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Why Marriages Succeed or Fail: And How You Can Make Yours Last | [John M. Gottman]

Why Marriages Succeed or Fail: And How You Can Make Yours Last

Psychologist John Gottman has spent twenty years studying what makes a marriage last. Now you can use his tested methods to evaluate, strengthen, and maintain your own long-term relationship. This breakthrough book guides you through a series of self-tests designed to help you determine what kind of marriage you have, where your strengths and weaknesses are, and what specific actions you can take to help your marriage.
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Publisher's Summary

Psychologist John Gottman has spent twenty years studying what makes a marriage last. Now you can use his tested methods to evaluate, strengthen, and maintain your own long-term relationship. This breakthrough book guides you through a series of self-tests designed to help you determine what kind of marriage you have, where your strengths and weaknesses are, and what specific actions you can take to help your marriage. You'll also learn:

  • More sex doesn't necessarily improve a marriage
  • Frequent arguing will not lead to divorce
  • Financial problems do not always spell trouble in a relationship
  • Wives who make sour facial expressions when their husbands talk are likely to be separated within four years
  • There is a reason husbands withdraw from arguments- and there's a way around it

Dr. Gottman tells you how to recognize attitudes that doom a marriage - contempt, criticism, defensiveness, and stonewalling - and provides practical exercises, quizzes, tips, and techniques that will help you understand and make the most of your relationship. You can avoid patterns that lead to divorce, and Why Marriages Succeed or Fail will show you how.

Download the accompanying reference guide.

©1994 John Gottman (P)2012 Tantor

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"There's plenty of old-fashioned, helpful, and worthwhile advice here about gender differences, realistic expectations, love, and respect." (Kirkus)

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    Diane ANN ARBOR, MI, United States 06-19-12
    Diane ANN ARBOR, MI, United States 06-19-12

    I am an engineer!

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    If you could sum up Why Marriages Succeed or Fail in three words, what would they be?

    Cheap relationship therapy.


    Who was your favorite character and why?

    There were no characters.


    What about Paul Costanzo’s performance did you like?

    His voice is very relatable.


    What did you learn from Why Marriages Succeed or Fail that you would use in your daily life?

    Pretty much everything. The book highlights very common logic errors and character flaws that can wreak havoc on personal relationships. It also assured me that having the specific personality that I do isn't indicative that my personal relationships are doomed forever. Learning to let go of things that don't matter much and how to communicate which things are not negotiable... how mature of me!


    Any additional comments?

    This book requires a healthy degree of objectivity and self-reflection. Like all self-help type books, it won't change your life. But you will if you decide to internalize any of the sage advice it gives.

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    TeriW United States 10-22-12
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    What disappointed you about Why Marriages Succeed or Fail?

    narrator sounds robotic, could not focus on the contentalso, the back and forth dialogue between the couples was tedious


    What didn’t you like about Paul Costanzo’s performance?

    so monotone and a slight pause after every word


    What reaction did this book spark in you? Anger, sadness, disappointment?

    disappointment


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