Too Good to Leave, Too Bad to Stay

A Step-by-Step Guide to Help You Decide Whether to Stay In or Get Out of Your Relationship

By: Mira Kirshenbaum

Narrated by: Adriane McNeely

Length: 8 hrs and 33 mins

Publisher's summary

To make up or break up? Whether you’re just getting serious or have a long-term commitment, no other question causes so much heartache and self-doubt. Many other books tell you how to fix your relationship. This groundbreaking best seller is the first one to help you choose whether you should try—or you need to go.

Psychotherapist Mira Kirshenbaum draws on years of research and her work with real-life couples to help you make the right decision. She shows you how to diagnose your unique situation with self-analysis and questions like these, which get to the very heart of your problems:

What sins are forgivable and which ones unpardonable?

Is your partner questioning your opinions to the point where you doubt yourself?

What is your sex life really like, and how important is it?

Is there real love left between you, and how does it stack up against all that you find unlovable?

Mira Kirshenbaum provides expert guidelines that are the key to making all your choices, concrete steps that you can implement right now, and the ultimate way to determine your personal bottom line—what you need to be happy. This remarkably insightful and probing guide offers advice that lets you see the truth about your relationship—and with wisdom and compassion, it helps you act with the confidence of knowing that, whether you decide to go or stay, you are doing the very best thing.

©1997 Mira Kirshenbaum (P)2010 Brilliance Audio, Inc.

Critic reviews

"[T]hreaded through the book, which is written in a sympathetic, chatty, accessible style, are validating anecdotes that dramatize how other people have experienced and responded to the same problems the reader is going through." ( Publishers Weekly)

helpful for bringing peace

Any additional comments?

This book is based on research with other couples and what types of issues in their relationships made them happy they separated or happy they stayed and worked on issues. I had just separated from my husband when I listened to this, so I had already made my decision, but this book made me feel more confident in myself and that decision. I really enjoyed the narrator's voice as well.

perfect 👍👌

loved this book... I definitely will be listening to it again and taking notes. I love the fact that she gave recommendations for other books to help in particular situations at the end of the book. all in all I think this book is very helpful and I highly recommend it to anyone else struggling with whether to stay or leave their relationship.

Brilliant

Phenomenal practical break down on how to make the decision. Doesn’t mince words. Super helpful.

Best Book Ever

Follow the steps and you will get to where you should be. A must read if you have any doubts. Excellent Awesome and Essential

Highly Recommend!

Great book- very well written and applicable to many situations! Straight forward and useful! Highly recommend!

Must read if you are indecisive

For anyone who is indecisive about such a major life decision this book is very clear and helpful -Loved it.

Well planned and written

Easy to follow, takes the guesswork out of things. Easy and enjoyable to read. All of the authors books are so.

If You Want to Reach a Decision....

Where does Too Good to Leave, Too Bad to Stay rank among all the audiobooks you???ve listened to so far?

An avid Audible listener, Too Good is among the five best listens so far. Clear and step by step, good structure but not too much, the book is a great relationship guide about what is and isn't important for each relationship and how to determine one's own position..

What other book might you compare Too Good to Leave, Too Bad to Stay to and why?

A reasonable comparison might be Outliers, not because they have similar content, but more because they both present what might be controversial information in a most useful and helpful way. I was left pondering both for weeks afterward.

What insight do you think you???ll apply from Too Good to Leave, Too Bad to Stay?

For any relationship, the book gives practical steps to follow for determination about whether or not to stay in a relationship.

Any additional comments?

I'd recommend this as a great guide for anyone wondering if they should stay or go .

10/10

Amazing insight in to relationships. I related to 90% of things talked about. Make sure you have a pen and paper ready as I am now going to by the hard copy and highlight sections. Enjoy your new future with or without your current partner.

I can see clearly now...the fog is gone!!!

This 36 Questions in this book have brought me great clarity to a whirlwind of indecisiveness. I am more clear about next steps and even on setting clear boundaries in any relationship. In the midst of relationship ambivalence, I now have a set of guidelines to rely on to prevent this from happening again.