Mattering

The Secret to a Life of Deep Connection and Purpose

De: Jennifer Breheny Wallace

Narrado por: Jennifer Breheny Wallace

AN INSTANT NEW YORK TIMES BESTSELLER

“A timely, vitally important read.” — Adam Grant, #1 New York Times bestselling author of Think Again and host of the podcast Re:thinking

“Beautifully written and deeply felt. Wallace gives readers the insights we need to understand each other, and the actions we can take to enhance each other’s lives.”— Susan Cain, #1 New York Times bestselling author of Bittersweet and Quiet

“Mattering is an essential guide for how to restore meaning, comfort, and joy to our lives.” — Vivek Murthy, MD, MBA, 19th and 21st Surgeon General of the United States

From award-winning journalist and bestselling author Jennifer Wallace comes Mattering—a landmark book that introduces a transformative new framework to confront the loneliness, burnout, and lack of purpose so many of us face today.

In this groundbreaking work, Wallace makes an urgent case: mattering—the feeling that we are valued and have an opportunity to add value—is a core human need, as essential to our well-being as food and water. And yet, in today’s world, that fundamental need is going unmet, with perilous consequences. As mental and social health crises surge, we often blame social media, the pace of modern life, and polarizing politics. But beneath these issues lies a deeper crisis, what Wallace calls “an erosion of mattering.”

With her signature warmth and insight, Wallace weaves together research and deeply moving stories of mattering lost and regained. From burned-out employees to overwhelmed caregivers to people grappling with grief or struggling through a destabilizing transition, Mattering explores how our lives are transformed when we are reminded, in small and intentional ways, that we are valued and that we have value to offer. Wallace provides the essential elements to building what she calls our “mattering core”: recognizing your impact, being relied on (but not too much), feeling prioritized, and being truly known and invested in. Strengthening this core helps us reconnect to our sense of purpose, deepen our relationships, and navigate life’s uncertainties and challenges with greater resilience.

For readers of Brené Brown, David Brooks, and Adam Grant, Mattering is a rare, culture-shifting book that offers both a diagnosis and a remedy. With a clear road map and actionable takeaways, Wallace reveals how to unlock this powerful force within ourselves and how to build cultures of mattering in our homes, workplaces, and communities. 

Mattering is both a call to action and a blueprint for living a meaningful life and creating a world we so urgently need.

Reseñas de la Crítica

"Mattering is one of those rare books that hits both the head and the heart. Jennifer Wallace weaves beautiful storytelling with rigorous science into a compelling call-to-action on how to build a meaningful life. This is an urgent, culture-shifting book that will fundamentally impact the way you live, lead, and love."
— Sahil Bloom, New York Times bestselling author of The 5 Types of Wealth

“Too many of us feel disconnected, even from the people we love. Mattering is a powerful guide to restoring closeness in our relationships, cultivating compassion for ourselves, and creating the deep connections we all crave."
— Lori Gottlieb, New York Times bestselling author of Maybe You Should Talk to Someone and New York Times "Ask The Therapist" columnist

"With thoughtful analysis and heartfelt stories, Jennifer Wallace helps us understand what is at the root of so many of our modern day struggles. At a time when so many people are feeling invisible, Mattering is an essential guide for how to restore meaning, comfort, and joy to our lives.”
— Vivek Murthy, MD, MBA. 19th and 21st Surgeon General of the United States

“This book is a road map for living a happy and fulfilled life. It will not only deepen your relationships, it will also change how you see yourself. Mattering should be required reading for everyone!”
— Ina Garten, New York Times bestselling author of The Barefoot Contessa Cookbooks and Be Ready When the Luck Happens: A Memoir

“Why do so many people feel adrift and purposeless these days—and what can be done to address this problem? In this powerful and persuasive book, Jennifer Wallace explains why mattering plays such an essential role in a happy life. With cutting-edge research, deep insight, and real-life stories, Wallace explores how we can bring more mattering into our own lives.”
— Gretchen Rubin, New York Times bestselling author of The Four Tendencies and Better Than Before

“The most consequential book I have encountered in years, Mattering is a big idea laid out in fine, persuasive detail where something as simple as a clementine will tell you everything you need to know about flourishing.”
— ‎Kelly Corrigan, New York Times bestselling author of The Middle Place and Tell Me More

What matters.

Like. Such a good listen… helps with direct life experience support and communication. Delivery went well.

Meaningful change

The coherence and humanity in this writing is deeply moving. It’s possibly the most powerful book I’ve encountered on this topic. I am eager to share it with others and adopt the practical ideas in daily choices and habits. The dignity and compassion of the author has made a positive difference to me, and hopefully to each reader. This book feels like a light that has given clarity to an otherwise vague yet genuine social puzzle at different transitions in life. It has renewed my motivation and sense of purpose in relationships, with the gravitas of scientific research and the warmth of relatable stories. Thank you so very much for this gift.

Simple principles with great power

Well organized in recipe for living a life of mattering. Many good examples to help understand how it works.

really hits the nail on my head

this booked is beautifully written and spoken. I finally realized now that this is why I feel so empty the past 6 years. Ive lost the feeling of matter and now im determined to find it again. Must Read ♡

The title was screaming at me.

How many times I have heard " I matter also ". My girlfriend , family and friends. I now have a new perspective on mattering. I'm going to teach these words to others, Everyone matters including our pets and wildlife.