• I Love You but I Don’t Trust You

  • The Complete Guide to Restoring Trust in Your Relationship
  • By: Mira Kirshenbaum
  • Narrated by: Emily Durante
  • Length: 7 hrs and 24 mins
  • 4.6 out of 5 stars (768 ratings)

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I Love You but I Don’t Trust You

By: Mira Kirshenbaum
Narrated by: Emily Durante
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Publisher's summary

Is my relationship worth saving? Will the trust ever come back? How can things be good between us again? Whether broken trust is due to daily dishonesties, a monumental betrayal, or even a history of hurts from the past, it can put a relationship at risk. This is the first book to show you exactly what to do to restore trust in your relationship, regardless of how it was damaged.

In this complete guide, couples therapist Mira Kirshenbaum will also help you understand the stages by which trust strengthens when the rebuilding process is allowed to take place. And you will learn how the two of you can avoid the mistakes that prevent healing and discover how to feel secure with each other again.

©2012 Mira Kirshenbaum (P)2016 Tantor

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must read

This book is a must-read. It had many helpful tools and included many questions to ask yourself when considering leaving or staying in a relationship. The questions are tough, to the point and very succinct.

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Thumbs up!

Very informative and a great help. Overall I loved the book!
The only issue I had was the few, occasional swearing.

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If you are struggling with a betrayal, LISTEN!

This book has been extremely helpful. I never thought I could regain trust once betrayed, but this book has given me a completely different perspective. I am so thankful to have found it when I was in such a bad place. It is a good balance between real life stories and counseling. If you are hurt and betrayed, or if you betrayed someone and cannot fully understand why that person is so hurt, listen to this book. I felt like it was my support for the way I was feeling, and it gave me hope for a trusting future.

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Very Insightful

Explained well and great tools to combat the issues... just picked up her book "Why Couples Fight"

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Great read

a very good book for someone that holds grudges for a long time explains why not to do that and how to heal quick as possible after I misunderstanding

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Simply Wonderful

This book has been just a blessing! While affairs are never fun, Mira does a fantastic job and portraying different viewpoints, scenarios, etc to relate to everyone! If you want to work through this bump in your relationship, it’s totally attainable and you can be happier than even before.

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Right on and filled with real experiences.

Reality based audible with real relationship perspective and solutions for developing long lasting healthy relationships.

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So worth it

Very helpful, informative and gives you tools and exercises to break things down in to your own personal situation.

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Best book on how to work through feeling betrayed

This is the first book I’ve read about trust that made sense. It made me feel like everything I went through wasn’t abnormal. The examples of other couple’s experiences were easy to relate to. She gives advice for moving forward that is easy to use. So thankful for finding this book and how much it has helped me through my feelings of being betrayed.

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Helped Me Start Rebuilding Trust

Good book for those that truly want to trust someone after a betrayal. Definitely worth taking notes. Do not expect the entire book to be about romantic relationships/partnerships. Some references go back to friends/family but I still found those references useful.

Barely any curse words as others mentioned are in this book. Probably heard curse words 5 times max.

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