• Sis, Don't Settle

  • How to Stay Smart in Matters of the Heart
  • By: Faith Jenkins
  • Narrated by: Faith Jenkins
  • Length: 8 hrs and 20 mins
  • 4.9 out of 5 stars (1,100 ratings)

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By: Faith Jenkins
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Publisher's summary

Date smarter, make better decisions in love, and achieve the relationship you deserve.... It all starts with not settling!

By day, Faith Jenkins is the host of the nationally syndicated TV show Divorce Court; by night, she’s a happily married newlywed who navigated these dating streets for years before learning how to attract the love of her dreams.

When she turned 35 without a wedding ring in sight, like most women, she started getting tons of questions about not being married. But she made a decision: I. Will. Not. Settle.

As an attorney and arbitrator, Faith has presided over hundreds of cases, and has helped couples avoid and resolve a wealth of drama. And she’s seen it all! In Sis, Don’t Settle, she’s gathered an arsenal of love, wisdom, and advice for women on how to play it smart.

Modern culture would have women believe they can’t have it all — and be smart, successful, strong women with authentic love to boot. Wrong. Told in her signature style — sometimes salty and sometimes sweet — Faith provides real solutions that will teach you how to thrive in relationships while avoiding common missteps and pitfalls. She delivers it straight, with no chaser, to show us how to level up, and reminds you that how you live single will set the tone for your success in relationships.

Smart, illuminating, and, often laugh-out-loud funny, Sis, Don’t Settle is the essential playbook that will help you build your confidence, generate better results in love, and land a high-value relationship once and for all. You’ll find tips on topics like:

  • Strong independent women…and the men who love them
  • What’s worse than a bad relationship? Overextending your stay in one
  • Becoming the right person to attract the right person
  • How to release trash subconscious beliefs that keep you settling
  • And much more!

Whether you’re single, divorced, or in a situationship, Sis, Don’t Settle reveals the direction and guidance you need to navigate love and take back your power.

©2021 Faith Jenkins (P)2021 Legacy Lit

Critic reviews

“Listen to Faith. This book is great!” (Steve Harvey, New York Times best-selling author of Act Like a Lady, Think Like a Man)

"Judge Faith Jenkins is the personification of what it means to live by faith! I was honored to marry her and her husband, the legendary Kenny Lattimore, and I know first-hand that she is a testament to never settling for less especially when it comes to love. I have no doubt her story, her wisdom, and her insights will motivate every reader to never settle for less than their worth!" (DeVon Franklin, New York Times best-selling author of The Wait)

"I was relieved that Sis Don't Settle is not about "catching" a man. This easy, wise, and often funny read is about recognizing your innate worth. Read this book. Love yourself. Then, expect more love to enter your life." (Tina Lifford, author of The Little Book of Big Lies)

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AWESOME AWESOME AWESOME!!

I Love ❤️ this book, it helped me and opened my eyes. I can not Thank you enough for writing this book.

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Love this and her!

This was one of the best and most genuine books I’ve read in a long long time. Judge Jenkins is sooo dope - I definitely look up to her she is my mentor in my head lol🙌🏿💪🏿

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Sooooo Good.

I’m 29 years old and single, so I am definitely getting a taste of the pressure to get married or “get a man.” I don’t want to settle, though. I have never felt more understood and validated and affirmed than I did reading this book. I highly recommend this book. Thank you so much, Judge Jenkins.

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Every lady should have this book in their library!

This book helped me get through a difficult time and gave me the courage to leave a relationship that wasn't serving me! I highly recommend it!

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THE BEST BOOK FOR NAVIGATING DATING!!

This book came into my life right on time! In the midst of re-entering dating after a 30-year marriage, this book guides me through dating, ghosting, retaining standards, and maintaining a healthy perspective throughout. Truly a Godsend worth listening to, and taking notes from, repeatedly. A non-stop listen, you'll be encouraged throughout! Inter-generationally relevant, I highly recommend this title to all single women regardless of age or stage.

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Good read, highly recommend

While going through a separation and breakup this book came at a perfect time for my emotional healing. Author, Faith puts relationships and self worth into perspective. I felt every word she “preached”.

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Phenomenal read and a must for everyone looking to attract their significant partner

I enjoyed listening to Sis, don’t settle… after I saw Faith’s interview on YouTube… she made compelling arguments about why dating is important plus other elements such as knowing who are you and what you like before dating.
I bought the book to further equipo myself with the proper tools and the proper mindset to focus on attractive my equal. The chapters are easily to and practical and full of witty stories that makes this book super memorable!
I have nothing bad to say about it! It’s a great tool!

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Loved it

The book was authentic, encouraging and relatable. I will definitely be reading/listening to it again.

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Take the advice!!! Whew!!

I absolutely loved every min of this book. I will admit some parts were SUPER hard to hear it's like Faith has known me my whole life and was like girl snap out of it!!! I've made so many of these dating mistakes 😩. But feel like I'm better equipped to be more intentional and not settle for less than I deserve. As she said if it's no longer serving me I have the power to change it. it's growth to be able to look at your life and see areas where your poor choices led to less than desirable outcomes. it's not anyone's fault but me for allowing mediocre treatment. Anyway, I have gleaned so many nuggets and will be writing out my new list of qualities I want in a husband and making sure I match and like up with what I'm seeking. ❤️

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Everything!

This book is everything I needed. I was skeptical at first but so glad I read through it. I have more bookmarks in this book than I have ever done! So excited to go through it again! This time next year I will be engaged to ____________🥰

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