I was confused about my ext husband's behavior. I tried multiple different approaches. After a recent escalation I was drawn to this book. I understand now. It is a real relief to have some answers. I wish there was more I could do to break the spell but since I am the ex-wife my input is dismissed and ignored. I can at least stay away and understand from a distance what is going on. Thank you.
Why are girls so insecure? I know plenty of girls that could benefit from listening to this book (insecure guys too, sometimes it's a two way street). Not only has the book described scenarios from guys I have dated recently but my ex-husband as well. I have been a fool, now I will turn over a new leaf. It seemed like he didn't care because he didn't, he just wasn't that into me...easy as that.
I really appreciate how she stresses not having sex for money. This book has a great deal of useful information on how to deal with men. I think her personal tactics are a bit harsh, one could maybe use some of her suggestions and soften their personal approach.