The Dance of Intimacy
A Woman's Guide to Courageous Acts of Change in Key Relationships
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Narrado por:
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Heni Zoutomou
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Harriet Lerner
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In The Dance of Intimacy, the bestselling author of The Dance of Anger outlines the steps to take so that good relationships can be strengthened and difficult ones can be healed. Taking a careful look at those relationships where intimacy is most challenged—by distance, intensity, or pain—she teaches us about the specific changes we can make to achieve a more solid sense of self and a more intimate connectedness with others. Combining clear advice with vivid case examples, Dr. Lerner offers us the most solid, helpful book on intimate relationships that both women and men may ever encounter.
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- Narrado por: Heni Zoutomou
- Duración: 7 h y 4 m
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General5 out of 5 stars 2
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Narración:5 out of 5 stars 2
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Historia5 out of 5 stars 2
The key problem in relationships, particularly over time, is that people begin to lose their voice. Despite decades of assertiveness training and lots of good advice about communicating with clarity, timing, and tact, women and men find that their greatest complaints in marriage and other intimate relationships are that they are not being heard. Much as she did in THE MOTHER DANCE, Lerner will approach this rich subject with tales from her personal life and clinical work, inspiring and teaching listeners to speak their own truths to the most important people in their lives.
De: Harriet Lerner
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The Dance of Intimacy
- A Woman's Guide to Courageous Acts of Change in Key Relationships
- De: Harriet Lerner Ph.D.
- Narrado por: Harriet Lerner
- Duración: 2 h y 52 m
- Versión resumida
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General4.5 out of 5 stars 399
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Narración:4 out of 5 stars 303
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Historia4.5 out of 5 stars 301
The Dance of Intimacy takes a careful look at relationships where intimacy is most challenged by too much emotional distance, too much intensity, or simply too much pain. In clear, direct, and dramatic terms, Dr. Lerner illustrates how we can move differently in these relationships, be they with a distant or unfaithful spouse, a depressed sister, a difficult mother, an alcoholic father, an uncommitted lover, a dying parent, or an estranged family member.
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3 out of 5 stars
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- Narrado por: Barbara Caruso
- Duración: 6 h y 50 m
- Versión completa
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General4.5 out of 5 stars 1,514
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Narración:4.5 out of 5 stars 1,237
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5 out of 5 stars
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- Narrado por: Harriet Lerner
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- Versión resumida
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- How to Talk to Someone When You're Mad, Hurt, Scared, Frustrated, Insulted, Betrayed, or Desperate
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- Narrado por: Heni Zoutomou
- Duración: 7 h y 4 m
- Versión completa
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General5 out of 5 stars 2
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Narración:5 out of 5 stars 2
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Historia5 out of 5 stars 2
The key problem in relationships, particularly over time, is that people begin to lose their voice. Despite decades of assertiveness training and lots of good advice about communicating with clarity, timing, and tact, women and men find that their greatest complaints in marriage and other intimate relationships are that they are not being heard. Much as she did in THE MOTHER DANCE, Lerner will approach this rich subject with tales from her personal life and clinical work, inspiring and teaching listeners to speak their own truths to the most important people in their lives.
De: Harriet Lerner
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The Dance of Intimacy
- A Woman's Guide to Courageous Acts of Change in Key Relationships
- De: Harriet Lerner Ph.D.
- Narrado por: Harriet Lerner
- Duración: 2 h y 52 m
- Versión resumida
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General4.5 out of 5 stars 399
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Narración:4 out of 5 stars 303
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Historia4.5 out of 5 stars 301
The Dance of Intimacy takes a careful look at relationships where intimacy is most challenged by too much emotional distance, too much intensity, or simply too much pain. In clear, direct, and dramatic terms, Dr. Lerner illustrates how we can move differently in these relationships, be they with a distant or unfaithful spouse, a depressed sister, a difficult mother, an alcoholic father, an uncommitted lover, a dying parent, or an estranged family member.
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3 out of 5 stars
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Dissapointing
- De Ingrid en 05-26-12
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The Dance of Anger
- A Woman's Guide to Changing the Patterns of Intimate Relationships
- De: Harriet Lerner
- Narrado por: Barbara Caruso
- Duración: 6 h y 50 m
- Versión completa
-
General4.5 out of 5 stars 1,514
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Narración:4.5 out of 5 stars 1,237
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Historia4.5 out of 5 stars 1,223
"Anger is a signal and one worth listening to," writes Dr. Harriet Lerner in her renowned classic that has transformed the lives of millions. While anger deserves our attention and respect, women still learn to silence our anger, to deny it entirely, or to vent it in a way that leaves us feeling helpless and powerless. In this engaging and eminently wise book, Dr. Lerner teaches both women and men to identify the true sources of anger and to use it as a powerful vehicle for creating lasting change.
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5 out of 5 stars
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Quick, concise, tactics and a good narrator
- De Mallin en 05-18-18
De: Harriet Lerner
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The Dance of Connection
- De: Harriet Lerner
- Narrado por: Harriet Lerner
- Duración: 4 h y 38 m
- Versión resumida
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General4.5 out of 5 stars 577
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Narración:4 out of 5 stars 474
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Historia4.5 out of 5 stars 467
In her most affirming and life-changing book yet, Dr. Harriet Lerner teaches us how to restore love and connection with the people who matter the most. In The Dance of Connection we learn what to say (and not say).
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3 out of 5 stars
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Listen at 1.5x speed
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- A Guide to Authenticity and Truth Telling in Women's Relationships
- De: Harriet Lerner PhD
- Narrado por: Harriet Lerner
- Duración: 2 h y 59 m
- Versión resumida
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General4 out of 5 stars 93
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Narración:4.5 out of 5 stars 69
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Historia4.5 out of 5 stars 68
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5 out of 5 stars
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Worth a listen
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- Versión resumida
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Historia4.5 out of 5 stars 18
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