• I Love You, but I'm Not in Love with You

  • Seven Steps to Saving Your Relationship
  • By: Andrew G. Marshall
  • Narrated by: Andrew G. Marshall
  • Length: 8 hrs and 18 mins
  • 4.4 out of 5 stars (29 ratings)

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I Love You, but I'm Not in Love with You

By: Andrew G. Marshall
Narrated by: Andrew G. Marshall
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If the relationship you have with your significant other is defined more by companionship than passion...if you love each other deeply but are not deeply in love...if you feel that something's missing or is no longer there...then you could be experiencing ILYB (I Love You, But...).

In I Love You, but I'm Not in Love with You - a real-life relationship guide from couples' counselor Andrew G. Marshall - partners and individuals who have "fallen out of love" or want to rekindle the love that once was will learn how to use Marshall 's program with impressive results.

This is a much-needed book to help men and women of all ages in any type of committed romantic relationship to truly understand love and to point out the everyday habits that undermine growing together. Marshall's research is one of the few that delves into what causes relationships to "cool" or for emotions to be "dulled". 

So much more than a quick-fix guide, I Love You, but I'm Not in Love with You empowers couples to emerge with a better understanding of themselves and each other, and ultimately build a stronger, more passionate bond.

©2007 Andrew G. Marshall (P)2018 Tantor

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Solid advice

He has a thoughtful and knowledgeable approach to the subject.

The case studies are very relatable. I highly recommend.

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If you feel stuck in a relationship, this book is a MUST!

I have been in a or hour, long distance relationship for nearly 3 years now. I love my girlfriend, and at some points I wonder if I am really “in love”. Andrew does a good job of breaking down love, steps on falling in love, and real examples where you can put yourself in other peoples shoes.

This book is a great listen, check it out!

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Helpful and practical

Genuinely helpful and practical. Narrator's voice will not be everyone's cup of tea, but I found it sincere, kind and reassuring. Very much like the entirety of this hopeful book.

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Wish I had found this sooner

Very helpful if you find yourself in this situation. wish I had found it sooner because I think it could be most impactful when your partner first makes the announcement.

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not what i expected

not what i was expecting... was not happy with this book and did not finish it!

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