The Opposite of Settling

How to Get Everything You Want Out of Love and Life Without Losing Your Spark

De: Case Kenny

Narrado por: Case Kenny

Forget settling or “settling down”—you deserve a love that upgrades every aspect of your life. A love that empowers you to get hotter, happier, and more fulfilled… together.

The host of the podcast New Mindset, Who Dis? helps you find a partnership that fills your life with “can you believe we did that?” moments, where “let’s book a flight and go” is as common as “I love you."

Are you looking for a love that offers you clarity, not confusion? Does it feel like love has gotten too complicated? Does the sea of dating rules and expectations make you feel overwhelmed?

Case Kenny, host of the New Mindset, Who Dis? podcast and author of That’s Bold of You, brings you The Opposite of Settling—a blend of practical mindfulness, evidence-based research, and undiluted optimism—to help you find a love that expands your world. Case guides you toward finding and building a relationship that empowers you to be independent, vibrant, and in love. The book offers you the tools to:

• Navigate the complexities of modern dating with confidence and an unbothered mindset
• Find a connection that feels like home yet pushes you toward a fuller and more vibrant life
• Recognize and attract relationships that elevate your life instead of weighing or “settling” you down
• Let go of fear-based dating habits and find a love that enhances your sense of independence

Plus, enjoy bonus exclusive journal prompts at the end of each chapter—only available in the audiobook edition.

The Opposite of Settling isn’t just about finding someone; it's about finding more of yourself in the process. Case’s concept of “settling up” (the opposite of “settling down”) offers an energizing affirmation of love, leaving you feeling lighter, unburdened of rules and expectations, and on the path to finding a relationship where you both look at each other and think, "Yup, that's my kind of weird.”

©2025 Case Kenny (P)2025 Hay House LLC

Reseñas de la Crítica

“Case Kenny is one of my favorite writers. This book is a breath of fresh air and a source of inspiration for anyone who is navigating love. The Opposite of Settling will not only help you connect better, but it will leave you feeling empowered. This is a must-read.”—Yung Pueblo, #1 New York Times best-selling author of Lighter

“Case Kenny’s wisdom will inspire you to embrace love that makes life extraordinary. The Opposite of Settling provides the tools to create a deep, meaningful connection that fuels your ambitions and enhances your sense of self. Kenny shows how to cultivate love that feels like both stability and endless possibility. His message is clear: Build a life that thrills you, and love will find its way to you.”—Dr. Sue Varma, psychiatrist and author of Practical Optimism

“In a world where love often feels complicated and heavy, Case Kenny provides a refreshing, unapologetic approach to dating. The Opposite of Settling teaches you to stop searching for what doesn’t serve you and start building a relationship that elevates you. This book is a blueprint for finding love that doesn’t hold you back but lifts you up.”—Trent Shelton, author of Protect Your Peace and founder of RehabTime

Soothing & Easy Flow

Honestly, listening to this audiobook is like having a soothing guide for ensuring that you’re engaging in positive self-talk. I’ve been listening to this book on my commutes to work and on my runs. Would definitely recommend !!

Great for someone in transition for love or career

A book that will encourage you to look at your choices in live, career, and everything through a new lens.

A remedy for "modern love" !

"The Opposite of Settling" is both an antibiotic and an antidote for the world sick with transactional/narcissistic pseudo-love epidemic. Doesn't matter where you find yourself in the spectrum of BS, if you're dissatisfied with the outcomes of your relationships and sick of that yucky aftertaste again and again - I strongly recommend you to buy this book, because it's superb and fully lives up to it's premise.

Each chapter first provides in detail description of what causes us to experience anything less than 10/10 satisfaction with ourselves/relationships/life in general, then it helps you to see how truly joyful it could be instead and provides a comprehensive framework by implementing which you'll start grooving into your happiest most radiant unique self and to attract the kind of love that would make you glow(not radioactive, but still very potent)!
+ the vocal performance is amazing and sounds a bit like it's Keanu Reeves on the mic, really enjoyed listening from start to finish!)

Case is an intellectual revolutionary, a master jedi and the most impactful motivational-self help writer/speaker I was blessed to encounter on the internet - max respect and much appreciated.
Thank you for inspiring me and for helping me to remember a model of reality that I forgot even existed..
May your light shine bright without burning out!

P.S. someone donate this guy $1 mil+, because he deserves it.

The entire book was fantastic. This will be my guide for redirecting.

Dislike is was I wished the write had more books out on other areas of life struggles to help us.