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Feeling Good Together Audiobook

Feeling Good Together: The Secret to Making Troubled Relationships Work

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Publisher's Summary

We all know people who are hard to get along with. It might be your spouse, mother, neighbor, friend, or colleague. In his new book Feeling Good Together, Dr. David D. Burns describes Cognitive Interpersonal Therapy (CIT), a radically different method for developing more loving and satisfying relationships with the people you care about.

Based on 25 years of clinical experience and new, groundbreaking research involving more than 1,000 individuals, Feeling Good Together is filled with helpful examples and tools, such as the Relationship Satisfaction Test, the Blame Cost-Benefit Analysis, the Relationship Journal, Five Secrets of Effective Communication, the Intimacy Exercise, and more. Using these techniques, Dr. Burns shows you how to resolve virtually any kind of relationship conflict almost instantly.

©2008 David D. Burns, M.D.; (P)2008 Tantor

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    Heather Boston, MA, USA 03-24-09
    Heather Boston, MA, USA 03-24-09
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    "Useful book, supplementary material unavailable"

    Like its predecessor, "Feeling Good," this book goes beyond fluffy pop psychology. It gives you some concrete cognitive behavioral therapy tools for improving your relationships.

    That said, I am very displeased that it is labeled "unabridged," but refers to supplementary content, such as a questionnaire for evaluating your satisfaction in a relationship, that is apparently unavailable. To me, the book is less valuable without access to this content, hence the three-star rating.

    22 of 23 people found this review helpful
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    Jeffrey J. Ardo 03-20-10

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    "Best yet for communications Skills"

    I like this book/audio the best so far. Very good advice through out, now if I can just put it into action. The supplemental material can be found here.
    http://www.tantor.com/Illust_extra.asp?Product=0820_FeelingGood&num=1

    24 of 26 people found this review helpful
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    automofo 02-10-15
    automofo 02-10-15

    I'm one good question away from the answer

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    "powerful tools"

    Dr Burns gives you tools to communicate with people that you've built resentment with etc. A great way to change frustrating problems into solution.

    4 of 4 people found this review helpful
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    Raoul Brookline, CA, United States 08-18-09
    Raoul Brookline, CA, United States 08-18-09
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    "Disappointed - Not enough theory"

    I heard Dr. Burns talk about his work on a psychology podcast and was enchanted. He talked easily and excitedly about his theories of why most traditional couples' counseling fails, and why his new eclectic cognitive approach is more successful. But this audiobook has none of that intellectual and theoretical power. It is instead a plodding book filled with references to worksheets and questionnaires. I bought it as someone interested in theory and psychology who likes thinking about how to negotiate the complexity of relationships. This is truly not that kind of book. It is much more for the layperson who can't afford counseling and wants to try a workbook approach. It takes many chapters for him to actually get to the meat of his theory. By that point I feel a little misled, as if the introduction to the book - which promises to offer secrets to dissolve interpersonal conflict - has really only enticed me to buy the book.

    9 of 11 people found this review helpful
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    E. Coverage NYC 08-05-09
    E. Coverage NYC 08-05-09 Member Since 2014
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    "WE NEED MORE!"

    This book has a lot of real life exemplas that we all go true on regular basis.
    I wish Dr. Burns would have all his other best selling books available in audio as well.
    Can't wait!
    Thanks

    9 of 12 people found this review helpful
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    Patty 05-06-15
    Patty 05-06-15
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    "Practice and these techniques work!"

    Everyone one should read this book. Anyone in any kind of relationship, if you really care about the relationship then this book is a must read

    1 of 1 people found this review helpful
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    Wendy 10-15-10
    Wendy 10-15-10
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    "For the clueless not the introspective"

    This book seems to be aimed for those who are just beginning to look into how their own behavior affects their relationships. I have read many books, taken classes and seminars about relationships and emotional intelligence and have been in marriage counseling with my husband for 8 years and in personal therapy for even longer. The concepts presented here are for some one who believes that all of their issues are due to the other person's failings and does not recognize their own contribution to a troubled relationship. The tone of the book is not for the well informed or educated, thoughtful person, but for the "brute or bitch" who would not even be introspective enough to buy a book on improving relationships.

    11 of 20 people found this review helpful
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    Levi S. 12-07-16
    Levi S. 12-07-16 Member Since 2016
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    "Just finished listening and about to start the book again"

    Have already put into practice the advice shared in this incredible read. Super applicable! I've been in a bit of a slump emotionally and am now realizing the importance of how you frame things and share your emotions in conversation. I had already been doing this, but not with the pazaz found here! Gonna consume it over and over again until it becomes second nature. Thank you for investing this knowledge into my life.

    0 of 0 people found this review helpful
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    Rebecca Sheldon 10-21-16 Member Since 2014
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    "review of book"

    there were great ideas and help with words I didn't know how to say things and ideas about my behavior I wouldn't have recognized otherwise. I didn't enjoy at all the bad language. I am not happy to try to listen to a book that would help me but has language that is just what I don't want put in my brain. Seems the same idea can be put across without the use of bad language.

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    Timaree Hagenburger 08-30-16 Member Since 2016
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    "Excellent resource"

    Full of fantastic examples and practice opportunities. Easy to follow, engaging and practical. Will be helpful for all aspects of life involving interpersonal communication.

    0 of 0 people found this review helpful

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