• Communicate Your Feelings (Without Starting a Fight)

  • What to Say and What Not to Say to Your Partner
  • By: Nic Saluppo
  • Narrated by: Colin Kibler
  • Length: 2 hrs and 20 mins
  • 4.8 out of 5 stars (475 ratings)

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Communicate Your Feelings (Without Starting a Fight)

By: Nic Saluppo
Narrated by: Colin Kibler
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When trying to share your feelings, does it end up in a fight more times than not? Do you want constructive discussions with your partner that lead to deeper connection and a healthier relationship?

Most of us never learned how to effectively share our feelings or receive the feelings of our partner. The good news is that it’s a skill you can learn.

Being in a relationship without knowing how to share your feelings and receive your partner’s feelings in useful ways is like jumping into a pool without knowing how to swim. You can flail around all you want, but it’s not going to keep you afloat for very long—you need to be able to move in any direction at will.

Like swimming, knowing how to share your feelings and respond to your partner's feelings will move your relationship in the direction you want: toward more intimacy, closeness, connection, and trust.

In Communicate Your Feelings (Without Starting a Fight), you’ll get:

  • Ways to avoid escalation so you can be unafraid of a discussion spinning out of control
  • The happiness and assurance that comes with knowing your relationship is heading in the right direction
  • Ways to respond to your partner’s feelings so you can gain their trust once again
  • 13 communication techniques so you can be confident approaching discussions with your partner
  • Ways to clarify your thoughts and feelings, increasing the likelihood that your partner will understand you

Now is the time to have a happier relationship, so begin applying these techniques today.

©2020 Nic Saluppo (P)2020 Nic Saluppo

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I wish I'd read this sooner in life...

I want to give copies to all my loved ones. it's totally worth it.

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Exactly what I needed. Healthy Communication 101

I really needed to find something that laid out basic groundwork for healthy communication. This was it! Thank you!

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Enjoyable and beneficial

if there's one thing that I've grown to understand since starting to work on myself to improve my relationship is that relationships and communication are not common sense. I felt this book to be a great tool to help me break the ice on tough conversations with my significant other. the audiobook was also very easy to listen to. highly recommend to anyone

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Exceptional

Found this very interesting
I love how the author breaks communication down to some very simple techniques and pushes one to be accountable.

I found great value in this and will be listening to this over and over again until i get it right!

What a great gift, to be able to communicate without fighting , what you need and want in life and a relationship

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I truly enjoyed listening to your book and received several very helpful techniques to use in different relationships (i.e. work, personal, and events with family).

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A Must Read or Listen

This book had quite of few things that I will definitely implement in my life moving forward. It also helped bring some of the anxiety levels down with having to communicate my feelings openly and being receptive to my partner.

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Very good information

I found this book very helpful in making me think about communicating with my spouse. A few parts didn’t seem to apply to my particular circumstances.

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Brief but powerful!

I really enjoyed this book. For the first time in my marriage I have left home after a major argument. I listened to this book while in a friend’s guest bedroom. There were so many relative pints and great techniques to put I to practice. I’m actually motivated to begin putting them into practice.

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Never knew

Great book and very simple applications. Must of his stories I could relate too. I really enjoyed

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Very helpful & informative

Simple tips to help improve toxic cycles. I found this very helpful & the examples given could not be more on point to resolving relationship issues.

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