• 1. How to overcome shame
    May 1 2015

    Our popular online coaching program guiding you all the way from social anxiety to social confidence is now OPEN!

    You can sign up from 24th Feb to 29th Feb midnight EST!

    Use this opportunity to secure one of the limited spots and be guided to social confidence in the most effective and gentle way, from the comfort of your own home!

    All info at
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    P.S. Don’t hesitate and go there now! We only open the Club once a year for 5 days! Use this chance!!

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    Emma is an ex-social anxiety sufferer, and a therapist with decades of experience. She's dealt with shame extensively both personally (a blushing problem) and professionally as she specialises working with highly sensitive areas such as trauma and sexual abuse.

    Emma is an EFT Master and Master Trainer, Clinical Hypnotherapist and NLP Master Practitioner.

    We address shame in detail, and share how to overcome it.

    Emma is the co-founder of Integrated Energy Techniques (IET), which brings together Energy Psychology and the very best ways of working with Ericksonian Hypnosis, NLP, Coaching, Psycho-spiritual approaches and Cognitive Psychotherapy.

    QUOTE: “Don’t waste time thinking you’re stuck, thanks to this you can now take control of your life and change it faster than you might think”

    Emma's show notes page

    My homepage (find the 12 shortcuts to social confidence here):
    www.social-anxiety-solutions.com

    Contact me directly:
    www.social-anxiety-solutions.com/contact/

    Warm regards,
    Sebastiaan van der Schrier

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    Do you feel awkward in social situations? Do you struggle to be yourself around others?
    And do you fear being judged, being seen anxious, and embarrassing yourself?

    You’re not alone.
    I’ve been there. It sucks. Big time.
    But there’s hope. I’ve been fortunate enough to overcome my Social Anxiety...
    ... and I’ve helped hundreds of socially anxious clients overcome their struggles too.

    Thankfully, there’s a gentle, powerful, and effective solution to beat it.

    It won’t happen overnight, but with certain techniques and strategies, you can reduce your Social Anxiety quickly.
    And with persistence, you can become completely anxiety-free.
    Without needing to force yourself to awkwardly face your fears.

    Ready to get started on your journey to Social Confidence?

    Here are your first steps:
    1.) Follow this Podcast and always get the latest episodes!

    2.) Go to https://bit.ly/socialconfidencepodcast and receive access to a short transformational video to reduce your anxiety immediately. AND you’ll also get my FREE “7 Secrets to Social Confidence” Mini Course.

    3.) Let’s connect!
    • SUBSCRIBE to my YouTube channel https://www.youtube.com/@Social-anxiety-solutions
    • FB https://www.facebook.com/socialanxietysolutions
    • IG https://www.instagram.com/socialanxietysolutions
    • Twitter https://twitter.com/socialanxietysb

    All the best on your journey to effortless social ease.

    Warm regards,
    Seb

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    51 mins
  • 2. Releasing the need to be perfect
    May 1 2015

    Our popular online coaching program guiding you all the way from social anxiety to social confidence is now OPEN!

    You can sign up from 24th Feb to 29th Feb midnight EST!

    Use this opportunity to secure one of the limited spots and be guided to social confidence in the most effective and gentle way, from the comfort of your own home!

    All info at
    bit.ly/socialconfidenceclub

    P.S. Don’t hesitate and go there now! We only open the Club once a year for 5 days! Use this chance!!

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    Carol Look has a distinguished background in traditional psychotherapy, was trained as a Clinical Social Worker and earned her Doctoral Degree in Clinical Hypnotherapy.

    This was before she became one of the only 29 EFT Masters in the world.

    Carol is known for combining her background in traditional psychotherapy with “energy medicine” and she appears as a practitioner and energy therapy expert in the DVD documentary “The Tapping Solution” as well as in the documentary focusing on helping veterans suffering from PTSD, “Operation: Emotional Freedom.”

    She has extensive experience helping people overcome perfectionism and shares how to overcome social perfectionism once and for all.

    QUOTE: ""This technique hands down has been the best thing for anxiety and has not let me down for 18 years."

    Carol's show notes page

    My homepage (find the 12 shortcuts to social confidence here):
    www.social-anxiety-solutions.com

    Contact me directly:
    www.social-anxiety-solutions.com/contact/

    Warm regards,
    Sebastiaan van der Schrier

    _________________________________________________________________

    Do you feel awkward in social situations? Do you struggle to be yourself around others?
    And do you fear being judged, being seen anxious, and embarrassing yourself?

    You’re not alone.
    I’ve been there. It sucks. Big time.
    But there’s hope. I’ve been fortunate enough to overcome my Social Anxiety...
    ... and I’ve helped hundreds of socially anxious clients overcome their struggles too.

    Thankfully, there’s a gentle, powerful, and effective solution to beat it.

    It won’t happen overnight, but with certain techniques and strategies, you can reduce your Social Anxiety quickly.
    And with persistence, you can become completely anxiety-free.
    Without needing to force yourself to awkwardly face your fears.

    Ready to get started on your journey to Social Confidence?

    Here are your first steps:
    1.) Follow this Podcast and always get the latest episodes!

    2.) Go to https://bit.ly/socialconfidencepodcast and receive access to a short transformational video to reduce your anxiety immediately. AND you’ll also get my FREE “7 Secrets to Social Confidence” Mini Course.

    3.) Let’s connect!
    • SUBSCRIBE to my YouTube channel https://www.youtube.com/@Social-anxiety-solutions
    • FB https://www.facebook.com/socialanxietysolutions
    • IG https://www.instagram.com/socialanxietysolutions
    • Twitter https://twitter.com/socialanxietysb

    All the best on your journey to effortless social ease.

    Warm regards,
    Seb

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    32 mins
  • Why this podcast and my story
    May 1 2015

    Our popular online coaching program guiding you all the way from social anxiety to social confidence is now OPEN!

    You can sign up from 24th Feb to 29th Feb midnight EST!

    Use this opportunity to secure one of the limited spots and be guided to social confidence in the most effective and gentle way, from the comfort of your own home!

    All info at
    bit.ly/socialconfidenceclub

    P.S. Don’t hesitate and go there now! We only open the Club once a year for 5 days! Use this chance!!

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    This show is for you when you're suffering from social anxiety and the standard tips don't work. You're frustrated, and worried you'll have to live with your social anxiety for the rest of your life. This podcast is for you.

    You'll hear from the super stars of the therapy and psychology world who have been originally trained psychologists or psychotherapists who have incorporated energy psychology into their practice. They share their most effective techniques, empowering solutions, and unbelievably inspiring stories of transformation and perspectives that help shortcut your journey to social confidence massively.

    Each show we discuss a social anxiety related topic (shame, self acceptance, sensitivity, bullying, fear of rejection, connection, loneliness, etc) and you'll get specific action steps to move forward each episode.

    In this intro podcast I share my story from social anxiety to social confidence. What worked for me and what didn't. And what you can do to make progress today.

    Thank you for listening.

    My homepage (find the 12 shortcuts to social confidence here):
    www.social-anxiety-solutions.com

    Contact me directly:
    www.social-anxiety-solutions.com/contact/

    Warm regards,
    Sebastiaan van der Schrier

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    Do you feel awkward in social situations? Do you struggle to be yourself around others?
    And do you fear being judged, being seen anxious, and embarrassing yourself?

    You’re not alone.
    I’ve been there. It sucks. Big time.
    But there’s hope. I’ve been fortunate enough to overcome my Social Anxiety...
    ... and I’ve helped hundreds of socially anxious clients overcome their struggles too.

    Thankfully, there’s a gentle, powerful, and effective solution to beat it.

    It won’t happen overnight, but with certain techniques and strategies, you can reduce your Social Anxiety quickly.
    And with persistence, you can become completely anxiety-free.
    Without needing to force yourself to awkwardly face your fears.

    Ready to get started on your journey to Social Confidence?

    Here are your first steps:
    1.) Follow this Podcast and always get the latest episodes!

    2.) Go to https://bit.ly/socialconfidencepodcast and receive access to a short transformational video to reduce your anxiety immediately. AND you’ll also get my FREE “7 Secrets to Social Confidence” Mini Course.

    3.) Let’s connect!
    • SUBSCRIBE to my YouTube channel https://www.youtube.com/@Social-anxiety-solutions
    • FB https://www.facebook.com/socialanxietysolutions
    • IG https://www.instagram.com/socialanxietysolutions
    • Twitter https://twitter.com/socialanxietysb

    All the best on your journey to effortless social ease.

    Warm regards,
    Seb

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    17 mins
  • 3. Bullying - how to overcome its negative effects
    May 7 2015

    Our popular online coaching program guiding you all the way from social anxiety to social confidence is now OPEN!

    You can sign up from 24th Feb to 29th Feb midnight EST!

    Use this opportunity to secure one of the limited spots and be guided to social confidence in the most effective and gentle way, from the comfort of your own home!

    All info at
    bit.ly/socialconfidenceclub

    P.S. Don’t hesitate and go there now! We only open the Club once a year for 5 days! Use this chance!!

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    Tania suffered from social anxiety for the longest time and has completely resolved it.

    She’s an NLP Trainer, EFT founding Master and Trainer, TAT Professional Trainer, Hypnotherapy Trainer and Practitioner.

    She’s featured on the BBC TV show Inside Out, as well as on a Swedish TV Show where she helped someone overcome a binge eating disorder.

    She has extensive experience working one on one with clients clearing fear and nerves in public speaking, including those who experience panic attacks, blushing and social phobia.

    We go into depth on bullying, share out own personal experiences, and give simple and effective techniques to eliminate (yes, not ease, not manage, eliminate!) the negative effects of bullying.

    QUOTE: "To me it’s not about “managing it" (the social anxiety), you really want to go for the full deal; it absolutely can be shifted”

    Tani's show notes page

    My homepage (find the 12 shortcuts to social confidence here):

    www.social-anxiety-solutions.com

    Contact me directly:
    www.social-anxiety-solutions.com/contact/

    Warm regards,
    Sebastiaan van der Schrier

    _________________________________________________________________

    Do you feel awkward in social situations? Do you struggle to be yourself around others?
    And do you fear being judged, being seen anxious, and embarrassing yourself?

    You’re not alone.
    I’ve been there. It sucks. Big time.
    But there’s hope. I’ve been fortunate enough to overcome my Social Anxiety...
    ... and I’ve helped hundreds of socially anxious clients overcome their struggles too.

    Thankfully, there’s a gentle, powerful, and effective solution to beat it.

    It won’t happen overnight, but with certain techniques and strategies, you can reduce your Social Anxiety quickly.
    And with persistence, you can become completely anxiety-free.
    Without needing to force yourself to awkwardly face your fears.

    Ready to get started on your journey to Social Confidence?

    Here are your first steps:
    1.) Follow this Podcast and always get the latest episodes!

    2.) Go to https://bit.ly/socialconfidencepodcast and receive access to a short transformational video to reduce your anxiety immediately. AND you’ll also get my FREE “7 Secrets to Social Confidence” Mini Course.

    3.) Let’s connect!
    • SUBSCRIBE to my YouTube channel https://www.youtube.com/@Social-anxiety-solutions
    • FB https://www.facebook.com/socialanxietysolutions
    • IG https://www.instagram.com/socialanxietysolutions
    • Twitter https://twitter.com/socialanxietysb

    All the best on your journey to effortless social ease.

    Warm regards,
    Seb

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    49 mins
  • Loving your sensitivity and feeling safe being vulnerable
    May 14 2015

    Our popular online coaching program guiding you all the way from social anxiety to social confidence is now OPEN!

    You can sign up from 24th Feb to 29th Feb midnight EST!

    Use this opportunity to secure one of the limited spots and be guided to social confidence in the most effective and gentle way, from the comfort of your own home!

    All info at
    bit.ly/socialconfidenceclub

    P.S. Don’t hesitate and go there now! We only open the Club once a year for 5 days! Use this chance!!

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This may forever shift your perspective on sensitivity and vulnerability and place it in a perspective that empowers and inspires you.


    Tom’s my close buddy and is an ex-professional MMA fighter. He practices a combination of Energy Psychology and intuitive physical therapy to facilitate deep levels of acceptance. 



    He's been on (and still is) a long journey of intense self-exploration, has lived in the jungle for 6 months, has done a 10 meditation retreat, and is the ideal man to speak to when it comes to owning your sensitivity and feeling safe enough to be vulnerable.

    We talk about the necessity of owning your sensitivity and getting yourself to a place where it becomes safe to be vulnerable. Tom grew up in the UK and sensitivity was seen as weak and pathetic. Same for where I’m from. This has set us both on a journey to exploring our sensitivity.

    
QUOTE: Being sensitive and being vulnerable is really a huge part of being able to connect with people. The more vulnerable and sensitive you allow yourself to be the more connected you feel with people.

    Tom's show notes page

    My homepage (find the 12 shortcuts to social confidence here):
    www.social-anxiety-solutions.com

    Contact me directly:
    www.social-anxiety-solutions.com/contact/

    Warm regards,
    Sebastiaan van der Schrier

    _________________________________________________________________

    Do you feel awkward in social situations? Do you struggle to be yourself around others?
    And do you fear being judged, being seen anxious, and embarrassing yourself?

    You’re not alone.
    I’ve been there. It sucks. Big time.
    But there’s hope. I’ve been fortunate enough to overcome my Social Anxiety...
    ... and I’ve helped hundreds of socially anxious clients overcome their struggles too.

    Thankfully, there’s a gentle, powerful, and effective solution to beat it.

    It won’t happen overnight, but with certain techniques and strategies, you can reduce your Social Anxiety quickly.
    And with persistence, you can become completely anxiety-free.
    Without needing to force yourself to awkwardly face your fears.

    Ready to get started on your journey to Social Confidence?

    Here are your first steps:
    1.) Follow this Podcast and always get the latest episodes!

    2.) Go to https://bit.ly/socialconfidencepodcast and receive access to a short transformational video to reduce your anxiety immediately. AND you’ll also get my FREE “7 Secrets to Social Confidence” Mini Course.

    3.) Let’s connect!
    • SUBSCRIBE to my YouTube channel https://www.youtube.com/@Social-anxiety-solutions
    • FB https://www.facebook.com/socialanxietysolutions
    • IG https://www.instagram.com/socialanxietysolutions
    • Twitter https://twitter.com/socialanxietysb

    All the best on your journey to effortless social ease.

    Warm regards,
    Seb

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    44 mins
  • Self acceptance - a key to social comfort
    May 21 2015

    Our popular online coaching program guiding you all the way from social anxiety to social confidence is now OPEN!

    You can sign up from 24th Feb to 29th Feb midnight EST!

    Use this opportunity to secure one of the limited spots and be guided to social confidence in the most effective and gentle way, from the comfort of your own home!

    All info at
    bit.ly/socialconfidenceclub

    P.S. Don’t hesitate and go there now! We only open the Club once a year for 5 days! Use this chance!!

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    Steve Wells is a psychologist. He has trained to the highest level in provocative therapy, has extensive training and experience in brief strategic therapy, and has been training counsellors and therapists for over 20 years.

    Together with Dr David Lake he also conducts personal development seminars and professional training workshops in Advanced EFT and Provocative Energy Techniques.

    He and Dr Lake developed Simple Energy Techniques (SET) and the unique advanced Energy-based approach Provocative Energy Techniques (PET).

    Steve shares his 30 day self acceptance journey, and let's you know how overcoming your social anxiety has to start with acceptance because non-self acceptance is a guaranteed way to keep your negative cycle of social anxiety happening.

    And paradoxically accepting yourself (starting with accepting where you are) is the beginning point of recovery.

    QUOTE: A lot of people are doing exposure therapy, feel the fear and do it anyway, and that’s good, but you know what, for some people that’s really harrowing, it’s really tough, and what techniques like tapping do is at the very least they take the edge off at the beginning so that it becomes a little bit easier. And over time, it becomes a lot easier.

    Steve's show notes page

    My homepage (find the 12 shortcuts to social confidence here):
    www.social-anxiety-solutions.com

    Contact me directly:
    www.social-anxiety-solutions.com/contact/

    Warm regards,
    Sebastiaan van der Schrier

    _________________________________________________________________

    Do you feel awkward in social situations? Do you struggle to be yourself around others?
    And do you fear being judged, being seen anxious, and embarrassing yourself?

    You’re not alone.
    I’ve been there. It sucks. Big time.
    But there’s hope. I’ve been fortunate enough to overcome my Social Anxiety...
    ... and I’ve helped hundreds of socially anxious clients overcome their struggles too.

    Thankfully, there’s a gentle, powerful, and effective solution to beat it.

    It won’t happen overnight, but with certain techniques and strategies, you can reduce your Social Anxiety quickly.
    And with persistence, you can become completely anxiety-free.
    Without needing to force yourself to awkwardly face your fears.

    Ready to get started on your journey to Social Confidence?

    Here are your first steps:
    1.) Follow this Podcast and always get the latest episodes!

    2.) Go to https://bit.ly/socialconfidencepodcast and receive access to a short transformational video to reduce your anxiety immediately. AND you’ll also get my FREE “7 Secrets to Social Confidence” Mini Course.

    3.) Let’s connect!
    • SUBSCRIBE to my YouTube channel https://www.youtube.com/@Social-anxiety-solutions
    • FB https://www.facebook.com/socialanxietysolutions
    • IG https://www.instagram.com/socialanxietysolutions
    • Twitter https://twitter.com/socialanxietysb

    All the best on your journey to effortless social ease.

    Warm regards,
    Seb

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    55 mins
  • Overcoming Fear of Rejection and expanding your comfort zone
    May 28 2015

    Our popular online coaching program guiding you all the way from social anxiety to social confidence is now OPEN!

    You can sign up from 24th Feb to 29th Feb midnight EST!

    Use this opportunity to secure one of the limited spots and be guided to social confidence in the most effective and gentle way, from the comfort of your own home!

    All info at
    bit.ly/socialconfidenceclub

    P.S. Don’t hesitate and go there now! We only open the Club once a year for 5 days! Use this chance!!

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    Rick Wilkes is an Emotional Freedom Coach who has been guiding people for over 23 years using energy healing and EFT Tapping and has worked with thousands of individuals. He blends a unique combination of body-centered and energetic approaches to activate authentic self-expression, personal power, calm confidence, and a warm sense of self-love in his clients.

    We discuss the fear of rejection, how to overcome it and expand your comfort zone. Rather than push yourself harshly, we speak of how to gently expand it, and listen to your body’s YES and NO’s.

    Rick shares “We coach around helping people build enough resilience so they can be out in the world with real people, but also have healthy boundaries that say “ow, you didn’t like what I said? Ow I wasn’t saying it for you”.

    QUOTE: Many people that have gone through this kind of process (tapping) become much more confident than your average person because you’re building up your resilience.

    Rick's show notes page

    My homepage (find the 12 shortcuts to social confidence here):
    www.social-anxiety-solutions.com

    Contact me directly:
    www.social-anxiety-solutions.com/contact/

    Warm regards,
    Sebastiaan van der Schrier

    _________________________________________________________________

    Do you feel awkward in social situations? Do you struggle to be yourself around others?
    And do you fear being judged, being seen anxious, and embarrassing yourself?

    You’re not alone.
    I’ve been there. It sucks. Big time.
    But there’s hope. I’ve been fortunate enough to overcome my Social Anxiety...
    ... and I’ve helped hundreds of socially anxious clients overcome their struggles too.

    Thankfully, there’s a gentle, powerful, and effective solution to beat it.

    It won’t happen overnight, but with certain techniques and strategies, you can reduce your Social Anxiety quickly.
    And with persistence, you can become completely anxiety-free.
    Without needing to force yourself to awkwardly face your fears.

    Ready to get started on your journey to Social Confidence?

    Here are your first steps:
    1.) Follow this Podcast and always get the latest episodes!

    2.) Go to https://bit.ly/socialconfidencepodcast and receive access to a short transformational video to reduce your anxiety immediately. AND you’ll also get my FREE “7 Secrets to Social Confidence” Mini Course.

    3.) Let’s connect!
    • SUBSCRIBE to my YouTube channel https://www.youtube.com/@Social-anxiety-solutions
    • FB https://www.facebook.com/socialanxietysolutions
    • IG https://www.instagram.com/socialanxietysolutions
    • Twitter https://twitter.com/socialanxietysb

    All the best on your journey to effortless social ease.

    Warm regards,
    Seb

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    55 mins
  • Do this and you can beat your SA don't do it and suffer forever
    Jun 4 2015
    Our popular online coaching program guiding you all the way from social anxiety to social confidence is now OPEN! You can sign up from 24th Feb to 29th Feb midnight EST! Use this opportunity to secure one of the limited spots and be guided to social confidence in the most effective and gentle way, from the comfort of your own home! All info at bit.ly/socialconfidenceclub P.S. Don’t hesitate and go there now! We only open the Club once a year for 5 days! Use this chance!! --- The most important thing to understand to beat your social anxiety is what we discuss today: "overcoming subconscious resistance". When you don't overcome this resistance, you cannot become anxiety-free. Ever. Lindsay Kenny, one of the only 29 EFT Founding Masters, a Life Coach, and EFT AAMET Trainer of Trainers is the expert on subconscious resistance and shares her wisdom on the podcast. She says “If you haven’t been able to overcome your problem you have a subconscious resistance to change.” Consciously you want to change, but your subconscious (which is much bigger than your conscious mind) says: “We’re not changing because if I go out into a social situation, I’m gonna get hurt, remember what happened last time?!” She also guides you through an exercise to overcome this subconscious resistance easily and quickly. This is a MUST-listen. QUOTE: Conventional psychology says “let’s desensitise you from that fear by forcing you to face it, little steps at a time where you grid your teeth and bite your finger nails, have your heart pounding and your knuckles white, and you’re just miserable doing it… And all the time your subconscious is yelling NO don’t make me do this!! Sometimes this (forcefully facing your fears) does work, but it’s so hard to do this. The simple thing is to just neutralise the subconscious resistance to changing. Lindsay's show notes page My homepage (find the 12 shortcuts to social confidence here): www.social-anxiety-solutions.com Contact me directly: www.social-anxiety-solutions.com/contact/ Warm regards, Sebastiaan van der Schrier _________________________________________________________________ Do you feel awkward in social situations? Do you struggle to be yourself around others? And do you fear being judged, being seen anxious, and embarrassing yourself? You’re not alone. I’ve been there. It sucks. Big time. But there’s hope. I’ve been fortunate enough to overcome my Social Anxiety... ... and I’ve helped hundreds of socially anxious clients overcome their struggles too. Thankfully, there’s a gentle, powerful, and effective solution to beat it. It won’t happen overnight, but with certain techniques and strategies, you can reduce your Social Anxiety quickly. And with persistence, you can become completely anxiety-free. Without needing to force yourself to awkwardly face your fears. Ready to get started on your journey to Social Confidence? Here are your first steps: 1.) Follow this Podcast and always get the latest episodes! 2.) Go to https://bit.ly/socialconfidencepodcast and receive access to a short transformational video to reduce your anxiety immediately. AND you’ll also get my FREE “7 Secrets to Social Confidence” Mini Course. 3.) Let’s connect! • SUBSCRIBE to my YouTube channel https://www.youtube.com/@Social-anxiety-solutions • FB https://www.facebook.com/socialanxietysolutions • IG https://www.instagram.com/socialanxietysolutions • Twitter https://twitter.com/socialanxietysb All the best on your journey to effortless social ease. Warm regards, Seb
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    51 mins