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The Five Love Languages: The Secret to Love That Lasts Audiobook

The Five Love Languages: The Secret to Love That Lasts

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Why we think it's Essential: In a conversational and sincere tone, Gary Chapman practices what he preaches: clear, concise communication. I've heard from AudibleListeners that Chapman's words have inspired them to be better partners in relationships. What's not to love? —Diana Dapito

Publisher's Summary

Dr. Gary Chapman identifies five basic languages of love and then guides couples towards a better understanding of their unique languages of love. Learn to speak and understand your mate's love language, and in no time you will be able to effectively love and truly feel loved in return. Skillful communication is within your grasp!

Download the accompanying reference guide.

©2005 Gary Chapman; (P)2005 Oasis Audio LLC

What the Critics Say

  • 2005 Audie Award Winner, Personal Development/Motivational

" "Whether your marriage needs a tune-up or a major overhaul, these are powerful prescriptions delivered by a genial, wise man." (AudioFile)

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    Sam Motes Tampa 09-22-13
    Sam Motes Tampa 09-22-13 Listener Since 2009
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    "Relationship coaching"

    Interesting insight into why spouses often don't see eye to eye due to competing love languages. About 20% of the book was pure marketing for other books by the author. Hoped for more substance.

    2 of 2 people found this review helpful
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    Yael Anchorage, AK, USA 10-09-09
    Yael Anchorage, AK, USA 10-09-09
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    "A must-read for every couple"

    This book teaches the basic idea of love languages and how they affect our relationships; if you only read one self-help book for marriage, this is the one. We have applied the understanding of the love languages into our marriage and found it very helpful in communicating and understanding each other.

    4 of 5 people found this review helpful
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    Jana MINNEAPOLIS, MN, United States 06-25-16
    Jana MINNEAPOLIS, MN, United States 06-25-16 Member Since 2015
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    "A Silver Bullet?!"

    Wonderfully simple, practical concepts that provide us truly effective methods of expressing and receiving love. Any and all relationships could benefit from the information contained in this book. While it is written from a Christian perspective and focuses almost exclusively on married couples experiencing some level of dysfunction in their marriages, the material can be interpreted in any way that best serves your needs. I myself am not a Christian nor am I married, but this has offered wonderful clarity and help to me and my significant other as we co-create the relationship of our dreams together. Hoping to put these lessons to use to set us up for success so we won't need the damage control down the road!

    1 of 1 people found this review helpful
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    J Zimmer 01-18-13
    J Zimmer 01-18-13
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    "Yes, but is knowing without practice enough?"
    Would you consider the audio edition of The Five Love Languages: The Secret to Love That Lasts to be better than the print version?

    I have not, and will not buy the print version. This provided what i considered to be the "lite" version of therapy, which accentuates a "pixie dust" mentality to working on relationships, but it is a good start - but just a good start.


    Would you be willing to try another book from Gary Chapman? Why or why not?

    No. I was a little disappointed. Self-help books to me often provide over-simplified solutions to hard questions and situations. I would put this in that subject category, because the author and narrator over-emphasizes positive results. He can do this because he is a therapist who has practiced over 20 years. The best way to learn about relationship and successful marriage and couple therapy, is to be able to show the failures as well as the successes. Gary Chapman chooses to focus 97% of his time on successes.


    Have you listened to any of Gary Chapman’s other performances before? How does this one compare?

    No i have not, and would not be interested.


    What insight do you think you’ll apply from The Five Love Languages: The Secret to Love That Lasts?

    I do like the categories, and was able to identify my language and that of my husband's.


    Any additional comments?

    As a book for the masses, and a place to start in trying to understand communication difficulties, this book is wonderful, but a little too simplistic. A little over-hyped. I can only imagine a couple coming to therapy mis- "labeling" each other, only adding confusion to the mix. I would skip the first three or four chapters; they are repetitive and sort of blah blah filler material - horrible for a long car trip and rather numbing on a highway. The chapters that actually deal with each of the 5 languages are insightful, and provide some great stories. I enjoyed the Audible book, 'The Greatest Salesman' by Og Mandino more than this book.Many people will like this book, and I know its popular, but consider it only a place to start, not the solution.

    1 of 1 people found this review helpful
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    Thomas Sewell, NJ, United States 07-19-10
    Thomas Sewell, NJ, United States 07-19-10 Member Since 2014
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    "Like it, good general principles"

    Understanding that we all have different ways of communicating and listening has got to help you. Its not a cure-all as promoted, but a methodology. If you are having communcations issues, please do listen and absorb this. Its helps me. I am not much into the some of the religious implications/references that some of these books add in. Its not that there are 5 or 10 or any number of languages, its that you could be missunderstanding the other person and this book can help so go for it.

    3 of 4 people found this review helpful
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    Christopher Centerport, NY, USA 04-12-08
    Christopher Centerport, NY, USA 04-12-08
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    "Interesting-ish"

    This book seems to be written as an attempt to help couples on the rocks save their marriages. If you don't know or understand the basic principals of this book, I highly doubt this will be the fix you are looking for. On the other hand, if you have a good relationship and are looking to make it better, this should help do the trick. Be prepared for the authors strong southern drawl and some cheesy ideas. As with most "how-to" books, personal adaptation is the key.

    11 of 16 people found this review helpful
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    Tim Westborough, MA, USA 08-25-07
    Tim Westborough, MA, USA 08-25-07
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    "Great content"

    Why couldn't we all learn about the 5 love languages BEFORE we got married. After a lot of self-learning in 16 years of marriage, this could have saved a lot of difficulty over the years. Don't get me wrong, there's no such thing as a quick fix but the awareness and lessons you pick up by learning the 5 love languages is invaluable for a marriage in any state or stage. The actual reading isn't riviting but Gary does a very good job explaining and providing examples.

    3 of 4 people found this review helpful
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    Carolyn Palm Harbor, FL, USA 05-17-07
    Carolyn Palm Harbor, FL, USA 05-17-07 Member Since 2016
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    "I Learned Something!!"

    Found this book on sale and was in the mood for some 'self-help' inspiration. This book actually provided some thoughtful inspiration ... a different perspective on the way we love. I liked it. Be aware that there is a religious undertone (Christian)- not offensive, but it is a presence. All in all I think this book is well worth the reading. Liked that the principles could be applied in any love relationship , not just for couples but for families and children as well.

    1 of 1 people found this review helpful
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    Tullan Bennett 05-07-15
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    "Great way to understand others"

    Even if you are single. I can see how easy or would be to miss what someone else needs because it's not what I need.

    2 of 3 people found this review helpful
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    Julie Vancouver, BC, Canada 11-18-13
    Julie Vancouver, BC, Canada 11-18-13 Member Since 2016

    I'm a writer and a yoga teacher with a Masters in English Literature.

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    "Love for Christian Fanatics"
    What could have made this a 4 or 5-star listening experience for you?

    I was wary of the self-help title of the book, but got really turned off when I found out about the extreme American Christianity of the writer. I felt like he was going to sell me something at the end. Maybe my soul back from the devil who stole it.


    Who would you have cast as narrator instead of Gary Chapman?

    The narrator was appropriate, he had kind of a Texas accent, adding to the American Everyman vibe I think the book was trying to go for, so I think that was probably a good thing. If you like that sort of thing.


    What reaction did this book spark in you? Anger, sadness, disappointment?

    Discomfort and boredom. I like the principle of the book, and perhaps I could have learned something from it if I didn't get so turned off by the gee-golly innocent Christian-ness of the narrator. It just didn't sound like reality. My love tank for this book is empty.


    Any additional comments?

    If you are Christian and get something out of self help books, if you think they actually help you and are not a cynical lapsed Christian like me, you might actually enjoy this book and learn something from it. Still, I thought his examples of the things people were going through made the people going through it seem kind of stupid, and I believe anyone who thinks critically and does mindfulness work will figure this kind of stuff out by themselves, rather than labelling everyone's love language and thinking they have it figured out.

    2 of 3 people found this review helpful
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  • Aaran Mason
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    6/10/16
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    "Brilliant for any relationship"

    As a counsellor I now use this language within the counselling room. Dealing with couples can be deep as there is more to issues than just the different ways to show love but this really helps and is a great tool for all counsellors when some of the deeper attachment stuff has been covered.

    0 of 0 people found this review helpful
  • jollytea
    5/2/16
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    "Extremely powerful"

    Simple yet powerful way to understand how love can growth and fade in relationships. It's so obvious, once you know, but none of us seem to work it out on our own! Highly recommended.

    0 of 0 people found this review helpful
  • Bernice
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    4/9/16
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    "Relationship Magic!"

    This audiobook is inspirational, a must for any relationship.

    The principles seem really simple, are easy to apply and sound very effective.

    The book is short, but there is lots of very helpful information and many interesting case examples.

    I have heard many people talk about this book and can now recommend it, as it is very, very good.

    0 of 0 people found this review helpful
  • Keitho
    3/5/16
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    "Brilliant "

    love it love it
    I will recommend this book to everyone
    it's the best book I have read for the year so far.

    0 of 0 people found this review helpful
  • Marats Stelihs
    3/4/16
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    "100% think every couple should read this book"

    The languages described are so simple and we already use them but maybe no aware of it. The tools can be used in other relationships as well - friendship, with work colleagues, children and basically any human being. Love it!

    0 of 0 people found this review helpful
  • Moayad
    2/13/16
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    "too long."

    way too long. he could have shortened the book a bit. too much unneeded details

    0 of 0 people found this review helpful
  • Carl
    1/24/16
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    "Understanding love, yes. Religion, no thanks."

    A bit religious in places but otherwise very thought provoking. Definitely makes you a more conscious partner.

    0 of 0 people found this review helpful
  • Mahmood
    11/6/15
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    "Inspiring talk from a human experience"

    This book inspired me to think in a major part of our live
    Although still i think there a lot of things that still not covered in husband and wife relation ships.

    0 of 0 people found this review helpful
  • Siona P.
    9/6/15
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    "Great book for relationships, really helpful."

    This book gives really great advice and has really helped my husband and I to understand each other better. The only down sides are the sometimes heavy religious content and the authors somewhat strong southern states accent, which I found occasionally distracting from the actual content.

    0 of 0 people found this review helpful
  • Gloria Sturdy
    8/3/15
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    "Every engaged couple should be given this book"

    Then we would see a turn around of divorces. Every Mother In Law should buy one for their engaged couple before they get married. A superb book with great verbal illustrations on how marriages have changed.

    0 of 0 people found this review helpful

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