps you explore the fierce scientific, psychological, and spiritual impact of wearing "masks", feeling stuck, powerless, out of control, and being a people pleaser, disengaged and unproductive at home and work - a growing problem in an uncertain world affected by the Corona Virus Pandemic that is leaving behind a cosmic trail of mental health issues and a significant rise in unemployment.

Selimi truly breaks new ground in a volume that gives you the clarity, the hope, and the code to continue to evolve into the authentic, unfakeable leader you were born to be. Instead of continuing to live inauthentically, each of the five principles of The Unfakeable Code®, when used daily, can empower you to redefine yourself and overcome the adversity, anxiety and stagnancy likely blighting your life. The Unfakeable Code® offers a fresh and robust five-step methodology for business, personal or professional transformation. It assists in upgrading your psychology and harmonising body-mind-heart intelligence so it can deal with any form of anxiety, conflict, and stress. Throughout the book, Tony J. Selimi shares inspiring actual client stories who have used the five-principles to own their power, take back control, lead authentically and successfully liberate themselves from the emotional baggage and distress by fully completing the five-step method.

Marie Diamond, Global Transformational Teacher, a star from The Secret, describes it as, "A life manual that assists you in understanding how the Law of Attraction works, and it gives you valuable insights into the science of healing and changing your mindset that will transform your existence."

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Decent

This book does have some helpful insight into having a better perspective on how you should approach life changes. Getting what you want out of life requires self reflection and discipline.

Troubleshooting Yourself

I really enjoyed the way Tony talked about the different "masks" people wear as defense mechanisms in their daily lives, and how those masks influence the way we interact and connect with the world and other humans. He says these masks are basically covering up who we really are.

This was really eye-opening for me, as I believe that I have accidentally been wearing multiple masks throughout my life, some of which have really and truly prevented me from understanding who I am as a person deep down.

Tony asks a lot of helpful questions at the end of each chapter, and I encourage anyone who picks this book up to take those questions seriously and really allow themselves to reflect on the masks they might have worn, or might still be wearing, in a world where everyone is pretending, in some capacity or another, to be something or someone they aren't, just to survive.

Our self destructive fecade

Your true essence is hidden behind 'masks' created by transient personas that have hijacked your authentic, genuine, and unfakeable being. You are encouraged and taught to see reality as you are, but the problem with this is that you create a distorted view of actuality. Unmasking yourself is a vital task in the unfakeable code development process since disassociation and one-sidedness in your mind’s program can have significant consequences for you.If you want to dig out the original ‘you’… stripping the mask out of you, if you wish to add love and kindness in your daily cup of coffee, if you hope to sharpen your survival strategy by programming your brain for a more comprehensive version of yourself, if you desire to steer your emotions for a stronger version of yourself, this book is for you. If you deserve to integrate introspective behavioural patterns without looking for outside stimuli, if you are trapped with multiple fake identities and desperate to swim back to shore to your own home, then certainly Tony Jeton Selimi’s The Unfakeabke Code is for you.

A new way of thinking

This book is a very good introduction to self-improvement books. It has good basics and good advice, but it might feel a bit repetitive, and some words are overused. What I mainly like about this book is that it discusses personality, which, in my opinion, is the backbone of self-improvement. It doesn't tell you what to do or not to do; instead, it suggests a better way of thinking and a different perspective that can actually help you. The book is interactive through the questions the author asks you along the way and actually requires you to answer them for a better understanding of yourself and to yield maximum benefit from the book. However, I gave the book a (4 out of 5) due to its repetitiveness. When the author gives an example, the idea will come through after the second example; there is no need to list 7-9 examples. The second thing is the overuse of some words. Using the same word over and over again implies that the author has nothing else to say, so he simply fills in the gaps. I understand that he is trying to convey a certain idea by using this word, but he can simply use it normally. There is no need to use it every time he is about to mention one's self.
In general, the book is decent, and to get the most out of it, I advise writing a summary of the key points the author mentioned, writing the points that you feel can help you the most, and reading these points once a week or every two weeks so you don't lose track of yourself and the values you're trying to embody.
The author advises to read the book a couple of times so that you yield the best results out of the book, which I understand to some degree why he is saying that, but in my opinion it's better to write a summary that suits you, and if you feel like it's not helping you out as it should, in this case you can try to read the book again.

The authentic me

I like the examples and scenarios the author made. The author is knowledge and experienced in life coaching, phycological councilling which is a plus and the book is for everyone regardless of who you are rich or poor and/or personal or professional. Psychology and mental issue are an everyday life and everyone needs to invest in a psychiatrist or his/her mental health.

A Practical, Transformative Path to Authenticity

The Unfakeable Code by Tony Jeton Selimi is a refreshing blend of science, spirituality, and personal development, offering readers practical tools to shed societal masks and embrace their authentic selves. The audiobook's structured approach, featuring reflective exercises and real-world examples, sets it apart from typical self-help works. Selimi’s five core principles guide listeners through a deep, transformative journey, balancing emotional growth with professional success. His clear, well-edited content makes this an inspiring and actionable guide for anyone seeking lasting personal and leadership growth.

This is the best audio book I have read

**Audible Review for “The Unfakeable Code®” by Tony Jeton Selimi**

“The Unfakeable Code®" is an exceptional listen, offering profound insights into authenticity, self-awareness, and personal transformation. The audiobook brings Tony Jeton Selimi’s powerful message to life with a clear and engaging narration that complements the book’s conversational and relatable tone. The narrator’s pacing is well-balanced, ensuring that listeners can absorb the complex concepts of neuroscience, emotional intelligence, and spiritual wisdom without feeling overwhelmed. This allows the listener to reflect on the thought-provoking content and apply it in real-time, much like the book’s practical exercises invite readers to do.

The narration also does a fantastic job of capturing the emotional depth of Tony's personal stories, from his struggles to his triumphs. This adds a layer of connection to the author, making the audiobook feel intimate and inspiring. Whether it's the scientific explanations or spiritual insights, the narrator conveys the information with a sense of sincerity and purpose, making the audiobook not only informative but also a truly motivating experience. For those ready to embark on a journey of self-discovery and personal growth, this audiobook is an excellent companion, delivering both inspiration and actionable steps toward living authentically.

Amazing and Practical book for self transformation

As someone who has read countless self-help books, I can confidently say “The Unfakeable Code®" by Tony J. Selimi stands out as a refreshing and practical guide to authenticity. The book is well-written, professionally edited, and deeply insightful, blending neuroscience, philosophy, and personal anecdotes in a way that feels both relatable and transformative. Selimi's concept of “upgrading your mind’s code" is a unique and modern approach to personal growth, offering actionable steps to dismantle limiting beliefs and live authentically. The five principles outlined in the book, spanning self-awareness, emotional intelligence, and the power of love, are not just theoretical; they’re grounded in practical exercises that make real change possible.

What I appreciated most is Selimi’s ability to connect with readers on a deeply human level. His personal stories and the real-life examples from his coaching practice make the lessons tangible and inspiring. Whether you're a leader, a parent, or someone navigating personal challenges, this book provides tools to take control of your life and thrive authentically. It’s a must-read for anyone serious about self-discovery and personal transformation. Highly recommended!

Unfakeable code

The Unfakeable Code® by Tony J. Selimi is a compelling guide to living authentically and mastering emotional intelligence, brought to life with a narration that perfectly complements the book's message. The narrator’s voice is clear, engaging, and rich with warmth, making it feel like a personal conversation with a wise mentor. This approach enhances the book's accessibility, especially when tackling its profound concepts of self-awareness, emotional mastery, and breaking free from societal façades. The pacing is well-balanced, allowing listeners to absorb and reflect on the principles and exercises Tony outlines.

What sets the audiobook apart is the narrator’s ability to convey the book’s blend of psychological depth and practical advice with both authority and relatability. The tone adapts seamlessly to the shifts between insightful anecdotes, actionable exercises, and motivational passages, creating an immersive listening experience. Whether you’re a leader striving for authenticity or someone seeking personal growth, the narration ensures the transformative power of the book is fully realized.

This audiobook is more than just a guide—it’s an experience. The combination of Tony’s profound insights and the narrator’s skillful delivery makes The Unfakeable Code® a must-listen for anyone ready to step into their most empowered, genuine self. If you're looking for a self-help audiobook that is as inspiring as it is practical, this is an excellent choice.

A Nice, Educational Listen

The book's profound insights into authenticity and personal growth resonate even more through the dynamic narration. The narrator masterfully conveys Selimi’s balance of personal experiences, scientific research, and actionable exercises, making complex ideas feel accessible and engaging for listeners. The narration enhances key themes, like the power of inner dialogue and emotional intelligence, ensuring the lessons on living authentically are both impactful and memorable. While some repetition occurs, it ultimately reinforces the transformative concepts, making the audiobook a practical and inspiring guide for personal development.