Divorcing Your Narcissist

You Can't Make This Shit Up!

De: Tracy A. Malone

Narrado por: Kate Parry

You fell in love. Your partner was charismatic, caring, and attentive. On your wedding day, you never dreamed life could be any better. It certainly never occurred to you that it could end in divorce.

Now you’re in the midst of a heated battle, your head spinning and your heart broken, wondering where that person went. You’re discovering that you may have married someone with narcissistic personality disorder.

All is not lost.

You can - and will - get through this. Tracy A. Malone, an internationally recognized expert on emotional abuse and narcissistic personality disorder, survival coach and founder of a narcissistic abuse support website, has been there, along with countless others whose successes offer quick, enlightening glimpses into methods used to outlast the attempts at destruction, and flourish after the dust has settled.

Delve inside and uncover:

• What to expect when divorcing a narcissist
• Terminology like gaslighting, flying monkeys, narcissistic rage, and more
• Insightful checklists that will help keep you on top of your game
• An understanding of the unlimited masks that narcissists wear interchangeably
• Words of wisdom to handle the crippling fear of how to tell your children, family, and friends about the divorce without sounding crazy
• How to hire the right lawyer so you don’t drain your bank account

Highly praised by experts in the field, this life-changing book is the ultimate guide for maneuvering through the minefield of a high-conflict divorce. Buckle up and hold on tight as Tracy guides you down the road to successfully divorcing a narcissist.

PLEASE NOTE: When you purchase this title, the accompanying PDF will be available in your Audible Library along with the audio.

©2021 Tracy A. Malone (P)2022 Tracy A. Malone

specific strategies to use and what to watch for from the naughty spouse

This is invaluable information for those in in need of it.
Regarding the editing, it is confusing to have one person referred to as 'they'. In English, when the sex of the person being discussed is unknown or could apply to a male or female, the pronoun 'he' is used for male and female. It's like the term 'mankind'; it includes all humans. hu/man.
No one is slighted.
'They' is plural and includes two or more people. Constantly having to figure out who the 'they' is makes the story clunky and harder to follow.

Must Read if divorcing a narcissist

This book has helped me so much to prepare for my divorce. If I hadn't listened to this book, I would have missed critical strategic moves. I'm still early in the process of divorce, but already I have found this book helpful. It also gives you information about what the narcissist will do that I would never have imagined. Now that I know, I can use it to my advantage. Tracy also provides much needed emotional support and advice within the brutally honest information. She truly understands the reality of this type of abuse and it's affect on the victims and how that translates to legal abuse in the court system. Definitely worth the time!

a divorce must read

this has been super helpful going through the divorce process. tons of useful information. I wish I had gotten it before I had filed. it would have saved me a few missteps in the beginning.

SOOO detailed!!

Tracy Malone is an amazing coach who has taught through book impeccably how to deal with narcissistic abuse and the court process and how to deal with the narcissist. I only wish I had read it before I got the divorce so many gems in here for so many people and experiences, she covers it all! I love you Tracy! Thank you so much for your help!!!

Start with Chapter 11

The book has a great advice depending on where you are in the divorce process. I wish I had this book before I got married and certainly before I signed my final decree. Everything negative in chapter 11 has come true for me and now I’m paying dearly. I found it difficult to listen to the narrator especially since my ex husband has a similar accent but the narrator’s voice became more palatable to my ears when I changed the speed

True title!!

You can’t make this shit up!! And this is being written as I’ve learned about ASPD. If I had known what that meant. If you could have just googled it 20 years ago I would have never been here.

A Lifesaver!!!

This book saved my sanity. It prepared me for what could happen and kept me steps ahead of what could have been life-crippling madness. Tracy A Malone is a phenomenal coach who has provided (and continues to provide on her website, webinars, groups, and coaching) amazing tips, resources, and expectations. My child's mental health is stable because I immediately took her parenting advice and got him into therapy breaking family patterns and giving him his own voice. I am forever grateful!!!

Lots of helpful and validating information

There’s a lot of wisdom in this book and strategies that would have been useful during “reconciliation” in prep of the possibility of divorce. Even after filing, this information is great to have. There is also lots of healing advice which is another benefit.

Couldn’t get through chapter one

The narration of this audiobook is painful. The reader sounds like a robot and the accent is distracting

Biased toward men

Bias toward men; every example is geared toward women being abused by men, when that is not at all true. Weak book.